He is our grandfather and uncle. When I was a child, my cousin asked us that there were so many elders in the family, and there were two uncles and four uncles. Who's that uncle? Grandparents all laughed. There is no such title as uncle in a generation. If my grandfather is the boss, theoretically, an uncle is my grandfather! From then on, my cousin and I both loved to call each other Grandpa and Uncle. In our hearts, the relationship with grandpa, like the nickname' Uncle', is unique and full of love.
I used to laugh at children for the continuation of life, but these days I am' inheritance'; Have a deeper understanding of the word' continuation'. Looking at myself, I see too many positive influences and personality marks left by my uncle. I will see this beloved old man off for the last time tomorrow. With the sadness that I don't want to give up and have nowhere to put it, I'll share my uncle's legacy.
I like to show off one thing, that is, my grandparents both graduated from Tsinghua, and my grandfather-uncle knows five languages (English, Japanese, German, Russian and Korean). At the age of 73, I began to learn computer operation, and finally I can edit videos with professional software. These are not easy to learn, but everything is beautiful. He enjoys learning all his life and has a strong driving force for learning. Grandpa's love for learning has also influenced us subtly. Whenever we see an uncommon or polysemous word while watching TV, he will take out a thick dictionary to test us and tell us the meaning behind the word. When we were in primary school, he held a simple prize-winning knowledge contest for our grandchildren, so that our grandchildren could feel the sense of accomplishment brought by learning. At the same time, an uncle often reminds us that learning is a hard thing, and we need to be able to bear losses and setbacks. He said that when he was young, he memorized 200 words every day in a foreign language dictionary (500 or 100? My memory is vague), even if I forget more than half of it the next day, I will keep remembering the new ones and reviewing the old ones until I can easily consult the scientific literature of many countries. Now, on my way as a trainer, I not only take learning new things as fun, but also share the motivation of learning with more people. At the same time, I often remind myself that learning is a natural thing in daily life, so I should cherish the time to improve myself. There is nothing you can't learn, no matter how difficult it is.
Our uncle loves life, too. As a' gentleman' who grew up in Sinan Road, his life is very colorful. He loves reading & reading magazines, watching TV series, watching Beijing Opera, watching Yue Opera, traveling, eating delicious food, playing Tai Chi, surfing the Internet, sorting out information and getting together with classmates &; Comrades get together and are willing to make new friends. For our grandchildren, he also provided us with various conditions to experience the joy of life. As long as he is interested, it is good and worth encouraging, whether it is three minutes or a lifetime.
An uncle never raised us as children, but treated us as friends. When I was in the third grade, he took me to a cafe and asked me to order afternoon tea by myself. Then we slowly savor the beauty of the afternoon together. So in his eyes, there is no hobby that matches his age. He just needs to try and cultivate slowly. I spent my summer vacation in Beijing in junior high school, just curious about religion. No matter whether I go to temples or Taoist temples, my uncle doesn't have the superstitious rules and regulations of other old people. He is always willing to accompany me and give me a simple explanation. Just entering high school, a gym opened in front of my house, and an uncle gave me the first fitness card and a half. Although I have only been there four times, it gave me the courage to apply for an N+ 1 fitness card until I fell in love with fitness. After studying in England and returning to China during the summer vacation, I suddenly became interested in China's traditional operas. I immediately thought of inviting him to the opera with me. Although I was impatient, my uncle explained the background and culture of Chinese opera to me seriously. I have so many wonderful lives that I tried for the first time, all under the guidance and encouragement of an uncle. A few months ago, after the first teaching, I couldn't wait to proudly share it with an uncle in my hospital bed. Although his words are vague and need to be guessed repeatedly to understand his words, his eyes of support and affirmation have not changed.
I succeeded in becoming a foodie, and my uncle taught me! When I used to live in my grandmother's house, when my third aunt cooked barbecue, hot pot and seafood for us at home, my uncle never shared delicious food with our grandchildren. I still remember the delicious food we had together. Of course, eating at home is not enough. Tea time, he will give us a' take-away fee' to buy hamburgers and milk tea outside, and send him take-away. In fact, he knows that every time our quotation is much higher than the actual price, he is just conniving at us. In the past, our grandchildren used to like to pick up an uncle every once in a while, saying that his retirement salary was too high to help him spend money, and they would also invite us out to eat steak, spaghetti and various big meals. The most special blackmail is going to a buffet. When we paid the bill, an uncle found that he had forgotten to bring money, which embarrassed us. It made everyone laugh at him for a long time. I always thought that I would have a chance to take my grandparents out for a big meal with my salary, but when I hurried back from England, my uncle couldn't eat much because of ventilation, and his body was extremely inconvenient. In the last six months of my life, an uncle can only eat liquid every day, and he eats very little at the West Point I brought, which makes me very uncomfortable.
Grandma always said that one of our uncles was a joker. In fact, he is the most enthusiastic grandfather in the community. A few years ago, when he was in good health, he always liked to go out for a walk. Whether with the elder sister of the dry cleaner, with the uncle of the newsstand, or with the family of the photo printing shop, he always likes to talk a few words, listen to the gossip of his parents, and is willing to ask him for help if he has difficulties. Once, someone in the dry cleaner wanted to fight and make trouble. An uncle played Tai Chi in a club and was recommended as the club captain by other students. Bringing equipment, calling students and visiting at home were once a great pleasure in his later years. Now my third aunt has inherited my grandfather's love for community life and become a teacher of the community dance team, and I also like to be a' little clown' on the trip and meet various friends.
An uncle who works as an engineer in the Chinese Academy of Sciences (I just learned yesterday that he is actually the deputy director of the Shanghai Institute of Pharmacology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences. I always thought he was just a researcher and kept a low profile. ), he still has a heavy pedant atmosphere, likes to make plans and has a strict schedule. If he upset the original plan, he will be unhappy and angry. An uncle can chew words, but he can't tolerate typos in his eyes. If there is a mistake, he must correct it! I envy his exquisite and clean handwriting. An uncle likes to ask questions, but his questions are not easy to answer. The last question he asked me was "Who is your student?" . An uncle likes to trace back to the source. To explain logic and principles clearly, he needs to think carefully and not be sloppy. Influenced by this way of doing things, I often think a little more in my daily life, try to trace back to the source and list it as clearly as possible.
Alas, when writing this eulogy, I found that the impression of an uncle had become blurred, and this eulogy could not be carefully planned and traced back to the source. Since I heard that my grandfather was ill and rushed back to China five years ago, I was gradually ill in bed and couldn't take care of myself. But I always believe that my grandfather will get better. The wise old man who is smart and eager to learn, loves life and likes learning will soon come back to me and share the happiness of life together. I never imagined that at the end of 20 17, my grandfather's dance came to an abrupt end and I lost an uncle (in fact, I especially hope that I really have a relative who is an uncle now, so that I lose someone else, not my grandfather, and tears will overflow every time I hit my grandfather).
A wise man as enthusiastic as a friend,
The first mentor in life,
Relatives with 1/4 gene,
An elder who has been dependent for six years.
Alas, Harmonism is terrible, gout is terrible, cerebral infarction is terrible, acute myocardial infarction is terrible, but the most terrible thing is the time dance music that cannot be turned back as time goes by.
Our favorite grandpa, have a nice trip!
Thank you for accompanying my childhood, adolescence and youth and taking care of my life for 6 years. I have a good memory.
Thank you for cultivating my interest and drive in learning and setting an example for life.
Thank you for guiding me to experience the colorful beauty of life and benefit from it all my life.
Thank you for letting me see the handsome appearance that I should have since I was a child, and I can respect my heart.
Thank you for letting the family love each other and take good care of grandma in Qi Xin. Don't worry.
Time will not dilute my love for my grandfather and his influence on me, but will gradually dilute my little memory of him. This is also the reason why I wrote this article.
Dear friends and relatives must have some memories of my grandfather. If you want to mourn and record the story between my grandfather-Lu and you, please share it with me privately.