1, filial piety and gratitude.

We should be grateful to our parents, grandparents and grandparents. Parents not only brought you into this world, but also sacrificed a lot of time and energy to cultivate you. There are other old people who took care of you when you were a child. So we should keep a filial heart.

Filial piety contains a word "respect", which is to respect them. We know that parents are not always right, but we should try not to argue with them. If you have different opinions, let them understand your thoughts calmly and rationally.

2. Talk to them if you have nothing to do.

We in China are usually conservative, and we don't express our love easily, especially to our parents. You don't really need to do this. For example, if you have nothing to do, you can call your parents to let them know what you are doing, talk about your recent situation and share your life with them.

Then you can ask them how they are doing and let their parents know that you care about them. Of course, face-to-face communication is the best, but considering that young people may work in different cities, it is easier to make a phone call.

3. Do something for them

Do something for the elderly, don't complain. For example, teach them to use mobile phones and cook them a meal. If you live with the elderly, keep the room clean and tidy, help them wash dishes and dry clothes in their daily lives, and do their best to reduce their burden.

4. Pay attention to their health.

It is inevitable that there will be some problems in the health of the elderly. Therefore, we should take them for physical examination regularly to prevent any serious diseases. Tell them at ordinary times that if there is anything uncomfortable, you must say it, and don't endure it yourself. Tell them to eat a balanced diet and try to avoid drinking. Tell them that moderate exercise outdoors is good for both body and mind.

5. Spend more time with you

Companionship is the best filial piety, and you should spend some time with them at ordinary times. Nowadays, young people are usually with their lovers, not with their parents. Of course, my parents are young, they understand and accept.

But imagine that if you choose to spend some unexpected wonderful time with them, such as traveling with them, they will feel your filial piety and appreciate you.

Extended data

With the growth of age, the physical and psychological aging of the elderly will inevitably produce various special needs different from other age groups, and the lifestyle to meet their needs will also change accordingly, thus forming the characteristics of the lifestyle of the elderly:

(1) Gradually withdraw from the activities of labor and professional life. This is the most prominent and fundamental feature of the lifestyle of the elderly. The older you get, the more obvious this feature becomes. Corresponding to this is the loss or reduction of labor income, so we need to rely on annuities, insurance, social relief or personal assets as our income security. Its quantity is generally lower than before, which will limit consumption to some extent. The consumption orientation of the elderly focuses on meeting the basic needs of daily life.

(2) The social and political activities are obviously reduced, and the contact with the society is correspondingly reduced, the frequency of interpersonal communication is obviously reduced, and there may even be a serious separation from the society, which is prone to loneliness and loss.

③ Great changes have taken place in the content of spiritual and cultural activities. First of all, the activities of learning and receiving education have obviously decreased. The main purpose of learning for the elderly is to satisfy their hobbies and promote social interaction. Secondly, with the decrease of labor and professional activities, social and political activities and the increase of personal leisure time, people's various interests and hobbies have increased significantly.

④ Family life activities become the main content of activities. Family is the main place for activities, and family members become the main partners in the life of the elderly. Therefore, the quality of family life activities directly affects the quality of old people's life.

⑤ The living space is obviously reduced. Family becomes the main space for the elderly to live; Family members become the main objects of interpersonal communication among the elderly. This will affect the quality of life of the elderly in many ways.

The lifestyle of the elderly in different societies has different characteristics. China society has a tradition of respecting the elderly and a strong sense of family. Most elderly people in China live in families and are generally loved and respected by the younger generation. They still occupy an important position and play an important role in the family.