Psychologists say that security and dependence are not.

Are completely equal, if you want to give your children enough.

A sense of security requires a stable and warm relationship with children.

Strong emotional connection, but such emotional connection is unique.

Not through 24-hour separation.

When I first left my children, my children

I'm definitely not used to crying for my parents.

Be with yourself. But for the needs of children, parents need

To "respond" but not satisfied with everything. although

However, children will not get used to it in the early stage, and slowly they will

You'll get used to it, and even fall in love with this time alone.

Between. And this time is also very important for children's self-development.

Very important.

02. Moderately satisfy children.

Children used to be in a good mood.

To mention is to be able to bear the inevitable things in life.

Disappointment and depression.

Only children know whether they can succeed or not.

Getting something doesn't depend on how much he wants it,

It depends on how hard he works for it and himself.

Ability, he can get the real heart.

Enrichment and happiness.

Parents moderately satisfy their children, which is one of them.

A process of making children understand this truth. such

Can not only cultivate children's patience, but also cultivate

He is in no hurry to do things. However, parents

Don't just say no, but explain it to your child.

Explain why not.

03. Appropriate punishment, to the end.

It is inevitable for children to make mistakes, and this time is also necessary.

In order to let children learn from middle school, it is necessary to punish them appropriately.

Will be the truth of life.

But when punishing children, you need to pay attention.

Children can be punished directly, but they should be prosecuted.

Tell your child, "You did something wrong, so you need it."

Being punished like this is what you want to be punished like this.

You can learn something from it. "Even children.

If you can't fully understand what you are saying, you can learn from it.

To your patience and respect for him.

In addition, parents' consent is required.

One can't say punishment, and the other comes and goes.

Mud. In this way, the child will fall into chaos and don't know what to do.

What you should do.

04. Face up to your child's shortcomings.

Every child is not born perfect.

Every child will have some shortcomings, such as a little.

Slightly fat, natural curly hair messy, sexual.

Greg's a little withdrawn or something

We can't directly deny these facts,

We should take the initiative to discuss these things with our children.

Affection, help children solve problems or value peace.

An attitude of accepting the status quo.

05. Learn to respect others

No matter what social class you are in, why?

When interacting with others, children need to respect others.

Get along with people.

Only by learning to respect others can we be better.

Understand the sunny side of the world.

06. criticize things, not people.

Criticizing children needs to focus on things rather than people.

Pay special attention not to dig up old scores.

For example, the child broke it because of carelessness.

Toys can be said as follows: "Look at those people who play with toys.

This bad thing will happen if you are not careful.

Love. ",and it is wrong to say:" you

This bad boy, I told you not to play like this,

Did you do it on purpose? Last time it was ... "

The correct criticism method clearly tells the child.

The reason why he made a mistake, but no one denied the child.

Products. The wrong way of criticism is from the beginning.

Deny the child's character and repeatedly mention it.

The previous mistakes made the children feel strongly depressed.

Sense, also hit his confidence as a good boy.

07. Let the children play by themselves.

Let the children do what they can as soon as possible.

He will be more active in the future.

Things. Don't help children share too much, speak for them.

Words, help children make decisions. Work for children.

Before, you need to consider that this thing is a child.

No, I can already do it myself.

Let the children try bravely, even if they

He will make mistakes, but in the process, he will learn.

Get more than lose.

Many times we forbid children to do something.

Love, not because it is dangerous, but because.

Because this thing is new, he hasn't done it. under

Remember to let go of this situation again.

Son, do it!

08. Teach children to communicate openly.

Communicating with others is a learning ability.

Force, speak your mind openly.

An ability worth learning. Let children learn to be honest.

Speak your inner thoughts to avoid it.

They can avoid doing something dark.

They keep negative emotions in their hearts for a long time.

Sound mental health.

Good communication can build parents and children.

The emotional connection between them.

Happiness is also an ability. In life, I

Children can teach them to observe more positive things.

Face, and actively face bad things.

At the same time, parents should set an example in front of their children.

Get more sunshine.

09.

Cherish what you already have and know how to love.

Children need to know what they already have.

Things will never disappear, just for him.

Children cherish and love them to do such a thing.

Something they've had for a long time. Anyway; anyway/no matter what/ in any case

The beloved toy is still friendship and affection.

If you want to love, you must maintain it with a cherished heart.

In particular, let children learn to cherish from the whole body.

Around people's friendliness and love. Shouldn't these things be?

Yes, we need to be able to get the feelings of others.

Well, it needs to be cherished more.