Because the competition in the real society is fierce, the pressure of life is high, the price level is high, and the wages are not rising ... Most young people can't afford to buy cars or houses for capitalists, and they can't become coal bosses if they work hard.
Capital is in the hands of a few people. No matter how hard you try, it's hard to jump out of your class. There is no motivation to expect unattainable things. It is better to simply believe in Buddhism and live in the present.
Everyone has desires. Why do young people nowadays often have low desires? Nothing more than the following reasons.
With the improvement of living standards, desires can be satisfied at any time.
There is a saying called "tenderness and lust". When you are full and warm, you will do something painful or dirty.
Then our living standard has improved now, and we can see that our occupations are diversified now. For example, some people broadcast live online, some people comment online, and more people choose to sit or talk to make money.
From the real economy to the virtual economy, we can see that the living standard is really high now, and we can make money in many ways, so people with low desires feel very comfortable.
There are several reasons for the low desire of young people nowadays.
I was strangled by the internet and couldn't move forward.
For example, the current network has brought many people bad, and it has also made many people unable to move forward. Actually, it's not. The development of the internet will certainly make some people rich, but it will also hurt some people.
I once wrote such a passage in an article. How long has it been since I saw you get up in the morning and plan what I'm going to do today instead of what I saw and thought when I picked up my cell phone?
That's why I would say that we were killed by the Internet. It's not that you can do whatever you want, but that you have to do whatever the Internet tells you to do.
There are several reasons for the low desire of young people nowadays.
Living in the present is the idea of young people.
The world is so big that I want to see it. This is the idea of young people. Living in the present is the most deadly view, and they will not consider and prepare for the future. Therefore, there are more and more people in a society with low desires. More and more people cook frogs in warm water, so they will suffer in the end.
Until now, you will still be scolded for saying such things, but some truths and theories will only be verified and understood slowly with the passage of time. At the age of 20, you can't understand it. At the age of 30, but at the age of 40 and 50, you are a fool. There is no need to listen to these theories.
There are several reasons for the low desire of young people nowadays.
The point is, there is nothing worth pursuing around.
I really like sports cars, but I can't afford them. You don't need to look at what you saw in the street. I live in a small city on the third and fourth lines, and bought a 2000 electric car, which is enough for me to go anywhere. Recently, my father gave me a second-hand Buick, which lasted me until I was 30 years old.
This car is so old that starting the engine sounds like Lamborghini. I dare not drive 60 miles an hour. I am afraid that my front wheel will suddenly appear in my field of vision. Refueling is a bit expensive and painful, so I usually don't drive and ride an electric car if I can. Young people in small cities don't have many cars, and even if they do, most of them are bought by their parents. There is no problem that anyone looks down on them. I always ride an electric car to high school reunion, and no one pretends to force me to have a drink together. The best thing to do in the local area is to become the manager of Hanting. He was drunk and I had to send him home.
I can't afford a new house. If I don't eat or drink for 30 years, I won't get a loan. Why should I buy it? You can make do with the rest of the old house before you move home. Anyway, the place is big enough, the water and electricity are cheap, and the property fee is cheap, so I won't resent living by myself. Although all the furniture has been moved away, you can buy furniture that your friends have eliminated, and you can buy it for less than 2000 yuan. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with not getting married and using the old one. /kloc-a flat house on 0/20, in addition to living by yourself, can also raise a big orange cat. Isn't it more comfortable to slap a cat than to wait on a girlfriend?
I don't ask much for love. In my eyes, love should come after freedom. PS: It only represents me. I know that many people feel uncomfortable when they are single now. To be honest, I feel sorry for them. I have no secret crush, no goddess I can't get, and of course no girl chases me. I talked about two very good relationships before. There is no touching love, nor the bitter feeling of crying for land. The reason why the relationship between the two ended was that the feelings were weak. I have no temper, no romance, no great ability, and occasionally I will be stupid. I belong to a character that is not very popular with girls. I know ... when to get married and who to marry, until the day when I really can't put it off.
Even if I get married, the wedding room is the house where I live now. I will definitely not buy a new house. At most, I will renovate and buy a set of furniture. If it is a big deal, I will buy a car within100000. According to our custom here, the bride price is given by parents and will not exceed100000. There will be no pressure. After marriage, Ding Ding really didn't think too much. Our customs here are still conservative. Ding Ke must have a lot of resistance. Basically, she will have a baby. As long as the woman is a little suitable, the two of them will be able to provide for their children to grow up like ordinary small town children. Of course, don't think about studying abroad, playing grand piano or being a tutor. That doesn't belong to ordinary people in our town. In short, you can see the end of your life.
And I don't think I have the idea and consciousness to meet my wife and children, so I just don't harm them.