First, bad men are much more romantic.
Bad men are often romantic. They are full of ideas and interesting. Girls are naturally emotional, and it is easy to impress women with romantic ability. For girls, romantic ability is sometimes much more important than other abilities.
Women like bad men and are often attracted by their romantic ability to a great extent. Bad men can bring surprises, excitement, sweetness and romance to women.
Second, bad men understand women's hearts.
Bad men will bring girls a sense of existence and surprise. Because they know how to hold a girl's heart, they know what girls like and don't like. After finding out the girl's joys and sorrows, they will love her. Therefore, sometimes, girls will find that although the boy is not serious on the surface, he is really good to me and will create surprises from time to time.
Everyone likes to be surprised and curious. When bad boys surprise and wonder girls with external stimuli, girls' adrenaline rises every second, which is a great feeling. When this feeling is repeated over and over again, the girl's heart has been slowly captured by the bad boy.
Third, bad men will be careful.
Although the bad boy seems unreliable, he is more serious than anyone when he is in love.
Bad men exist like diaosi, but once they put their heart into it, they will make ordinary people feel ashamed. They will consider each other wholeheartedly, and may even refuse the girl's love on the grounds that they can't give each other happiness. But those who are usually serious are often self-centered in their love concept, and economic factors are the first consideration. Cars, tickets and houses must be at least the same.
Bad men can read minds and make girls happy. Such people tend to have high IQ and EQ, and girls often have no resistance to such boys.
Fourth, bad men can be sexy.
Bad men don't know each other for a long time like ordinary people, and then hold hands, hug and kiss. They may send you roses, sing love songs for you and hold you in their arms as soon as they come up. Their emotional world is free. They can do whatever they like and strike up a conversation if they like. They don't have so much scruples.
Physical contact is often more useful than sweet words. In the emotional world, it is difficult for people to stay awake. When a girl is angry, it is often more effective to give her a strong kiss than to reason. Bad boys will come faster and more violently in physical contact than ordinary boys.
Girls like boys who can't control themselves, and they like boys who are crazy about her. The little tricks and ambiguity that the bad boy usually does are enough to express his affection.
Fifth, bad men live a strong life.
From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, the two major problems to be solved when people are born are survival and reproduction; In terms of mate selection, women like men with resources, while men like women with reproductive value.
Bad guys often have strong viability. Boys who skip classes and fight all day at school are not bad in society now, which shows that there is a super survival ability behind people with bad intentions. When the viability is strong, the economy, contacts and other resources will not be bad.
Girls like to find such people. Although it seems that this kind of man is not emotionally loyal, in fact, this kind of bad often contains a little taste of life, which does not mean that he will not be good to girls.
Sixth, bad men will abuse their hearts.
There is a saying in love psychology: A girl likes a man who makes her laugh, but deeply loves a man who makes her cry.
Because the person who makes him happy is always the one who loves him, always tolerates him and loves her, and will not let her suffer any injustice, so she just likes him; The person who made him cry will always be her favorite in her heart, and his every move affects her nerves! The deeper you love, the deeper you hurt!
The depth of experience is often the measure of love. Just like our usual diet, if we eat too much light food, we often want something exciting, so add some peppers. Today is slightly spicy, tomorrow may be spicy, and the day after tomorrow we even want to try abnormal spicy. On the road of looking for excitement, girls are no worse than boys.
Bad boys tend to bring deep emotional experience, deep pain and deep love to girls. These are peak feelings, which are addictive. No matter how much a girl hates this boy and makes up her mind to leave him, she will always be defeated by his past kindness and sweetness, so the girl will eventually return to that man.
Seventh, bad men have personalities.
Bad men are often unique, not mediocre, but very attractive people.
When a boy likes a girl, looks are often the first consideration, but personality is more important. In fact, it is the same for girls to choose boyfriends. Just like a series of movies starring Gao Cangjian in 1960s and 1970s, many people are obsessed with Gao Cangjian and deeply attracted by his cold image.
Bad boys are surrounded by unique angular personalities. They are either vicious, cold, serious or overbearing. This character can't be concealed by any appearance. Although now is the era of looking at faces, girls are only beautiful with awl faces, and boys will only attract more people's love if they are clean and white. But that unique personality or temperament can still make you shine in the crowd.
Therefore, personality is the advantage of a bad man and a bargaining chip to attract girls.