During the National Day holiday, my husband and I went to my sister's house and had dinner with my parents. Many people, lively. Although it was only a few simple dishes, and my mother and sister didn't pay attention to color, fragrance and cooking, we all ate with relish and had a good dinner! Mother is a typical wife and mother. Every time she eats, she always takes care of her father like a child, bringing him food and vegetables. The food in his father's bowl is always piling up. She may never concentrate on eating herself! Her seat has always been beside her father, and her eyes have always looked at him, just as we paid attention to us when we were young and our children paid attention to their children when they were young. She didn't even give us any chance to show in front of him and took care of him in every possible way! But when she brought fat and other food that we thought was bad for the elderly to her father's bowl, my sister and I stopped looking at her with chopsticks and called out "Mom-"in a long voice. At the same time, the voice of the daughter and niece is louder and longer: "grandma-". Although we protested, my mother was not angry, but she never corrected it. She always said calmly, "Grandpa has bad teeth. He likes to eat fat. " Father always smiles and responds: "Fat meat doesn't bite!" My husband has always been very touched by his parents' love. He often stands on his mother's side for no reason: "I also think fat meat is delicious!" " "Immediately, he put a piece of fat in his mouth and made a loud noise, so his daughter and niece turned to attack him:" Huh? Become a pig? Be careful that you are old and enjoy the same' treatment' as your grandfather! "If my mother thinks it's a pity to dump the food she left behind, and asks my father to help solve it, my father will always silently agree. Sometimes we worry that our father will be uncomfortable if he eats too much when he is old. When mom is not at the dinner table, my sister will be very upset and say, "Dad, forget it if you can't eat. I poured it for you. "

After my father was admitted to the hospital at the end of last year, he was obviously old, and my mother took care of my father with all her love. My father is introverted and has few social friends. In Qingshen City, there is only one old colleague who works in Meishan Xinhua Bookstore, and sometimes he will come to see him or play cards together. Every day, my mother and he are inseparable, shopping and walking. My mother always holds my father's hand and walks slowly with him. Everything is centered on my father. When my father is tired and doesn't want to go, he goes home to watch TV with him. When my mother cooks, my father sits by, smoking and drinking tea comfortably, sometimes washing onions and peeling garlic for my mother, or watering flowers and cleaning the window sill. After dinner, mom cleaned the kitchen, and dad smoked a cigarette after dinner. We sometimes say that the place where dad smokes is too thick and choking, and mom will be unhappy: "What's that smell?" Why didn't I smell it? ! " .

In fact, my mother is over 70 years old, but she comes from a long-lived family with good heredity, good health, clear mind and bright ears. She buys food, cooks, washes clothes and cleans for her sister and our family every day. She was so tired that she was sweating. We said she wouldn't listen and had to let her go. My father is six years older than my mother. When I was hospitalized in the provincial hospital at the end of last year, all the indicators were normal. I didn't find anything wrong, but I'm not as strong as my mother. My mother often tells us that my father was a bitter child when he was a child. He has a twin sister, but as soon as he was born, my grandmother sent her to a health center in Chengdu and became a wet nurse herself. My father never ate milk when he was a child, and his family was a typical poor middle peasant. He didn't eat and almost starved to death. When he was a teenager, he went to a relatively rich distant relative's house to do long-term work. He joined the army in the liberation year, worked as a soldier at Pengshan Guanyin Airport and Qingcheng Mountain, worked in Sichuan Public Security Corps, and was admitted to Southwest Air Force Preparatory School and Taiyuan Aviation School. When he was studying in Taiyuan, the cold climate in the north seriously affected his weak body. He returned to Sichuan and moved to work there. My father is one of the few educated people in my hometown who have seen the world. He has a gentle personality and a good temper. My mother, who has only studied in a private school for a few years, has admired him for more than 50 years. In fact, my mother was outstanding when she was young. She worked as a president, a league cadre, participated in the Leshan League Congress on behalf of meishan county, and worked in the County Maternal and Child Health Hospital. I only became a full member, because another colleague cried and made trouble in front of the leader, gave her her own indicators and went back to her hometown. These are all known by listening to parents whispering in their sleep in countless late nights when I was a child. Mother is a kind and generous person. No matter how hard and tired she is, no matter how others treat her, she never complains. Her family, relatives and neighbors all love her very much. No wonder my father has been so affectionate to my mother all his life! I am still so attached to her when I am old!

When I was a child, I remember that my father was always considerate of my mother. After all, he is a man with a military academy degree, unlike some other men in our hospital. He not only helps his mother with housework, but also never beats and scolds his wife and children. He likes reading books or telling us stories whenever he has time. Our family is always happy, parents always talk well, never make noise, never beat and scold. At that time, my father often came back from working outside and immediately went into the kitchen to prepare meals for a large family. The equally tired mother took out her needle and thread, spread out the battlefield under the eaves, and sewed or sewed new shoes and clothes for a large family. We are a group of children who either surround their mothers or do their homework and read books. When my father cooks, he will happily shout, "Dinner!" "If we dawdle before entering the house, he will raise his voice and call again," The boat can't wait for the people on the shore! ""So they rushed into the house, sat down around the big table and picked up steaming bowls. It doesn't matter what you eat at this time. One word: "Xiang"! Sweet to the heart! Not to mention the interesting Chinese characters and wonderful stories dad told at the dinner table! So although I was poor when I was a child, "poverty" didn't leave me much impression, but the pleasant atmosphere of family eating together became a good memory of my life!

After dinner, my father took the initiative to wash dishes, brush pots and clean the kitchen, and also helped my mother feed pigs and clean pigsty. I also help my mother wash clothes in the cold winter. What I remember most is the cleaning at home before the Spring Festival. Heavy things such as quilts and mosquito nets need a lot of water, so they can't be washed by wells (a well needs five households and dozens of people in a yard), so my father helped my mother carry it to the Minjiang River with a backpack, and then he held his trouser legs high and washed it in the biting water deep in the thigh of the river. Once, I went to the river to find them and saw my father bending down in the middle of the water to clean the quilt. I can't help shivering. The figure of my father washing bedding in the water will always be fixed in my memory!

The love between parents has a subtle influence on us. When it's time for me to get married, I really hope to find someone like my father. Thank god, I found it! Like mom and dad, we have helped each other and cared for each other in different places for 2 1 year! We will go on, hand in hand, and follow mom and dad until the end of the day! This is probably the most romantic thing in the world!