Compared with written language and oral language, body language has obvious advantages. Because people think in written language, they flirt with words and language first, and the receiver will naturally become more rational after receiving information, understanding and thinking. This sets a threshold for the sender of the information. You must accept the intelligence test of the other party. If you say or write a sentence that makes the other person feel fake or retarded, it is certainly difficult to succeed. Therefore, the verbal flirting mentioned above is not very suitable for many male compatriots who are not good at expressing, have little experience or have low wisdom. Secondly, written language carries more national cultural traditions, so many ways and means you get from foreign movies, TV plays or other channels are not easy for mainland women to accept. Third, whether it is text messages or face-to-face speeches, it always gives people the feeling that everything I do has left evidence, and I am responsible for these language exchanges. In the future, everything I say and write will be taken out by others as evidence to blame. Therefore, women will definitely consider the idea of responsibility, morality and public opinion, which undoubtedly increases their burden. In addition to the above three negative effects, flirting with body contact and body language has another advantage: you can stimulate a woman's animal nature in one step and talk to her heart and body instead of talking to her brain. Ask her directly if she wants it, not if she accepts it. A woman asked me a question. She told a story that she couldn't help falling in love with a buddy of her boyfriend when she was attending their brother's party with her boyfriend. He didn't make any confession to her, but she couldn't let go between flirting. Boyfriends can only watch, but can't do anything. He has no reason to blame his brother, because he has no handle. It seems that his girlfriend has a crush on that man for no reason. He can only watch them go on as a third party. In this story, the initiator of the incident became the woman, and the victim's boyfriend became a third party. Why can someone do this? Sun Tzu's art of war talks about "planning before moving", "unpredictable and untenable", and modern management also talks about "mentality determines success or failure", so you may have noticed, and you must also notice, that I focus on the mentality and mental preparation before starting, rather than teaching you how to do it step by step! No matter how clever the method is, it can't be used repeatedly, and it can't be effective for every woman. In addition, the woman you are facing has probably read this article. What matters is not how you do it, but how you know it. The first thing you need to know is that women like physical contact more than men. Men have the desire for possession and physical contact, while women are first and foremost a kind of enjoyment. In a movie in Zhang Ziyi, there was a scene in which her mother hooked up with a hairdresser. Once her mother was not at home, the hairdresser did her hair. In the process of doing her hair, she gradually became delirious, her chest was wet, and she rolled to the ground with the barber. In fact, it is a kind of sexual enjoyment for women to do their hair, which is implied in many movies and novels. A man leaned over his ear and whispered to himself, playing with his hair gently and stroking his ears and neck gently on both sides. In this process, women get an irresponsible marginal enjoyment. In ancient China, it was forbidden for women to get this kind of sexual pleasure when men and women talked about giving or not kissing. Because this kind of sexual enjoyment is very attractive to women. Secondly, what you need to know is not to spoil the fun of women. Physical contact between the opposite sex is originally a kind of enjoyment for women, but men want to destroy this enjoyment and add an insult to it. This is why women are becoming more and more willing to resist this pleasure. After physical contact with women, men will think: I ate tofu-I took advantage and you lost. Not only think like this, but also convey such information to women: fear, hesitation, lewdness and madness. This naturally makes women feel disgusted and insulted, so many same-sex enjoyment are blocked by women. It's not women's feudalism-feudalism is only men's selfishness and inferiority, nor is it women's hypocrisy-women are just annoyed by this sense of insult, just from men's inexplicable arrogance. It's like sex should be enjoyed by men and women together, and then someone has to say, girl, I'm responsible for you. Or after a one-night stand, I think you are mine, and you have to be on call when I want to have sex in the future. You should be natural and kind, and love others as if nothing had happened. The third thing you need to understand is that you need to know what you are doing. Some men ask, in the face of a woman with a bad reputation and no moral standards, she has already made out with her, why was she kicked away at the crucial moment? Is that woman frigid? In fact, men have been carried away by desire, thinking that they have crossed the threshold, can be unscrupulous, completely forget what they are doing, put aside all previous diligent disguises and become an aggressor. He said that he later became a "good man" and could only be a good brother. Are you really a "good guy"? You're really not. It's just that you think it's worth being a good man to please her. Some people are also very hypocritical to themselves, so there is no way. When you have the opportunity to get in touch with her and make out with her, you should know that there are two kinds of intimacy, one is your own possession, curiosity, and enjoying a physical meal. This practice is generally collusion and arbitrary disclosure. He just wants to see, touch and lick more parts. There is also a service for women, which makes her feel that you are still a good person in a way that she likes her and enjoys her touch. Most men hit 360 heads, and the last awl blew. If that woman's heart sinks and wants to forget, so be it. You will get what you want. If you are a strong-willed woman and responsible for yourself, you will be kicked out of bed. In fact, you can really get a woman without saying a word. The first is the eyes. In order to test the rationality of this theory again, I tested it again. I just watched a woman lying in her boyfriend's arms in the subway and said something to her with her eyes. Later, I found that she couldn't help turning to look at me from time to time, looking for my eyes. Every second, every time her eyes met, she was a little anxious and uneasy. Her conversation with her boyfriend began to be absent-minded, irrelevant and faltering. When I looked at her, I just conveyed such a message: "I have something to tell you." It is estimated that she began to be confused: this stranger is so familiar, as if he had seen it somewhere and had known it for a long time. Kind and natural eyes will give people a feeling of deja vu, which many people misunderstand as fate. Some men make this mistake and like to peek at women. When the woman found out and looked over, he quickly turned his eyes away as if nothing had happened and pretended to be looking at something else. This will give women an offensive feeling.