On weekends, the stadium is boiling with the hot weather, and the people on the stadium are also mixed. After the intermission, I chatted with golfers from all walks of life about Hu Kan. Talking about the NBA playoffs, I don't know who "took the topic off the side" and gradually led from basketball to "What is life first?" This problem has arisen.

Many people quickly changed from "athletes" to "experienced people", scrambling to explain their ideas.

An old "star" in his fifties said: "The first thing must be health. Health is the capital of revolution. That's why I have been exercising for decades! " The student next to me smiled and said, "There is nothing wrong with my body. The first one is to study hard and get into graduate school! " "The supermarket owner behind him disagreed and said," What are you doing at school? Of course, money comes first. Without money, nothing can be done! " Suddenly, a "young father" said anxiously, "Don't say anything important. The first thing now is for everyone to help me find out where my children are going to play. "I was just sitting under the basket!" Shocked, everyone helped find someone.

The result is of course that the child is safe and a false alarm. Everyone laughed and dispersed. Calm down and think about it, it is not difficult to find that life is like a play. People have to play many different roles in society, and they all have different responsibilities and tasks. Some factors that are often mentioned and emphasized, such as health, study and money, are indispensable to life.

In a word, it all depends on people's personal choice, which one of them will be at the top of the list.

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Everyone has his own ambition, and everyone is a living subject. Different ideas, different occupations and different growth experiences make people have different understandings of "first".

For example, in competitive competitions, the contestants said, "To win gold and silver, win the championship first!" "The referee said," Fairness first! " The organizer said, "Safety first! "The teacher said," Friendship comes first! " The audience said, "Wonderful first! "

Different identities, different angles of thinking and different judgments!

Similarly, the same person has different understanding of "first" at different stages of life.

In middle school, scores are the lifeblood of students, and learning is the first; In universities, comprehensive quality should be comprehensive and ability should be the first; After graduation, I found that the reality is cruel, and making money is the first; After work, achievement is the goal and career is the first; After marriage, supporting the family is the duty, and the family comes first; Gradually getting old, exercise and health preservation have been on the road, and health comes first.

It can be seen that this "first place", like people's tastes, is constantly changing. We should know how to change with constancy and savor life. Various identities correspond to various responsibilities, and there will always be an overlapping period, and there will be a phenomenon of "tied for the first place". It may make you "stressed", overwhelmed and exhausted, but only gradually adapting and planning as a whole is the only way to maturity.

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In fact, it doesn't matter whether positioning is the first, but the key lies in the position in mind, which determines the priority in the specific operation and implementation process. Therefore, the "first" is also true and false.

It is said that learning comes first, but in fact, hard work is false, not enterprising is true, and you will be lazy; Speaking ability first, the actual connotation quality is false, and the appearance of Yan value is true, which will be flashy; It is said that family comes first, but indomitable spirit is false. If you don't want to take responsibility for it, there will be quarrels and discord. It is true that work comes first, in fact, pragmatism is false, and cutting corners is true, so there will be fraud; It is said that health comes first. In fact, scientific health preservation is fake, and consumption overdraft is real, so there will be "danger signals". It is said that discipline is the first, but in fact, honesty is false and financial interests are real, so corruption will occur.

It is often said that the ideal is full and the reality is skinny. I think it is in this fierce collision that people choose not to go home knowing what they have done, experience involuntary sadness, understand the adult world and gain unexpected growth, among which the honor is only self-knowledge.

In any case, one thing is certain, that is, if you decide what to put first in your heart, you should treat it sincerely as "No.1" and let it really enjoy the "treatment" it deserves, because only the first place is worthy of the name, you will feel at ease and gain something in life!