1, you can find a topic from the form of girls. For example, "You have lost weight recently." This is what many girls like to hear. Even if everyone knows what you said is a lie, girls still enjoy it. Everyone likes to listen to good words, which is better than saying, "You have gained weight again." Much better. Then from this, it extends to slimming, physical exercise, slimming products, consumption power and so on.

2. You can say "Your clothes are really nice". If the clothes are really bad, say "this dress is really special" and "anything you wear looks good" or something like that. Extend to dressing and shopping. Understand their understanding of boys and learn how to match clothes for boys.

3. "Your hairstyle is good." Then, ask her where she got her hair done, and then extend to the topic of different hairstyles, the change of her hairstyle, the reasons for the change and so on.

4. You can move from the above topics to movie stars, sports stars, hobbies of stars, interesting things, anecdotes and so on.

5. You can also shift from the above topics to values and talk about love, world outlook and values. If we talk tacitly, we can also get her mind involved, start reading minds and explore her inner world.