After middle age, I have read all the vicissitudes of life and the world, and my understanding of people and things has become more mature and transparent.
Suddenly, I found that what I experienced in the past was just floating clouds, but I kept asking for it, competing with myself and fighting for winning or losing a game.
It turns out that only by maintaining a peaceful mind can we cross the world and shine forever.
Just like a sentence in "Small Window": "Don't be humiliated, just look at the flowers in bloom before the court; I have no intention of staying, and I am covered in clouds. "
If you don't like what you get, don't worry about what you lose, don't be humiliated, and have no intention of staying or staying, then everything will be smooth.
Zhou Zeng said: "Peace is because you get rid of the temptation of superficial fame and fortune."
1903, the Wright brothers became famous in the world after completing their first flight experiment.
Although they became world-famous figures, they did not get carried away, but settled down to do research, worked silently and never attended meaningless parties.
Welber told him, "You know what, sir? Parrots like to croak, but they can't fly high. "
It is precisely because the Wright brothers were not blinded by fame and fortune that they were able to devote themselves to invention and creation. They not only changed their own lives, but also changed the transportation, economy, production and daily life of human beings.
Get rid of inner material desires and anxiety, and life will return to inner peace.
Calm down and you can concentrate on your heart.
Su Xun, a writer in the Northern Song Dynasty, wrote in The Book of Quan Shuxin: "Mount Tai collapses in front and its color remains the same, while the elk thrives on the left without blinking, and then it can control its advantages and rule its enemies."
Sages through the ages, the more they encounter earth-shattering events, the more calm they are.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Wei sent Sima Yi to attack the street kiosks in Shu, but Zhuge Liang failed to send Ma Su, leaving only 2,500 soldiers stationed in Xicheng.
Unexpectedly, Sima Yi suddenly led the troops to attack Xicheng. Zhuge Liang had no generals around him at this time.
In times of crisis, Zhuge Liang was calm and ordered the soldiers to open the city gate and play the piano and sing on the rostrum himself.
Seeing that Zhuge Liang was so calm, Sima Yi suspected that there was an ambush in the city, so he led the troops to retreat, thus deducing the famous "empty city plan".
Big moves are not as good as small moves, and small moves are not as good as static moves. Quiet is big. Change with constancy, people don't know me, I know people alone, and success is imminent.
I have seen the personal experience of netizens:
Xiao Liu goes to work in other places, reunites with his family and brings gifts to his son every time he goes home.
This time, he forgot to buy it, worried that his son would be unhappy, and decided to take him out for a ride. I didn't expect my son to disappear before I went out.
I went out to have a look. It turned out that my son was "angrily" scratching something with a stone in the car.
He thought his son was deliberately making trouble, so he dragged his son over and beat him up without saying anything, and accidentally broke his hand.
When he came home from the hospital with his son, he found five words scrawled on the car body: "Dad, I love you."
Xiao Liu regretted it so much that he cried with his son in his arms.
Quiet can make you smart, active can make you confused.
Anxiety will not only bring trouble to yourself, but may even get into trouble.
There is an old saying: "Corporal keeps fit, sergeant keeps fit, and staff sergeant keeps fit."
A clean heart leads to a clean body.
If you want to be healthy and happy, you must keep a peaceful mind, which is more useful than any health preservation.
Read a story:
A little girl is in hospital and always in a bad mood. She was puzzled when she saw that the old lady next door was very ill but in good spirits.
After careful observation, she found that the old man often looked out of the window and smiled thoughtfully while watching.
One day, the old man said to the little girl, "Look, the scenery outside is so beautiful!" "
So the old man described the scene outside the window to the little girl. In the description of the old man, there are plots, pictures and endless interesting things.
As the old man spoke, he infected the little girl and made her laugh.
One day, the old man was discharged from the hospital, and the little girl asked to live in the place vacated by the old man.
When the little girl moved there, she got up and leaned out of the window. Everything outside surprised her. So, what's the beauty? Right next to a black wall.
The best doctor is himself, and the most effective prescription is mentality.
A wise man follows his heart, and the situation turns with his heart; A foolish man follows his situation and his heart moves with it.
Some time ago, I always encountered difficult things at work. When something happens, I always worry that I can't handle it well or I don't know how to handle it.
Quite simply, I put things aside and let myself calm down and think.
Unexpectedly, because of my calm attitude, my client finally complied with my request.
As the saying goes: "There is no hurdle that can't be crossed, only a bend that can't be turned."
Life, with gains and losses, with bitterness and sweetness, is the best health care.
The writer Pique Yale once said:
"In this rapidly changing era, nothing is more important than sitting quietly."
The hardest and luckiest thing in life is to have a quiet world, out of the world, but rich in heart.
Silence is the most precious wealth in life.
When you grow up, you have experienced the ups and downs of the years, and you have experienced the baptism of the wind and rain. You should know how to balance the outside world and your own heart.
Silence is not for enjoyment, but for maturity.
Only by calming down can we gain insight into our own hearts, realize the true meaning of life and sublimate our experiences into experiences.
In the quiet moments of leisure, imagine a trip to the world and dilute those secular noises.
Even if the fate is heavy, it will eventually be filled with the light in my heart.