You can let children try to do some small things that they can, and give appropriate encouragement after success.
1, give children enough room to start work.
If the child wants to dress himself, don't stop him in a hurry. When the child is dressed, you can say, "Well done! My baby can dress himself, it's amazing! " If the child wants to clean the room by himself, you can also let him do it by himself. Don't complain even if the child isn't clean enough. Give children positive encouragement. As parents, our goal is to encourage children to take care of themselves and leave enough space for their hands.
2. Provide appropriate help to children.
If children want to cook by themselves, you may think it is too complicated for them. You can give them some help: give them a box of oatmeal, a small bowl with handle and a small bottle of milk. With your help, children can make their own breakfast safely.
3, increase the enthusiasm of children to take care of themselves.
Of course, children don't suddenly think of doing housework. Doing housework is not a happy thing for children. At this time, you need to strengthen your child's enthusiasm. You can say, "Good boy, think about how great it is that you can clean your own room. 15 minutes I'll come and see if you can finish it, ok? " You can give your child a small alarm clock to help him improve his sense of time and give him an appropriate reward after completion.
4. Praise children in front of others
Let your child hear your praise for him in front of others, such as "My child can organize his own wardrobe, and I am really proud of him", or "My child has read a lot of books, and now he knows a lot, which is great!" Children will be proud of their self-care ability and enhance their self-confidence when they hear your praise for him.