Two: don't trust people who praise you at first sight.
Three: Don't hate those who openly argue with you and criticize you.
Four: Never arrange for some people to collect what others say behind your back.
Five: Never use your right to gather some people in public to talk about others' evaluation of you, which is equivalent to tearing down your own platform.
Six: Don't answer any attacks on your life, only discuss meaningful things.
Seven: Don't defend yourself (in general), but you can clarify some opinions, some choices and some right and wrong.
Eight: It doesn't matter if you can't figure it out or take the blame. You are still you, and he is still him. A person who can't bear the blame can only be weak.
Nine: Don't refuse people casually, don't promise people casually, don't suspense people, and don't try to be brave.
Ten: Don't be in a hurry to express yourself or correct others. I'm watching, listening and thinking.
Eleven: Don't talk about others behind their backs.
Remember, interpersonal relationships are always two-way, how you treat others, how others treat you.
Thirteen: Never accept incitement or provocation.
Fourteen: When getting along with others, never consider what you can get from it.
Fifteen: Never think that anyone you meet is dumber than you, dumber than you, and easier to take the bait than you.
Sixteen: When you are surprised by someone, think about the benefits first. He may be helping you, at least objectively. Don't imagine others with hostility at once.
Seventeen: Never tangle with anyone. Your performance is the best answer and comfort to others.
Eighteen: Look for the combination point, contract and point instead of just staring at contradictions and differences, always be calm and calm, treat differences as normal, treat different opinions as reality, and make friends instead of being on pins and needles.
Nineteen: Never talk and think about problems from the perspective of personal interests, never argue with others, never argue with me, and never take it personally.
Twenty: Take the handling of interpersonal relationship as a special course, from which we can master our national conditions, history, society, structure, philosophy, tradition and fashion trends.
To err is human.
2. If you go too far, you are not afraid to change Confucius.
3, you need to tie the bell to solve the bell.
4, move with emotion, understand with reason
5. A single filament does not make a line, and one wood does not make a forest.
6. "gather all the thoughts, be loyal and benefit"; "Unity is strength, Mount Tai is the top priority"
7. "Be proud of unity and mutual assistance, and be ashamed of harming others."
8. Unite with powerful countries and help each other to rejuvenate the country.
9. Confucius: In a threesome, there must be a teacher.
10, a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as sweet as water. Zhuangzi is sweet wine.
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12, (a gentleman is kind at home and makes friends with wise men abroad)
13, don't give others what you don't want.
14, give me a peach in return, "give me a papaya, give it to Joan."
15, where you are sincere, the stone opens.
16, No common goal, no common goal, Liu Zongyuan
17, blame yourself with others' hearts, and forgive others with forgiving your own hearts.
18, generous and virtuous.
19, the wise know people, and the benevolent love others (Xunzi, knowing: understanding, enlightenment)
20. Peach blossoms flow deep into thousands of feet, which is not as good as Wang Lun's love for Li Bai.
3 1, Diligence is a cash cow and frugality is a cornucopia. -"Ancient and Modern Couplets, Rural Couplets"
2. Lazy and extravagant people are poor, and thrifty people are rich. -"Guanzi Situational Solution"
3. whatever you can't be frugal with yourself, take it from others. -Wei Qing Xi "Words in the Catalogue"
Only thrift can cherish happiness, and thrift can keep honesty. -Qian Qing Yong "Mr. An An in the Garden"
5. Virtue comes from thrift. -Song Sima Guang's "Cultivating Self-cultivation"
6. Be thrifty in the country and thrifty at home. -"Shangshu Yu Shu Dayu Mo"
7, for politics, public and clear. The way to get married is thrift and thrift. -Song Linbu's "Peace of Mind"
8. Poetry about thrift-from thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift. Sima Guang (Northern Song Dynasty)
9. only cultivate morality, but change your mind. -"Tong Mingjian" Volume 6, Taizu language
10, weeding at noon, sweat dripping down the soil, but Chinese food is hard.
1 1, from thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift. -Song Sima Guang's "Cultivating Self-cultivation"
12, frugality and simplicity, human virtue; Luxury and luxury are the great evils of human beings. -Xue Mingxuan "Reading Record" Volume 7
13, be famous for frugality and be famous for extravagance. -Song Sima Guang's "Cultivating Self-cultivation"
14, those who are thrifty at the end use enough, and those who are light at the end are safe. -Song Linbu's "Peace of Mind"
15, frugality is a gift of virtue, luxury is a great evil. -"Biography of Zhou Shuwei Xiao Kuan"
16, frugality is enough, frugality is scarce, frugality can lead a family, and frugality can lead a career. -"Ancient and Modern Book Integration, Family Model"
17, frugality can help others. -"Ancient and Modern Book Integration, Family Model"
18. Look at the sage countries of the past and be thrifty and extravagant. Li shangyin
19, a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to remember; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. [Qing] Zhu Yongchun
20, frugality and simplicity, human virtue. Xue u
4 1. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and we should treat them with the same mind.
-Lu Xun
2, Lu Yao knows horsepower, and people will see it for a long time.
-Yuan's Fight for Gratitude
3, life is expensive to know each other, why gold and money?
-Li Bai
4. No friends is better than no friends.
-Yun Dai Ying.
5. If you are near a saint, you will be wise; If you approach a fool, you will become stupid.
-Don Pi Rixiu
Friendship is the most precious thing between heaven and earth, and deep friendship is the greatest comfort in life.
-Zou Taofen
7, near Zhu Zhechi, near the ink is black
-Jin Fuxuan
8. Don't abandon great beauty with small evils, and don't forget great kindness with small grievances.
-Living in the clouds in the Qing Dynasty
9. A gentleman makes friends without flattery or slander.
I Ching
10, friendship is known as soon as you die, and friendship is known as soon as you are poor. One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is visible.
-"Historical Records"
1 1, the mountain is not high, there are immortals; The water is not deep, and the dragon is the spirit.
-Don Liu Yuxi
12, short and long.
-Qu Yuan in the Warring States Period
13, blame yourself, blame others.
—— Cai Yuanpei
14, only self-respect can win the respect of others.
-Wu Han
15, if you want to open people's hearts, you have to open your own, you have to accommodate people's hearts in your heart, and you have to push your heart into people's hearts first.
-Qian Hammer Book
16, people know each other, and you know each other.
Zhou Enlai
17, where you are sincere, the stone opens.
-"The Book of the Later Han Dynasty"
18, making friends means treating each other as equals and getting along sincerely.
-Ding Ling
19. Unity is strength, and division leads to extinction.
-Sun Yat-sen
20. Unity is power, and everyone admires gold.
-"Mandarin"
5 1. Respect your friends and keep your promise. -"The Wisdom of Ben Silas after the Bible"
A person's greatest love is to give to his friends. -"New Testament John"
To provide convenience for friends is to do good for yourself. -Erasmus
When your friends talk to you, don't be afraid to say "no" in your heart, and don't hide "yes" in your heart. When he is silent, your heart still has to listen to his heart; Because in friendship, without words, all thoughts, all wishes and all hopes occur in silent joy and are enjoyed. Gibran
True friendship always foresees each other's needs, not announces what they need. Mo Luoya
6. Friendship between men is based on personal opinions and interests, and communication between women is based on common destiny. Simon Bova
7. No friendship is eternal. People come and go in your life. Sometimes, the process of friendship is short and limited. sophia loren
8. The difference between friendship and love is that friendship means two people and the world, while love means that two people are the world. In friendship, one plus one equals two; One plus one is still one in love.
Tagore
9. Friendship will never tolerate long-term and frequent advice. Robert Lind
10, friends are good friends. If friendship lasts, we must be humble and considerate to each other. -Chaucer
It's not reliable to make friends with powerful people. Phedros
12, the most important thing is to make as many friends as possible to deal with the fear of enemies outside; For those who cannot make friends, at least avoid making enemies with them; If you can't even do this, then you should try to avoid associating with them and alienate them for your own benefit. Epicurus
13, may friendship have no other purpose than deepening the soul. Gibran
14, those who can only enjoy with you, but can't suffer with you, lost a key in the seven doors of heaven. Gibran
15. Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. Gibran
16, the so-called care is to be considerate of others. Thoughtfulness is not serious, but implicit and expressionless. -Suzuki Kenji
17. Before trusting a person, eat a lot of salt with him. anonymous
18, friends flatter each other, friendship is worthless. -Varol
19, everyone can benefit from being understood. Mo Luoya
It is wise to use the refined oil of "Li" in the mechanical device of "Friendship". -Colette
2 1, the closest friend is often the wrong enemy. -About Messi
22. Friends should abide by the following rules: Don't ask others to behave shamelessly, and if asked, refuse. -Cicero
It is often our friends who make us wrestle. Hugo
24. When you are in an important position, you will not be willing to receive friends; Only when he is depressed and sad will he need the sympathy of his friends. Sadie
25. The courtier gets love; People who sacrifice friendship have friends; Happy are those who strive to create happiness. Mo Luoa
26. Only lonely people know all the happiness of friendship, and others have their own families; For those who live alone and leave home, friends are everything. Willa Cather
27. A suspicious person can never be a good friend. Friendship needs complete trust: either complete trust or complete distrust. If we constantly analyze, calibrate, sew and restore confidence, then confidence can only increase the distress of love in life, but we will never get the strength and help from love ... but what if confidence is abused? It doesn't matter: I'd rather be cheated by a fake friend than doubt a true friend. Mo Luoya
28. An accidental opportunity, a hope and a word will show the soul and personality. A welcome compulsion, or a firm will, makes this new sympathy gradually grow and even determine. We can reach the point of soul-to-heart, which is better than the degree of empathy with outsiders, but far more than our flesh and blood relatives. Mo Luoya
29. It is impossible for us to tell the exact moment when friendship was formed. Just like dropping water into a container, the last drop overflows the container; The same is true of many friendly words and deeds. It is the last time that people understand each other and friendship lasts forever. -Bao Si Will.
Friendship is the same as love. Only by living among friends who can get along naturally, without affectation and lies, will you feel happy. Mo Luoya
6 1, the relationship between acquaintances and friendship is like flirting to love-excited, but not satisfied. Alec wo
Friendship is the combination of souls, and this combination can be divorced. This is a tacit agreement between two sensitive and honest people. -Voltaire
Only to friends can you pour out your worries, joys, fears and hopes, doubts and joys. bacon
Nothing is more dangerous than an ignorant friend. Better have smart enemies. -Lafontaine
A gentle attitude is really a great comfort to a despised heart. -romain rolland
6. If there is misunderstanding between friends, we should exchange views frankly and never stab people in the back. If there is a mistake, you should persuade him to his face and praise his merits behind his back. Ekiken Kaibara
7. Help friends maintain friendship; Forgive the enemy for gaining influence. Franklin
8. There are many reasons for friendship between people, natural, contractual, selfish and homosexual. Jay Taylor
9. People who limit friendship to two people seem to confuse the sense of security of wise friendship with the jealousy and stupidity of love. -Adam Smith
10, it is not difficult to die for a friend, but it is difficult to find a friend worth dying for. -Mho
1 1. People who make friends with you because they are profitable will also break up with you because they are unprofitable. Seneca
12, who wants to meet a friendly person in the world and experience the state of caring for each other is to taste the joy of heaven and earth. -romain rolland
There is only one way to understand people: don't be impatient when judging people. -San Pevi
14, the person who can be honest with you is your best friend. -boswell
15, visit more friends who are in danger instead of becoming popular. Kellen
16, even if people all over the world hate you, they all believe you are a bad person. As long as you have a clear conscience, you will not be without friends. charlotte brontexq
17. Openness and friendship should not be measured by the length of time. -Balzac
18. When you encounter great troubles in your life, friendship should be an effective comfort. -Balzac
19. Friendship is the tacit understanding of spirit, the communication of mind and the combination of virtue. Willian Penn
20. I don't want to compare our friendship to chains; Because the chain may be corroded by rain or broken by fallen trees. Willian Penn
Understanding is definitely the soil that breeds all the fruits of friendship. -Wilson
The best thing in life is his friendship with others. Lincoln
3. Friendship can enhance happiness and relieve pain; Because it can double our happiness and share our troubles. Edison
Oh, my friend, this is my heartfelt words. Because of you, the blue sky is vast; Because of you, roses are red and gorgeous. Emerson
5. Love arising from marriage creates children; Love from friendship makes a person. bacon
6. Friendship is an endless world, how vast it is! -Luo Browning
7. Sincere friendship is like health, the value of which is not known until it is lost. Gordon
8. friendship You are the mysterious glue of the soul; You are the spice of life and the social bond! -Luo Blair
9. Friendship is as valuable to people as alchemy often says,' Their gems are valuable to people'. bacon
10, it is a friend who comes to visit and adds luster to the family. Emerson
1 1. Father is the source of money, brother is comfort, and friend is both the source of money and comfort. Franklin
12, not all relatives are friends, only like-minded people are friends.
13, the most unbearable loneliness is the lack of true friendship. bacon
14, a person should never spend 100% on himself, but rely on 100 people to spend 1% on everyone. Bill gates
15, the concept of "cash cow" is the concept that achieves the highest performance in the sales field. Online sales is a process of spreading branches and leaves, blossoming and bearing fruit. -Born Tracy
16, sales is to constantly find more people and sell them to the people you find. Tom Hopkins
17, the greatest wealth in life is interpersonal relationship, because it can open every door for you, give you the necessary ability, let you grow constantly and make contributions to society. Anthony Robbins
18, establishing personal connections is a process of digging wells, and you can gain endless wealth with a little sweat. Harvey mckay
19, success comes from 85% personal connections and 15% professional knowledge. Carnegie
The terrible thing is not loneliness and loneliness, but that you have to deal with people you don't want to associate with.
2 1. A person who never appreciates others is a person who will never be appreciated by others.
22. If your reasons are justified, don't be afraid to refuse others.
23, people are so strong, I win with softness; People use art, and I feel it with my heart; People make people angry, so I reason with them.
24. Good things are often due to sincerity.
25. I don't feel my existence when I am with someone who is too strong. Making friends is not to let us choose perfection with our eyes, but to attract like-minded people. -Roland
26. Friends on the trading floor are better than money in the cupboard. -Toe Fuller
27. If you are not a true friend, no matter how heavy the gift is, it can't knock your heart. -Christopher bacon
28. Love makes people strong and weak. Friendship only makes people strong. Bonaire i.
29. Goodwill and brotherly sympathy are sometimes even more effective than drugs for patients. -Dostoevsky
30. Make friends with like-minded people, not like-minded people. -Roland
3 1. In prosperity, you will only visit if you are invited. In adversity, those who come uninvited are true friends. -Joe Vlasta.
32. What we are thinking about is how to maintain health, how to accumulate wealth, how to strengthen the roof, and how to prepare clothes; However, the wise man thinks about how to choose the most precious thing-friends. Emerson
When poor God comes in quietly, false friendship will escape from the window. -The Mill
34, with people with courage, don't read without words. Zhou Enlai
35. The word friendship, how many people in the world refer to the pleasant conversation after drinking tea and mutual tolerance for weaknesses! But what does this have to do with friendship? -Fadev
36. True friendship is smoke without fire. -Mrs Sevigny.
37. It is better to make a friend who knows nothing about thousands of books than to make a friend who knows nothing. Ying Jin
38. People who can't get friendship are poor loners all their lives. A society without friendship is just a bustling desert. bacon
39. The best thing in the world is to have a few solemn friends with integrity in mind and heart. -Einstein
40. You usually find yourself talking more when you are with people who have nothing to say. Papisa
4 1. The best way to keep friendship is not to betray friends. -Miznier
Friendship is the most precious thing between heaven and earth, and deep friendship is the greatest comfort in life. -Zou Taofen
43. In the past life, friendship was like a bright lamp, shining on my soul and making my existence a little glorious. -Ba Jin
44. Cheated friendship is a painful wound, while hypocritical sympathy is a sharp poison arrow. -Lenin
45. Although a broken friendship can be restored, it can no longer reach the level of intimacy. -Toe Fuller
46. If you want to win the friendship of others, you must be friendly to others first. Emerson
47. Many friendships make life strong. To love and be loved is the greatest happiness in life. Sidney Smith
48. One of the main functions of friendship is to release people's anger and depression. These unusual feelings can be caused by various emotions. bacon
49. Old trees are best to burn, old horses to ride, old books to read, old wine to drink and old friends to trust. -Wright
50. I would rather swallow the dross with good people than have a feast with bad people. Thomas fuller
5 1. True friendship is a slow-growing plant. Only by experiencing and withstanding the impact of adversity can we be worthy of the title of friendship. Washington
52. The real measure of a friend is behavior, not words; Those who say good things on the surface are actually far from this standard. Washington
53. True friendship should be the same whether viewed from the front or the back. You can't see roses from the front and thorns from the back. -Luxor
54. Friends who get wine and food become passers-by in the blink of an eye when the wine runs out. -Shakespeare
If we want to make friends, we should do something for others first-things that need time, effort, consideration and dedication. Carnegie
What is more precious and happy than honor, wine, love and wisdom is my friendship. -Hayes
Friendship can only be produced and maintained in practice. -Goethe
58. Broken friendships must be dotted on the road to success. wales
59. Friendship based on business is better than business based on friendship. Rockefeller
60. Friendship is a wish for one's freedom and happiness. It keeps the natural sympathy in harmony forever, surpassing the competition and contingency of lust. -Aaron
8 1, it is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and the world should treat each other with a bosom friend.
-Lu Xun
2, Lu Yao knows horsepower, and people will see it for a long time.
-Yuan's Fight for Gratitude
3, life is expensive to know each other, why gold and money?
-Li Bai
4. No friends is better than no friends.
-Yun Dai Ying.
5. If you are near a saint, you will be wise; If you approach a fool, you will become stupid.
-Don Pi Rixiu
Friendship is the most precious thing between heaven and earth, and deep friendship is the greatest comfort in life.
-Zou Taofen
7, near Zhu Zhechi, near the ink is black
-Jin Fuxuan
8. Don't abandon great beauty with small evils, and don't forget great kindness with small grievances.
-Living in the clouds in the Qing Dynasty
9. A gentleman makes friends without flattery or slander.
I Ching
10, friendship is known as soon as you die, and friendship is known as soon as you are poor. One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is visible.
-"Historical Records"
1 1, the mountain is not high, there are immortals; The water is not deep, and the dragon is the spirit.
-Don Liu Yuxi
12, short and long.
-Qu Yuan in the Warring States Period
13, blame yourself, blame others.
—— Cai Yuanpei
14, only self-respect can win the respect of others.
-Wu Han
15, if you want to open people's hearts, you have to open your own, you have to accommodate people's hearts in your heart, and you have to push your heart into people's hearts first.
-Qian Hammer Book
16, people know each other, and you know each other.
Zhou Enlai
17, where you are sincere, the stone opens.
-"The Book of the Later Han Dynasty"
18, making friends means treating each other as equals and getting along sincerely.
-Ding Ling
19. Unity is strength, and division leads to extinction.
-Sun Yat-sen
20. Unity is power, and everyone admires gold.
-"Mandarin"