Bake bread and roast sweet potatoes, do it yourself and share the experience of homemade hot wine; Insist on soaking feet for health and stick to your beliefs; Calligraphy lovers, driving their daughters to write quietly together; Flowers sent by my husband and children are not willing to throw away, and they are dried into dried flowers with bamboo baskets and made into works of art; Enthusiastic about environmental protection, second-hand clothing business is booming ... life is full of fireworks, and people you see can always get warmth and happiness from it.
I think she is happy, not only because her children are complete and her family is happy, but also because she has distinct personal characteristics. At work and at home, she calmly shows her excellent self.
As the mother of an ordinary family, it is really not easy to live so calmly.
There must be such a friend around everyone. Before giving birth to a child, he was dressed well and made up exquisitely, with Starbucks in his hand and some lipsticks in his bag. They are Jessica, Amanda, Jiajia and Nana. After giving birth to their children, they were named as Mama edamame, Mama Lele, Mama Stone and Mama Sweet respectively.
No one else can forget that they are girls.
After becoming a mother, eating with swallowing, walking with running, and even the freedom to go to the toilet are all luxuries.
Am I a good mother? This is probably that every woman will torture her soul after becoming a mother.
Yang Lan said in the preface of the best-selling book "Step Forward":
It seems that from the moment the child is born, the mother should be a mother who has mastered all parenting knowledge, not only knows how to feed and appease, but also ensures that he is foolproof. This is not only the expectation of others, but also the shackles that every mother puts on herself.
The mother of a well-known mother and baby raising big V rice cake once wrote that she was in the park with her youngest son. When the child was young, she suddenly got a little annoyed. She sat in the cart crying and couldn't calm down for a while. Watching people come and go, I feel that passers-by are accusing her of being a mother. I feel particularly anxious and even want to cry.
Even a big V with rich parenting knowledge will feel this way. You can imagine how many mothers who are deeply guilty and self-blaming are worried.
In fact, no one is perfect, and children need a happy mother more than a perfect mother.
Many people express their love to tease their parents and hope to have such parents and become such parents.
And those who share with funny parents fully show their inner enrichment and strong happiness in the text.
Two at will:
Teasing is much more fun than mom. Children can grow up freely in a relaxed family environment and learn the ability to get happiness from a happy mother. This is the source of happiness.
Hi, mom said, my daughter, I just want her to be healthy and happy.
Actually, my mother, I also hope she is healthy and happy.
So, let's change our mood, stay away from the anxiety and impatience that we don't take good care of our children, stay away from the emotional collapse caused by poor homework guidance, stay half awake and half drunk, and often Doby smiles.
Mothers always naturally embrace the spirit that you are fire, I am carbon, you are tree and I am earth. Every night, the candle drains the wick, dedicating and sacrificing for her children and forgetting her name.
Some mothers said, "Son, I don't have a dream. Everything I do is for you. As long as you are good, I will be satisfied. "
Mom is great, but such a heavy word actually puts too much burden on children, and it is difficult to be truly "good". How can he fly freely with your expectation of thousands of dollars? How can we explore the world with confidence?
"Silent Confession" said, "Our whole life is to get rid of other people's expectations and find our true self."
Children have their own life scripts, and they will have a broader future and a world beyond our reach. Give them love and protection when they are young. When they grow up, we just stand behind them and watch them go to the new world.
Mom also has her own life script. We have our own jobs, our own lives, our own hobbies and our own dreams. We can choose among various choices, but we can't give up because of any one person.
I hope that every mother can find her true self, do what she likes and realize her life dream, and all this does not need to wait until the end of her life.
What's your dream?
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