With the development of society, people's needs are increasing and they value money more and more, which is normal. For a person, who doesn't want to live a better life? In addition, if everyone is content with the status quo and does not make progress, how can society move forward?
Of course, it is impossible to recognize "money" but not "people". After all, money is heartless. Only by having beautiful thoughts and knowing how to be grateful can we make our rich life warmer.
As a 52-year-old aunt Zhang said, being a live-in "nanny" earns more than 654.38+10,000 yuan, and there are not many people who can earn money, but she is willing. What the hell is going on here? Listen to what she said.
When I was very young, my mother separated from my father. For me, I didn't get married for many years. While taking care of me, she worked hard to support her family with that meager salary.
After finishing college, I stayed abroad to work and got married. My mother began to live alone. When she retired, I was worried that she would feel lonely, so I called her several times and asked her to live with us.
But my mother never agreed. It didn't take me long to know that she had a relationship with an uncle named Bao and planned to live together. This makes me feel a little entangled. On the one hand, I hope my mother has company. On the other hand, I'm afraid that the two old people won't get along and there will be any more trouble.
However, later facts proved that my worry was completely unnecessary. Uncle Bao is a very understanding person. He is very kind to my mother and takes good care of her. He didn't care about the cost, but also took on all the housework, and "spoiled" his mother into an "old princess" who reached out to make a living.
To tell the truth, I am really happy to see them having fun. In one's later years, it is wonderful to have a congenial wife holding hands and watching the sunset with a smile.
Since living with Uncle Bao, my mother has not only changed her mental outlook a lot, but also her body is much brighter than before. In this way, she has little to do with her affairs and hardly bothers us.
A few years passed quickly, and one day in the middle of the night, Uncle Bao suddenly called and said that his mother had made an old habit again and was admitted to the hospital, asking me to go back and have a look. Although he repeatedly told me not to worry, my mother's problem is not serious, but I still vaguely feel that the situation is wrong.
Sure enough, when I got back, my mother was dying. Before she died, she took my hand and said with difficulty that Uncle Bao was a good man and had done a lot for her over the years. His son has been abroad and needs more help from me in the future.
Mother left, but her words were deeply imprinted in my heart. In fact, Uncle Bao's kindness to his mother has long been in my eyes and in my heart, and I have long regarded him as my own relative.
However, Uncle Bao doesn't want to trouble his son, let alone me. He said he had a house and some savings. In the future, his body will not listen to him. He either lives in a nursing home or asks a nanny for help.
That year, I retired and had a lot of free time, so I came back to see Uncle Bao, but when I saw him, I was shocked. I haven't been in touch for a while. He not only aged a lot at once, but also relied on crutches.
It's really that the plan can't keep up with the change. It turns out that Uncle Bao was ill not long ago. When he was just better, his son had a problem. Not only is he divorced, but he also has a big business deficit and needs help. No way, Uncle Bao had to take out his savings and borrow some from relatives and friends to call his son.
After listening to these situations, I wanted to take him back to live together, but no matter how to persuade him, he just didn't agree. Helpless, I tried to give him some money again, but it was rejected.
This worries me a little. He is in poor health and doesn't want to go with me or collect money. What should I do? I thought about it, and only staying and taking care of him is the best way.
But for my decision, Uncle Bao still disagreed. I know he is strong and has some old ideas. He thinks there is no blood relationship between us, so it is wrong to bother me in vain.
To reassure him, I made a suggestion. He hired me as a "nanny" at home, paid me, and I tried my best to serve him, which was reasonable.
At this point, Uncle Bao finally reluctantly agreed. However, his retirement salary is not high, only more than 3,000 yuan. Excluding the daily expenses, there is still a little more than 1 1,000. In this way, I took a salary of more than 1000 yuan and willingly started a "miscellaneous wood" at home.
For this "salary", I have never used it, but saved every penny. Mother said that a drop of water will be repaid with a spring. Taking care of Uncle Bao is my mother's entrustment and my gratitude.
Conclusion:
Some people say that people's hearts are based on cool thin, and we are not qualified to blame them. Only some people are willing to make themselves feel better, while others are willing to make others feel better. Uncle Bao's heart is warm to himself, to cool thin and to others.
In fact, everyone's heart has a "cool" side and a "hot" side, but some people, with good intentions, pass on "heat" to others; And some people, selfish and unrequited, keep the "heat" to themselves.
Don't complain, cool thin, don't feel the reality of others. Only when you know how to be grateful and warm can you be warm and grateful by others.
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Author: traces of love, a cheerful and playful emotional narrator, willing to accompany teachers and friends to taste life and laugh at life.