1. Avoid generality and vagueness.

"Awesome", "awesome" and "really capable" ... Many parents like to praise their children with such words. In fact, this general expression can't clearly understand the specific aspects of children who lack judgment and discrimination. It can not only inspire them, but also easily encourage their conceit.

Step 2 avoid hypocrisy

In order to encourage timid children, mothers do not hesitate to "cheat" themselves. For example, it is clear that my daughter can't dance very well, but after watching it, she said to the child, "The baby dances beautifully, better than the teacher!" "

Step 3 avoid derogatory irony

Xiaoming likes painting very much and won the prize in the painting competition. When he told his mother the good news, he got such praise: "You actually won the painting award. You don't look stupid. "

Avoid dealing with this matter

Sincerely committed to building blocks on the ground, building blocks again and again, and finally succeeded! He told his mother to see his "work" with joy. Mom is talking to her best friend on the phone. When she heard the baby's greeting, she took a look and said, "What a creative ride!" " I kept calling.

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