? Liang Dong's Zhuangzi Homology is the third in Liang Dong's Zhuangzi series. This book can help us to establish a new philosophical perspective-the positive and negative aspects of an event are comprehensive together, and pessimism and optimism are philosophical together. Be optimistic when you are pessimistic, and be pessimistic when you are optimistic. In fact, we are all "idiots" because we live in the binary opposition of good and bad, right and wrong most of the time, so all our unhappiness in this world is because we don't realize that we are blinded by our own "prejudice". In this way, you will be suddenly enlightened. It turns out that a good life is to turn all the disappointments and complaints in the world into jokes. It turns out that when we are not smart enough, we can't see the essence of things unless we stand in a high dimension. We should practice holographic perspective in everything in life, and maybe we can really live a free life. We no longer struggle with right and wrong, jump out of the framework of binary opposition, understand that everything is not black and white, understand that "I am right for you", no longer expend energy to argue right and wrong, and strive to be Zhuangzi's "enemy without fighting". Try not to judge and accept completely.

The title of the fourth chapter is, how do you know that you and your husband are not two sides of the same life? He said, in fact, when we can really understand a man, he may not be a man anymore. This is when you really know a man. Accept that men are not men and women are not women. Accept your husband as a child, accept yourself as a man and accept your child as a little monster.

Giving is not just giving money, there are many ways to give, not limited to money. We can say thank you to the seller when paying every day, wish you good luck and make others happy. Isn't it a kind of giving?

The wisdom of relaxation, many times we always push too hard, we will be anxious because of lack of knowledge, we will sign up for various online classes, and then we will be more anxious because we can't finish learning. On the other hand, I always run to the toilet and do things in a hurry, and I don't know the wisdom of slowing down. This is what I want to correct from today, to live with consciousness and to taste all the beauty of life.

The world is determined by your will.

When you find yourself, the whole world will find you.

When you learn to love yourself, the whole world will love you.

These two words deeply shocked me. Many times we think that the way to love ourselves is to spend money on ourselves and love ourselves in the best way. But is this really the case? If so, the rich should be the happiest people who love themselves the most, but why are there still so many celebrities who are depressed or choose to commit suicide? They have much more resources and money than ordinary people! I think, perhaps the highest state of loving ourselves should be that we love ourselves, move towards loving everything in the world and move towards real unity.

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