When children are young, many parents are busy with work and let their children play by themselves. Therefore, it is quite dangerous to throw toys to children for a long time and let them play whatever they want. It will make children form fetishes, pin their feelings for adults on toys and form a series of adverse mental illness reactions.
After we have children, no matter how busy we are at work, we should take time out to spend more time with our children and play with them. Some parents don't know how to play Here, I suggest parents try role-playing games. Maybe many parents are unfamiliar with this word. What is a role-playing game?
In fact, role-playing is to imitate some behaviors in real life through the imagination and creativity between adults and children, so that children can learn to imitate and find out the relationship between Chu people, which can establish a good foundation for his social relations, so it is very important to master the concept of perspective-playing.
In the role played by games, children have the ability to answer and solve interpersonal relationships in life through the objects imitated in real life. In this way, the ability of interpersonal relationship is improved unconsciously.
Role-playing games in life can help children learn to experience in advance, and know how to solve unknown problems and put themselves in the role position, so that they can face and look at problems together. Therefore, parents and children need to cooperate with the main body of the proposed activities to successfully play role games.
Before you play, you must be familiar with the role relationship between everyone, as well as the role position you undertake, the actions you use and the things you represent, so the pre-preparation of the game is also very important.
Because the game is out of control, the rules and plans of the game will often change, which requires teamwork between adults and children. With tacit cooperation, children can appreciate teamwork and leadership, and learn to look at problems from the perspective of others, put themselves in other's shoes, and so on.
And in the game, children can learn to persist, learn to vent their emotions, learn to experience, and learn how to control their own language and express their words and deeds. Therefore, all these need to be formulated in the rules of the game. Therefore, after understanding role-playing, the benefits of role-playing can be more than a little bit, which has a guiding role in children's ability response, improvement of social skills and improvement of interpersonal intelligence.
I remember a famous educator once said that children get knowledge from play, and the fun of children's learning is also obtained through play. The accumulation of these interests and experiential knowledge will develop children's life skills. Life itself is to play, to learn while playing, and to finish the work. When you are role-playing, you can let your children know the other side of the adult world through play.
Role-playing can help children learn to respect, learn to put themselves in others' shoes and think from others' perspective. Play and integrate into the role through children's insight, imagination and creative observation. It can not only cultivate children's artistic cells, but also understand the relationship between things and self-awareness in the connection of games.
For example, she plays the role of a mother. She can feel the responsibility of a mother and should care about her children. You can also learn about your mother's difficulties or the meaning behind her angry attitude.
Of course, children can also play their favorite roles in it. In addition to strong drama, the role played by children is not limited to a person or a child or an animal. He can play many different roles, such as doctor, policeman, parent or teacher. This is also what the child's inner world really wants to experience.
Generally speaking, for children, his imagination has been developed, and there is not much difference between reality and imagination, so role-playing is easily accepted by children, and practicing through imagination is also helpful to the development of children's right brain. Under the constant stimulation of the right brain, children's artistic cells and other potential abilities can be stimulated.
In the role-playing game, the dialogue in the story will be simulated, which can not only deepen the exchange opportunities of parent-child feelings, but also cultivate children's language organization ability. When the plot conceived by the child through the mental picture is naturally expressed in words, it can stimulate the development of the left and right brains at the same time. Therefore, role-playing games can strengthen children's imagination, and through the role-playing behavior mode, he will make his thoughts more mature, which is the significance of role-playing.
(1) sense of ceremony
First of all, for children, he likes fairy tales and beautiful pictures. In this process, a little princess, a small animal or a little prince may appear, which can encourage and guide children to play the characters in the story correctly through the story.
When the child understands the story, is familiar with the characters and has the ability, he will be put on a prop hat to increase the sense of ceremony, so that the child's performance enthusiasm will be high.
After playing a good role, you can exercise your memory through imagination, so many parents will practice, interpret and recite stories repeatedly, so that children can integrate into the role and understand the meaning of the role.
2 read clearly.
Before the performance, parents should pay attention to the fact that children can't read, so when they need characters, they need to know the story and the distribution of characters, which requires us to see clearly. And when you say lines, you should pronounce them in a standard way. When encountering polyphonic words, we should pronounce them clearly, especially the rolled tongue and the flat tongue, and distinguish them clearly, which plays a key role in the cognition of words.
When the child gradually understands the content and characters of the work, she will express it with delicate emotions. When children participate in the role, we should remind them to understand the changes of their expressions and actions, and it would be more ingenious if they could cooperate with their eyes again. Moreover, when reading aloud, parents should integrate emotions into reading aloud in advance, so that children can better understand.
Role-playing game is an art form. During the performance, parents and children can integrate into the performance to make the story lively and interesting. This can not only cultivate children's artistic talent expression ability, but also make parent-child relationship more harmonious. When the family performed together, they were full of laughter. At the same time, when performing children's dramas, we must remind children to concentrate, and then have their own imagination and solve it through repeated practice.
Among them, some parents may not know which stories to perform. At first, you can choose the easier one. You can choose bedtime stories or Grimm's fairy tales, in which the characterization is classic and has certain educational significance. For example, Wolf is a story that every child likes very much, and it is also to educate children to be honest.
The characters in the story are simple and the plot is concise. When reading this story to children, we should express emotions, language and facial expressions, such as what kind of actions and expressions the children have when they lie, and how to express their horror when the wolf comes and really asks the farmer uncle to help him fight back the wolf. Through careful performance, children's understanding of the story can be strengthened. In this story, children can play the role of herding sheep, and parents can play the role of migrant workers.
After the performance, a wolf needs to kill all his lambs. What are the consequences of letting children lie again like this? Children who herd sheep can lie, right? Therefore, after personal experience, let the children know the disadvantages of lying, and don't be too cautious when performing. You can completely exaggerate the movements and encourage children to use their imagination.
In addition to the story of the wolf coming, you can also play Little Red Riding Hood, how Little Red Riding Hood was entrusted by her mother to send a cake to her grandmother, and what kind of intersection she met on the road, which led to her being finally eaten by the wolf. How did you save grandma at last? These detailed stories can make the child's thinking clear, never force the child to play a certain role, but choose according to her fun and love.
When children are performing, they will enjoy their time with their parents and be very happy. Some parents always complain that my children only play mobile phones or computers when they come home. In fact, while children are obsessed with these electronic products, it is precisely because their parents are "not fun" that they will play these things. If we give children an interesting game experience and let them gain knowledge, insight, strength and artistic edification, will you like it? So from now on, please pay attention to your parents and start with role-playing. I believe your children will be better and better!