Accustomed to the recent continuous spring rain and spring breeze with fluctuating temperature, this Saturday morning, the temperature was just right and the sunshine was just right. Listening to music, I want to write about my unique teacher Yu Menglan.
I met Miss Menglan in the autumn of Beijing five years ago. She was entrusted by the Focus Coach Center of the University of Toronto in Canada to give us a class. She is chubby and loud, which brings us all kinds of game experiences and sharing. She was called "the queen of games" by my teacher and classmate Dr. Luo Hong. The audience played for a while and reflected for a while. The class was relaxed and the effect was excellent, which made me admire.
Later, Ms. Menglan came to Hangzhou, and Dr. Luo Hong asked me to arrange a focus beauty club, which satisfied Ms. Menglan's desire to know about beauty clubs. Later, as soon as Yue Lei, the coach who had the opportunity and focus, arrived in Kuala Lumpur, she met with her students and the beauty salon clients she served, and founded the Malaysian Beauty Club with everyone. Finally, she attended the International Focus Forum in her university.
Our contact is not frequent, but whenever we contact, we always feel the same way. This is also the reason why I hosted the women's special session of the annual academic conference on focus solving in June last year. Because Zhao Ran, the former host, was temporarily occupied, she dared to invite Yu Menglan to Hangzhou. And she did check whether there was a gap in the schedule, so she readily agreed.
But this encounter many years later, let me see a brand-new teacher Meng Lan, and this time, let me unconsciously enter a brand-new world.
It turns out that people can be brand-new, the world can be brand-new, and every one of us can be brand-new! Teacher Menglan didn't instill any subversive new ideas into me, but her brand-new state and completely open communication made my heart deeply shocked.
Therefore, I have my own "obsession" to write some words.
A brand-new future, rippling in my heart, is worth recording, and I am more willing to share it with more female friends.
As soon as we met, teacher Menglan asked me, have you found that I have lost a lot of weight? ! The state of being completely surrounded by a girl and a girlfriend infected me instantly.
Yes, she is completely different from before. Not only is her figure and complexion better, but she can also see that she has carefully selected her clothes. She is not only the queen of focus games in our hearts, but also a professional woman who is one of the top 100 excellent coaches in the world. She has also become a woman who lives a beautiful life and is free and relaxed physically and mentally.
After a careful chat, I realized that she had a physical condition in recent years, so I changed to a different life channel and began to pay attention to her body and health. Then she began to play with her girlfriends engaged in image design and health care, making herself more beautiful and healthier, and began to have a new experience of women's development.
Teacher Menglan has become a woman who not only understands psychology, but also has many feelings about fashion, color and health care!
Not only that, on the night when I drove Mr. Menglan to see the Thangka Exhibition, a book of rites cultural communication company, I found that Mr. Menglan had a deep understanding of religion, painting and soul, so that my friends and I drank tea for a long time at the tea table, and Mr. Menglan still stopped quietly in front of those paintings.
A good teacher never has a particularly unique theoretical system, which allows you to hear something you have never heard before.
No, a good teacher has a very rich and broad inner world, selfless and broad love and a free and relaxed state. When you have a chance to get close to her and link with her, she will let your heart see something that surprises you unconsciously, and your world will open instantly.
The self is opened, and when we are attracted, we are opened and ignited by those things that we don't have yet!
We don't need to learn more truth, theory or guidance, because we actually have enough wisdom in our hearts, but we are aware of too little of ourselves.
Teacher Menglan touched everyone she came into contact with with the power of beauty, with that kind of unintentional but extremely powerful power, and all this came from her rich inner world.
At the women's special session of Haining Focus Annual Meeting, I was about to share what I was going to do on the stage when I suddenly heard Teacher Menglan talking about me on the stage.
I am used to hearing others' comments on me: building such a platform has benefited many people, and my good affinity has attracted many people to join the beauty club. I have strong organizational skills, good writing skills and good learning progress, and I have become more and more youthful and beautiful recently.
Teacher Menglan said that as soon as I saw Yonghong, I felt that she was particularly innocent and pure!
Then she said, today, in Haining, where Mr. Jin Yong was born, if a novel character is used for analogy, I think Yonghong is Rong Er loved by many people, so she can understand and understand all kinds of people.
These words surprised me especially, because no one has ever talked so much about my innocence.
And she said, I have always been naive and loved by many people.
Teacher Menglan has not only professional and professional parts, but also exquisite and aesthetic parts.
Actually, me too. In addition to external influence and self-improvement, I also have a particularly clean and pure part that naturally attracts love.
This makes me feel refreshed.
We all have parts we don't know. Teachers who stand higher can see the more core part.
Close contact with teacher Meng Lan will make her a mirror and let us see ourselves at a deeper level.
A good teacher not only teaches you knowledge, but also clearly reflects your unknown self and shows it to you.
From then on, knowing that I was born innocent and pure, I began to boldly create a broader future for the beauty of Focus in the new year, because I knew that I would not let the beauty go bad, because I had a natural temperament to escort.
This point, for me, is too important for me and 20 19 of Beauty Society.
Thanks to Teacher Menglan for seeing and expressing publicly.
Teacher Meng Lan gave a one-day open class to the Beauty Leaders Club in Hangzhou. I was deeply impressed by her selfless sharing spirit. She taught a lot of tools and methods, telling everyone, just to make you use them more!
One day's open class, she has a lot to say, and time is really not enough. Finally, she discussed with the students whether it could be postponed for another half an hour.
What she is willing to share is that women have superior leadership.
Women really can't do anything. My good friend Yuner often sighs with me. Emotional, impulsive, self-interested, the pattern is not far enough, alas, a lot, pull it! ……
Teacher Meng Lan said that we should see that we have unique advantages. Not only do women naturally have advantages in leadership that men do not have, but every woman has her own advantages, and she can give full play to her advantages, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and form her own leadership style.
What really impressed me most were the following two points:
First,? To be a better leader, you don't have to devote more time to your work or squeeze out some time for your family and life. Neither! To balance work and life, we must add a "third party", that is, being alone.
We need to leave a blank, spend some seemingly useless time, let ourselves be with ourselves, do nothing, just be alone, let our body and mind return, increase our strength and be nourished.
I remember that I drew a circle according to the method in class and divided it in proportion. I found that I was actually working when I was alone at home, but I had little time alone. This scares me!
After Teacher Menglan left, I readjusted my schedule, adding more places and time for being alone, and arranged it regularly every week.
Because it is very important, everything should be arranged.
Then I found that my ability began to advance by leaps and bounds, and my inner wisdom guided me, constantly breaking through, constantly denying myself, and constantly emerging new possibilities. Being alone is so important! Now I have more work to do, so I can deal with it easily and effectively.
Second, there is no doubt that life can be achieved! What you think will appear in your life, and the realization of your dream does not depend on your efforts!
When chatting with Teacher Meng Lan, I told her that I had recently read "Place an Order with the Universe" and "Handbook of the Law of Attraction", and I was very interested in how to get what I wanted in my life, and it felt real.
Teacher Menglan answered me in a rather calm and firm tone, yes! Life can definitely get what you want.
First of all, find the life you want through your own heart and present a clear picture! The clearer the better. Then, let yourself feel that you are living in this miraculous picture. Don't think too much, don't be too purposeful or doubt whether it can be realized, just believe it! Just live in the moment and do the right thing!
Then the universe will receive your command and send some people and things to help you realize your dream of life. We just need to stick to our clear dreams, simply be content with the status quo and do a little bit of small things in the present.
Teacher Menglan thus opened a new stage for me to pursue the life I want. I am no longer limited by myself now, and began to think clearly about what I want; I also began to learn to think less with my head, but to be content with the status quo and feel the present.
There are many entanglements in life, it turns out that we think too much; Many people are trapped in life. It turns out that we don't think so!
Turn yourself into a lighthouse, shining with the light of dreams and attracting people and things related to dreams to appear in your life.
If you don't know what you want, you will feel confused and confused.
The good news is that Ms. Menglan will come to Hangzhou next week, and I will pick her up myself. She will have half a day of free public classes and two days of small classes. You have the opportunity to have a close talk with me and Ms. Menglan.
Knowledge can spread on the internet, but we often only hear what we already know;
The real impact must be that life is fresh and affects life.
It takes a whole period of time to get together offline, which is a part of our life, so it is especially precious, only for the right people.
It is also an invitation to life to introduce the unique teacher Meng Lan in my heart to a predestined relationship. I hope we can have fate and walk through a period of life together.
Yonghong
20 19.3.23