First of all, I envy the subject. You retire home within 49 years old, and your relatives in their 60 s are still moving bricks on the construction site. Some people are trying to earn three meals a day, while others are already complaining about "boredom". This is the present situation of society. We don't know if we will retire at the age of 60, and will it be delayed? Alas.
While I envy you, I want to offer some suggestions:
First, people who quit the company generally have three attitudes towards life, and outsiders are not qualified to make irresponsible remarks. One is to rejuvenate the second spring, create a second chance in life, either start a business or create, and expect the small universe to break out.
The second is to enjoy family happiness, and comfort is a lifetime. 49-year-old, not big, of course, you can dance square dance at home and have fun with your grandchildren. It depends on your own mentality.
The third is half entertainment and half enrichment. Some middle-aged and elderly people are reluctant to quit the historical stage. While taking care of the children, they are dancing square dance, but they do something they can, such as doing public welfare, such as learning an art, such as doing business, such as working from the media, such as finding a part-time job, and so on.
Second, it is suggested that more people choose a semi-entertaining and semi-fulfilling attitude towards life. At the age of 49, he still belongs to the "prime of life." If he is healthy, it is actually the golden age for the director to start a business. However, now that you have retired and have retirement security, it is better to choose a state of semi-entertainment and semi-enrichment.
If you choose to start a business, you don't need to invest capital unless you are an expert in consulting, art and culture, and the risk is controllable. In fact, if you need to invest too much in entrepreneurial projects, the risks are uncontrollable. Don't go into the sea easily. At present, entrepreneurial risks are almost overwhelming.
I am completely entertaining myself, dancing square dance and playing small mahjong every day. It is estimated that I can't be idle, and people are also idle. There are several methods you can recommend, all of which have been done by people you know:
First, take advantage of your major and find a part-time job. My old colleague, who knows a lot about taxation, works as a financial consultant in several small enterprises. In fact, he helped them avoid taxes reasonably, and his income was much higher than when he was in office. Free time, don't delay him to take care of his family, don't delay him fishing.
Second, if you have money at home, join several like-minded people to carry out some public welfare activities, such as going to a nursing home to chat with the elderly, but you can devote your love, enrich yourself and make your life meaningful without spending any money.
Third, if the family is under great financial pressure, you can find a job, but you can't find a good job. In fact, doormen, warehouse keepers, cashiers, cleaning, sanitation and so on. Can do it. Don't feel ashamed, as long as you are self-reliant, it is glorious. Because of these occupations, it takes a little physical strength to exercise. Don't many middle-class people over 50 spend money running marathons everywhere? Consider it exercise.
Fourth, not bad money, enough money, no grandchildren. Then learn an artistic hobby, such as photography, photography, painting, playing erhu, ballroom dancing, and so on. Look at some parks in Beijing. Those middle-aged and elderly people who wear colorful clothes have a good time every day.
Thirdly, if I can retire, I want to choose a lifestyle I like. If only I could retire at the age of forty. Career is actually a chair. Eager for the strength brought by this chair. Leave this chair and you will be an ordinary person in the street.
My dream is to be a living writer, not a luxurious trip. We don't have that much money, after all, we haven't achieved wealth freedom.
Choose the best season in the city to live for a month or two every year and rent a house of several hundred dollars. Couples, cook by themselves. I sleep until I wake up naturally every day, then walk and exercise in mountains, rivers and towns, and then write.
There are two kinds of writing, one is self-media for the purpose of making money, and the other is literature that does not make money. Earn a little money every day, and travel expenses are enough. Literature is casual, you may write a masterpiece.
Although the 49-year-old is still in the prime of life, there is not much room for further development when the unit is basically sidelined. Retirement is definitely a good thing.
So how to deal with this sudden arrival of a lot of time? I think we can consider it from the following aspects:
First, economic issues. It is true that the economic base determines the superstructure. If the family economy is good, you can do something you like, develop hobbies and so on. You can also travel while you are young and broaden your horizons. If the family's economic situation is not very good, you can try to do some small business, or apply to a unit to play the residual heat according to your own specialties, so that you can get an extra salary and the family economy can be alleviated.
Second, physical problems. You don't have to think about it if you are in good health. If you are in poor health, you should pay attention to this problem first. Do a thorough physical examination first, then listen to the advice of experts and doctors, then make a fitness plan according to the doctor's advice, and do appropriate scientific exercises to regulate your body first. Only good health can guarantee the quality of life in the evening shift.
Third, the mentality problem. You will retire sooner or later. Doesn't mean it's useless for you to retire early. On the contrary, early retirement is a good thing, which allows you to plan your old age life as soon as possible, and it is easier to realize the transition of middle-aged and elderly people.
To tell the truth, I envy the subject when answering questions. I am lucky to retire so early, having both money and leisure, having a lot of time to squander myself and having a lot of energy to do what I want to do!
Retired after 70 for more than four years.
I used to work night shifts in enterprises, and my salary was not high. I think it's too difficult. When I reached the retirement age stipulated by the state, I immediately retired.
After retiring, I stayed at home for almost two years, doing housework, cooking, eating fruit snacks and watching plays every day. I am not bored, because I am a person who doesn't want to go out.
Later, my brother started a company and asked me to help in his company until now.
The company is not big, and there are a lot of red tape. Maybe I'm a little old. I'm doing fine. Besides, I have free time. My brother told me that I can go out whenever I have something to do. Although sometimes I am a little tired, I feel quite good without the annoying interpersonal relationship in the enterprise before.
In fact, I feel that women in their forties are still very young, and it is not realistic to travel every day. This is not a question of lack of money. Finding something to do can also slow down the speed of mental retardation, can't it
No one went to our company on the first floor, but to the second floor. I installed a gas stove and a range hood, and I also moved my juicer, toaster and hula hoop. During the break, I made some delicious food, a glass of juice and bread to keep fit. Several car owners are nephews of our family. Come and have some juice and chat with me sometimes. Not bad. My brother bought this house.
As for salary, when I first came, my brother gave me 3,000 yuan and hired a girl to accompany me. Later, the girl had something at home and resigned, so I left everything alone. After this year, my brother gave me a raise.
In a word, people can't make themselves too tired, let alone tired. After all, I have worked for half my life, so I find something to do if I am afraid of boredom, and try to play if I don't want to. Anyway, I like the day when work and rest are combined.
I retired at 45. After retirement, I felt less at leisure, so I re-employed.
After retiring, the salary is less than 3000 yuan, and the pressure of life is great. I went to work in my friend's company. I still want to learn something, just through more than two years of study. I understand the project budget. I'm working on the project budget now. Now I'm reviewing the constructor exam again. Learn regardless of age. Opportunities are for those who work hard.
I suggest you learn something you like and find a job you like. Save more money after retirement and give them less trouble when they are old.
It's no fun to retire at home under 49. What should I do? As an experienced person, I have a deep understanding.
I was born in 1968 and officially retired at the end of last year. However, before this, at the end of 20 12, he resigned in a hurry for some family reasons and retired home for more than six years. In the first two years after I just got home, I was busy all day because of some family concerns, and I didn't feel uncomfortable. It was not until I went home for nearly two years that everything was basically settled. Fortunately, I found that I was a little at a loss when I had time to enjoy my free life. My old job is far away from me, and my husband and children have different things to do outside, and I can't find familiar neighbors because I moved to a new home. Doing nothing all day. It's true. It's boring. Until now, I have not felt bitter because I resigned easily. Moreover, nostalgia has expanded alarmingly, and I always want to talk with my old colleagues and friends. Sometimes they even go a long way to find their old neighbors. But this kind of thing can only be done occasionally. After all, everyone has their own work and life. Therefore, we must save ourselves by ourselves. I decided to get myself moving, find something to do and enrich my life. But I don't know what to do. To tell the truth, I have been in Class 5 from 8 to 5 for more than 20 years, and I have prayed for an early return to my family. Now that I have returned to my family, I don't want to be too bound. My idea is to find a job with relatively free time, which not only takes care of my family, but also does not hinder my contact with the outside world. Moreover, I have set a small principle for myself, that is, I can't always be busy outside for a year, I must have a degree and give myself a holiday at an appropriate time. People should give themselves a lot of free space when they live all their lives. Therefore, looking for a job in this situation, I would rather compromise my body than my heart. Now that I have retired, I think my expectations are too high if I pursue my dreams that I couldn't realize when I was young, or even want to make an earth-shattering second spring. There are quite a few temporary jobs suitable for retirees in today's society. As long as you find them, you can do it for about a year. Not divorced from society, but also contacted more people. Maybe your future confidant is waiting for you not far away. In the past four years, following this principle, I have been looking for some jobs intermittently. Although it has nothing to do with what I have learned, I think it is enough not to bring pressure on myself, and I have made many new friends, so that I will not waste my time every day. Besides work, I have time and energy to travel and try to run more famous mountains. Don't waste my life.
You retired from home, and I dare to guess that the job you are engaged in may not be so urgently needed in your company. I just don't know how big the social demand is. If there is not such a market, you can not cling to it. Try a different occupation. How can you know the depth without trying? At this age, it doesn't matter what you do, only your heart makes you relaxed and free. Besides, since you have retired and gone home, you should understand that age and physical strength determine that work cannot be a long-term support for your future retirement. If you want to live a full life, you have to cultivate certain hobbies, such as calligraphy, dancing, flowers, fishing and keeping pets. Even playing small cards in your spare time is better than sitting at home alone. For six years, taking a big dog for a walk every afternoon has become a part of my life. And I really learned to fish in these two years. Although my craft is not so good, I will never let go if I have the chance. This life by the pond has enriched my retirement to some extent, so why not? In addition, remember, even after retirement, you can't indulge yourself absolutely. We must form regular living habits and self-discipline in our daily life, which is very important to ensure our health.
My aunt bought out CCB and quit at the age of 42. She is employed as an accountant by this enterprise.
My uncle is a senior electrician in the system. After retirement, he was hired as an electrician in the hospital.
I am the director of the clinical laboratory of Dagu Hospital, and I was hired as the clinical laboratory of private hospitals after retirement.
My aunt retired from the audit office and was hired to the audit office.
My uncle retired from the court and was hired as a consultant in a law firm.
As long as you have the ability, more units are vying for you. If you don't want to work any more, don't dance square dance or play mahjong. You can learn from my mother, who retired from the bank. At the age of 48, he began to learn Tai Ji Chuan, Taijijian, Wuqinxi and Qigong. Now he is an expert in this field in the third-tier cities in his hometown, and is responsible for mass sports work in the Social Sports Department of the Sports Bureau. And my aunt, after retirement, is obsessed with baking, making videos online and teaching others.
You are not yet 50 years old. You are just right. You have plenty of time to learn something. Just don't let yourself become a housewife. You will soon get old.
It's been almost a month since I retired from home at the age of 49. It is so boring. What should I do?
Hai Weichuan gives you a suggestion: No matter what you do, it is definitely better than staying alone! In life, don't let yourself be idle, and don't let yourself be idle and waste your precious life in vain.
The main reason lies in the following three points:
First, people get sick as soon as they stay. People can't just stay, as long as they stay, they will get sick, and all kinds of patients will come to you automatically. Although there is nothing wrong with it at ordinary times, when people are idle, all kinds of problems and sequelae will come to you directly.
The old injuries and tiredness accumulated in the past, as well as psychological and mental diseases, were discovered spontaneously and consciously.
There is nothing to do and no work to worry about now. The result of doing nothing all day is thinking about your health, and sometimes I really want to get sick.
Some diseases, the more I think about them, the more I look like them. Therefore, people can't stay, and if they stay, they will get sick.
Second, people become lazy when they stay. People can't stay long, because staying long will make them lazy.
When people are lazy, they are not interested in anything and are bored with everything.
If you are lazy, the meat on your body will grow, and if you are fat, you will be lazier, which may form a vicious circle. The fatter and lazier, the lazier and fatter.
People get fat, relax physically and mentally, and lose their spirits. This is the most terrible thing.
Mental slack is more worrying than physical obesity. Third, people get bored when they stay. People can't stay, as long as they stay, it means that they have nothing to do and nothing to think about, so they will feel bored.
Boring people can only do boring things. If there is nothing boring, it will become boring.
Don't think you are talking about tongue twisters. That is the reality. When people become bored, they will lose all their happiness and love, and nothing will be interesting.
No sadness, no joy, no anger or resentment, everything is so Buddhist and everything is so indifferent.
With an indifferent attitude, what passion and motivation can there be? Whether old or young, if there is no excitement and enterprising spirit, this life is doomed to be boring.
Don't leave yourself alone, try to find something to do, and don't let yourself waste precious time in life with a boring mind.
To sum up, Hai Weichuan suggested that we should just have some fun. Even if you are a volunteer, even if you are playing mahjong, even if you are cooking, it is better to do something casually than to be idle.
Do it seriously if you have something to do, and find something small or chores to do if you have nothing to do.
Please don't be idle, because staying will make you sick, staying will make you lazy, and being idle will really become that boring person. It's been almost a month since I retired from home at the age of 49. It's boring to say. What should I do?
First of all, I envy you. Retirement is the life I yearn for: I can realize the freedom of time, wake up naturally in the morning, eat two pieces of bread, drink a cup of homemade soybean milk, go to the market to buy food for a day, then make lunch, take a nap after dinner, play mahjong in the chess room in the community in the afternoon, or watch cards, listen to gossip, dance square dance in the evening and make new friends. . . . The days passed happily like this, and it felt good. Go fishing on weekends,
Enrich the dining table.
Of course, a person who has been busy in the workplace for most of his life suddenly finds himself idle, and there are always many unsuitable places. 49 years old is not too old, so life is a bit monotonous at first glance. For an old worker and veteran cadre who has worked hard in the workplace for many years, it is easy to find a job with his own skills and work experience. When looking for a job, it is best to find a job with low salary and free time, such as private enterprise accounting, which can be done in ten days. Or go to senior three, save your strength, enrich your knowledge and kill boredom.
49 years old, young! Just after work, there will be retirement syndrome! I hope to leave or retire when I am working in my post. After really retiring, there will be a happy moment.
I have a workmate who likes playing mahjong. Take a step back and rub every day; Call me in three months; Say: it's really boring. Mahjong is tasteless. Can you help me find something to do?
People are like this. They get tired of touching the same things every day after a long time. Work well, study well, and so does life. When I am bored, I will look for something that can bring me new or excitement. To change my mood.
1, retreat and adjust your mentality.
It is a fact that people who are not prepared before leave. You can talk to retired colleagues, co-workers and classmates for tea; Integrate into the life of retirees.
2. Do something that interests you and can kill boring time.
All kinds of flowers, raising birds, fishing, studying nutritious meals, etc. I used to be interested in things, but I didn't have time to do them. Now that I'm retired, I can study them as a subject. There are also some people who invent after retirement. Or join a senior team, a senior university, and cultivate interest.
3, looking for a job, both income and killing time.
Some people are not interested and just want to find a job. A person who has no skill, no ability and only one strength is a doorman and a security guard. And people with knowledge and technology. Some private companies will make an appointment with you before you retire. Of course, it is also good to use resources to start the relationship between three aunts and six grandmothers and find a job that you can accept.
A thoughtful person will not think about something after retirement, but will start his life after retirement before 10, that is to say, use this time to cultivate an interest.
One of my masters at work has a hobby, massage. Take this card before you leave your post. He said, why should I love this? When we reach a certain age, what we pursue is not material benefits, but a healthy life. Massage, as a technology, can not only bring me economic benefits, but also help me to adjust my body, killing two birds with one stone.
Let me give you a good idea, the latest hot topic, setting up a stall.
With the strong support of policies and the personal platform of Premier the State Council, ordinary people will no longer be bound by policies and worry about the siege of urban management uncles. They can throw off their sleeves and go all out.
Walking in the street at night or in the morning, I no longer feel the street is quiet, sparsely populated and empty. Toys are sold here, mobile phone stickers are sold there, there is a barbecue stall next to it, and there is a clothes stall not far away. Crowd surging, hawking, hawking, bargaining, children chasing and playing, very lively.
Since I retired at home within the age of 49, I found nothing to do and felt bored.
First of all, you can consider going to a stall near your home and looking around more. Is there anything you particularly like? Learn how others set up stalls and attract customers. At the same time, combine your own interests and abilities, choose a direction and plan ahead.
Secondly, choose the other side backward and start to consider choosing the source of goods. You can buy more goods from X Bao or X Dong or X. Buy less first, test the water, sell well, and then buy more. If it is not easy to sell, don't worry, it doesn't matter, use it yourself or apply for a return online.
Third, after collecting money every day, take stock of the goods and payment. Record the hot money and replenish the purchase quantity in time. Review the trading scene, get familiar with the sales skills and prepare for the next trading. Calculate the surplus of the day, as long as you make money, you can stick to it.
Finally, I want to say that once you retire, don't work too hard, rest more, and still take care of your grandchildren. It can not only improve the emotional communication with children and grandchildren, but also reduce the burden of children's daily care, and it is also a good way to pass the time.
Of course, every stall owner must set up a stall in a civilized way while making money, and obey the guidance of the urban management, so as not to affect the city appearance. After closing the booth, clean your booth and take away the corresponding domestic garbage.
Civilization stalled, starting with me.