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Why do men have domestic violence?
The reasons for domestic violence are: 1, and some people have distorted personalities and bad conduct. Directly lead to domestic violence. Some men have distorted personalities and often suspect that their spouses' lifestyles are disorderly for no reason. Don't talk to the opposite sex, and don't subsidize your family to go out to work to make money. If the spouse resists, she will be subjected to domestic violence. Some young men and women have fallen into bad habits. They are playful and idle all day, gambling, drinking and whoring all day. Some run rampant in the countryside, endangering the people. They are bullies that everyone hates. These people have no sense of family responsibility and go home to show off when something goes wrong. After losing money in gambling, I forced my wife to go out to borrow money, and if she couldn't borrow it, she would be violent. If a wife wants to file for divorce, she will be intimidated by them. Wives often submit to humiliation and dare not report the case. This situation accounts for 22.5% of the total.

2, the concept of dislocation. The desire for extramarital affairs leads to domestic violence. With the reform and opening up and the establishment of the market economy system, people's ideas have undergone profound changes. Some people have lost their way in the fierce collision between tradition and modernity, native and foreign ideas, cultures, concepts and customs, and their moral concepts, especially marriage concepts, are misplaced. Some men regard dross as fashion and "extramarital affairs" as the capital to show off to others. Some of them have been living illegally with "mistresses" for a long time and have children. When I came home, I criticized my wife, made her "neither left nor right" and forced her to divorce under various excuses. What's more, I took my mistress home and kicked her out of the house. If my wife resists a little, it will lead to domestic violence. In the survey, there were 60 cases of domestic violence caused by extramarital affairs, accounting for 30%.

3. Historical and social reasons. From the historical development, China's traditional concept of "men are superior to women" has risen in the current market economy situation; From the social point of view, first, the status of women in China is actually unequal, and second, most people in society think that "domestic violence is a family matter" and "it is difficult for an honest official to break the family matter".

4. Serious patriarchal ideology or female ideology causes domestic violence. People used to think that male chauvinists often liked to beat and scold their wives, but the research of foreign sociologists denied this view. On the contrary, feminine men are often more likely to commit domestic violence. Experts explained that feminine men are often more sensitive and sometimes haggle over every ounce, especially after being suppressed by their wives for a long time, they will be very impulsive, or beat their wives because of small things in life to satisfy their self-esteem. In addition, some women have serious feminist thoughts, are self-centered, often deliberately insult and belittle their husbands, and sometimes add fists to their husbands, leading to domestic violence.

5. China's current laws do not have a complete set of preventive measures. Measures to stop domestic violence, lack of law enforcement supervision system. In legislation, laws to protect the personal rights of family members and stop domestic violence are scattered in various laws, with strong principles and poor operability.

6. The relevant departments pay insufficient attention to the problem of domestic violence. The leaders of some units think that domestic violence is a general internal family affair, but don't ask and don't interfere. Some judges, because they can't stand domestic violence, blindly mediate and refuse to judge the victim's divorce proceedings, thus making the perpetrators more unscrupulous.

7, in the legal publicity and education is not extensive and deep enough. Many citizens don't realize that domestic violence is an infringement and an illegal act. Public opinion has adopted a tolerant attitude towards it, failed to condemn it in time and in a big way, and has no deterrent effect on the perpetrators.