Some people haggle over every ounce when they encounter a little injustice or small gains and losses; Some people can't accept one or two criticisms from colleagues or friends, and even cry bitterly; Some people think that a little mistake in life and work is a huge failure and frustration, and it will not be peaceful for a long time; Some people have narrow interpersonal relationships, pursue "buddy loyalty" among a few friends, and only associate with people who are consistent with or inferior to themselves, and cannot associate with people who disagree with themselves or are stronger than themselves. These are all manifestations of a small pattern, and such a person will not achieve much in his life.
Narrow-minded will not only destroy friendship and unity, but also bring loss and pain to others, which will not only hurt your own mind, but also hurt your own body. Neijing of traditional Chinese medicine says: "All diseases are born of qi." Excessive "debauchery and wealth" hurts people, especially "anger". Anger and jealousy are unhealthy and narrow-minded emotions. Under the influence of narrow psychology, people's physical and mental health will be damaged. Narrow-minded people are often filled with disappointment, chagrin, sadness, pain and depression, and some people even fall into despair and cannot extricate themselves. Therefore, if you want to be healthy and achieve your career, you must learn to be tolerant and generous. Lu You, a longevity poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, said, "Is there any coincidence in longevity? Make the square inch empty. " "The prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach" and do things openly. Isn't that what life is all about? Whether it is health care or health preservation, the key is to "nourish qi" and "expand quantity", that is, to cultivate a kind of "prime minister's generosity"
Narrow-minded people, their mind, tolerance, knowledge and so on are confined to a narrow range, without a big pattern. Contact more people, so that you can have different understanding of different people and accumulate experience, so that you can understand a lot of right and wrong.
Many people's life path is getting narrower and narrower, which is directly related to their narrow mentality. Narrowness, unbearable weight of life! Narrowness will only lead us into the valley of death in life. Open-minded, the world is naturally broad. Say goodbye to narrow psychology and accept all the disappointments in life with a broad mind, so as to see more beautiful scenery.