Premise of everything: When a boy goes to see his mother-in-law for the first time, he must leave a good impression. Therefore, when choosing gifts, he must respect local customs as much as possible. The greater he is, the more he can express his thoughts. You can discuss this with your parents.
First of all, fruit
? Giving fruit gifts is quite versatile, even if you go to your mother-in-law's house. Because we are not familiar with our mother-in-law and father-in-law, we don't know what they like to eat and what they are afraid of. At this time, it is not wrong to send fruit. After all, anyone can eat some fruit and keep it for a long time. I think when I first went to my mother-in-law's house, I bought a bunch of apples, bananas, grapes and oranges ~ ~ Now I think I might as well buy a fruit basket. After all, there are all kinds of fruits in it, which look good together and are easy to get.
Second, chicken, duck and fish.
? This is purely because I am in the countryside and respect the traditional rules of my place. In fact, I don't understand this truth either. If you are a friend in the countryside, you can learn from it. According to my mother, when we go to my mother-in-law's house for the first time, or during the Chinese New Year, we will bring live chickens, ducks and live fish (if it is a rooster) to show that the man pays enough attention to the woman and has the sincerity to be a guest and discuss the next step. If you are a city dweller, or there is no such custom to ignore.
Third, alcohol and tobacco
This is mainly for the future father-in-law (of course, some mother-in-law also like alcohol and tobacco). And it is best to buy a slightly higher-end brand according to the economic situation. As long as the prospective father-in-law is satisfied, he will often speak for the boys, and the cumulative effect is quite good, so you boys must not forget that if you want to satisfy your mother-in-law, your father-in-law cannot be ignored.
Four, flexible processing class
This is the ultimate trick that I really don't know what gift to prepare at last. You can consult your girlfriend and find out what special preferences your mother-in-law or father-in-law have. It's never wrong to do what he likes. For example, when my wife was still playing Friends with me, she told me that my mother-in-law likes to eat a kind of cake, so I specially prepared this gift on my first visit, which finally made my mother-in-law very happy.
Conclusion: In fact, boys need not be too nervous. According to one's own economic strength, a gift prepared with heart is the best. As long as you have a good relationship with your girlfriend and your personal conditions are not too bad, usually your mother-in-law won't embarrass you. Finally, remember to be diligent and get a lot of points when you go for the first time. Wish you success!