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What do you think of Xiaojie's experience?
My best friend told me what happened to her the day before yesterday. I am really angry. So there really is a mother like Fan in reality? No, there is a mother worse than Fan's mother's mother! My best friend Xiaojie and her boyfriend are high school classmates. We started talking in high school, and now our 89-year relationship has reached the point of talking about marriage. I got my license when I went home on May Day. But Xiaojie's mother said to give a red envelope at the door. I didn't know their manners very well, so she gave Xiaojie's mother 10 thousand and bought clothes and gifts for their whole family. It was originally agreed to go home on May 1 to get the certificate and discuss the marriage. It is ok to set a date. After all, everyone is working. Xiaojie's mother said, let's talk about marriage. I didn't give the household registration book when I got the certificate. Her mother disappeared early in the morning, and Xiaojie's father found the household registration book and gave it to Xiaojie. Because Xiaojie knew that her mother was a real person and didn't get the certificate immediately, Xiaojie went to see her with her boyfriend and parents. As a result, I found it and agreed to get the certificate! This is the beginning of things! Xiaojie and her boyfriend both wanted to get married on 1 1, so she told her mother to let her parents-in-law go to her parents' house to discuss the details. Every time I call her mother, she says, can't you get married? Do you hate marriage so much? I've had enough. Don't say that. Every time it ends in discord. Xiaojie told his father the day before yesterday that he would go home to discuss the details. Her mother doesn't like her going. When I applied for the card on May 1 ST, I said that the bride price was 80,000 yuan, plus the money given by relatives and the money for buying clothes, which was almost100,000. Make it the same day. This is all agreed before. In the evening, Xiaojie's mother changed her mind temporarily, saying it was a hundred thousand bride price, and said to Xiaojie's parents-in-law: Can you take out 203 thousand? Don't get married until your son has money to be a boss! Xiaojie's parents-in-law said: Children have been together for eight or nine years, and we are also from the countryside. In recent years, I bought three houses and a car in the city. Last year, I gave my son money as a shareholder. Xiaojie knows about our home! You really can't come up with the 20.3 million you are talking about now? But if you ask for the baby, I will accept it. If not, I'll borrow money. I'm afraid Jacko will be wronged. Jacko's mother will say you have no money. What wife will you marry? ? It's best to talk for a long time and promise a hundred thousand bride price, but I have to give Xiaojie's parents and sisters a big red envelope, and there are more than a dozen relatives there, and each family gives a gift of 600 yuan. It is also said that the living expenses of the woman's banquet should also be paid by the man. Jacko's father talks too much, which makes no sense. If I can afford a daughter, I can have a party. But her mother still said that if she couldn't do it, she would do it. Finally, Xiaojie's parents-in-law said yes, I will promise anything you say for the children! Xiaojie's mother also said: It's just that my own daughter is disobedient and has no promise. The university cost me 70,000 to 80,000 yuan, and I will get married if I don't contribute to my family. Such a daughter is raised for nothing! In fact, the air-conditioned TV at home, the sofa quilt at home. Xiaojie and her boyfriend bought a refrigerator and a water dispenser. My mother-in-law bought all the soymilk machines and electric cookers. Xiaojie bought shower gel and toilet paper at home, and Xiaojie and her boyfriend rushed the phone bill at home. I buy things for my family every month and often buy clothes for my family. Xiaojie's parents and sisters are Xiaojie's boyfriends. Buy them a mobile phone? There are telephone greetings and gifts on festivals, birthdays, Father's Day and Mother's Day. When I bought clothes for my mother, my mother said to her neighbor, Xiaojie is useless. She was reluctant to buy good clothes for herself, so she bought him a bargain. Next time she buys this kind of thing, she will definitely throw it away!

I think parents treat their children just like Xiaojie's mother-in-law. As long as they are good to their children, they would rather wronged themselves, but Xiaojie's mother really went too far. She is selling her daughter. For her so-called face, she has never thought about Xiaojie. I think I have to pay for it. She really does not deserve to be called mother. Xiaojie had no choice but to quarrel with his mother and break up. Her mother really does it for herself, for her own face, and eats people without spitting bones. Regardless of Xiaojie's happiness, she only likes money. To put it bluntly, her mother is a bottomless pit that can never be filled in and can't see anything! What she did laid a hidden danger for Xiaojie's later marriage! Not all people deserve to be mothers. Xiaojie doesn't know what to do now. I think I'd better make it clear to his mother If you want money, give it to him. It's really too much!