When people are old, everyone has their own views on how to look at the rest of their lives. I don't know what others think, but I can make my attitude clear.
When people are old, all kinds of situations can happen.
1, from the appearance, it will become extremely ugly, and it will look old and awkward.
2. In terms of ability, some people are healthy, have no serious diseases, and can take care of themselves without disturbing others.
However, most elderly people may get sick because of their decreased resistance, and some even stay in bed for a long time, unable to take care of themselves and need others to serve them.
There are also a few, like my grandmother, who can live independently at the age of 93 this year, cooking and washing clothes, playing cards, and her eyes are bright! Just hearing loss.
Say? Anyway, don't expect to live long. What is the consideration? If it's for the sake of children, it's really respectable if it doesn't drag them down. If you feel that living is meaningless, like the third kind of old people, who have been bedridden for a long time and have no quality of life, it is understandable!
Of course, in reality, middle-aged and elderly people have lost their ability to work and are inconvenient to move. Many of them have poor hygiene habits. Some children may be disgusted, fail to fulfill their support obligations, and even hurt the feelings or self-esteem of the elderly. Old people may feel wronged and lose confidence in life, so there is no need to say such angry words, and they can confidently ask their children to fulfill their obligations.
And like the first kind of old people, or like my grandmother, life is quite moist, why don't you want to live a long life! So? Anyway, don't expect to live long. This statement is still unrealistic and inappropriate.