In fact, I have just experienced such a thing. I am a man, that is, a person with mixed feelings, because when I met her, my heart was really like this, but she didn't ask me if I thought of her like that. I haven't heard from her for five years. I went to see her yesterday. What was my mood at that time? I miss her. Although I haven't missed her all the time for five years (it is impossible to miss her all the time), I have never broken her heart. At the beginning, I separated because I was immature and not sensible. Actually, I didn't want to be apart at first. I really didn't ... No matter how much I regret it, it's no use crying. To sum up, what I want to say is that if that man comes to you on his own initiative, it means that he misses you very much and wants to be separated from you forever. Because, I feel the same way as him.
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