Start with the accent and find the topic of fellow villagers
No matter where China people go, they will have a hometown complex. Therefore, you should learn to distinguish the accent of guests, whether it is your hometown or not. If it is your hometown, your distance will be closer and the communication will be smooth.
Even if you are not a fellow villager, where are the guests? We have relatives and friends, or people who like your guest's hometown best, and we are most willing to deal with people there!
Give God full face.
If a guest brings a friend, we should give him enough face in front of his friend, and at the same time, we should not ignore his friend. If his friend is an important customer he invited today, we should cooperate with the guest and give him full face. Our guest is God. The customer of the guest is also God in his eyes!
A little life
If the guest brings a child, the parents' focus is on the child. We should praise our clients' children more. Children are the best in the eyes of parents, and praising children is much more effective than praising guests themselves.
Find topics around children, talk to children about what they are most interested in, make children happy, and his parents will be happy!
Pay more attention to the health of guests. For example, if you find that a guest's shoulder is sore and he reacts greatly when you press it, then you should introduce it into your life. Are you busy, too tired from work, etc. Say some health professional knowledge first, so as to find the topic, and the guests will think you are very professional.
Find the latest fashion and fashion topics.
Recent hot events on the Internet, the latest news facts and some social events, etc. Can be regarded as your same topic, and we can talk about it, agree with the guest's point of view, and don't talk to him (taboo).
Many technicians talk about their own opinions regardless of the guests' feelings, which leads to unhappiness!
Find a topic in the recently hit TV series (movies)
We like which TV series the guest likes best, and which protagonist or role he likes, so do we.
If you really can't find a topic, you can let the guest watch TV, then see which programs he is interested in, and then find the same topic, so it will be easier to chat.
Create a pleasant chat atmosphere.
To be a listener, you should listen attentively when the guests are in high spirits and gushing. If a guest is in a bad mood today, for example, he has a conflict with his colleagues in the company today, or quarrels with his wife (husband) at home today, he will definitely pour out his bitter water. You only need to cooperate with his words, give proper recognition and nod, and the guests will be more willing to communicate with you, making them feel that he can only talk to you.
A person who is good at listening to others quietly must be a person with thought, meticulous knowledge and conduct, and modest and gentle personality. The best communication is to be a listener who listens with relish.
Chat humorously
People with a sense of humor are not only happy to do things, but also happy to talk. Wherever they go, happiness will spread. Such people inevitably have shortcomings, but because they are interesting, they make people laugh and happy, and everyone is willing to get along with them.
Humorous people seldom follow logical laws. On the contrary, they often confuse each other with bizarre theories or similar sophistry.
Jokes, wisecracks, and laughter without banter are continuous, which makes the seat drop. People with this special developed talent are always round and well-informed smart people.
A person with a sense of humor is a person with a keen sense, a healthy mind, a smile and an open mind. Others are willing to associate with them, get close to them and make friends.
Can be properly funny.
You can always explain a problem freely by teasing, stick two unrelated things together, and create a disharmonious, unreasonable and unexpected effect, thus producing funny art in this dislocation of causality and the contradiction between emotion and logic.
Know how to beat about the bush
When chatting with people, you should be good at listening between the lines and conveying the implication. We are sophisticated and good at puns, and some guests say sensitive words. We should be tactful and avoid them skillfully.
Finding the same topic is actually not difficult, as long as you put your heart into it, it is easy to do it. In addition, I usually read a lot of books, such as communication, psychology, sales promotion (marketing), health preservation (acupoints, meridians) and health preservation recipes. ...