First of all, Tu Lei is regarded as a master of emotion. In fact, Tu Lei's programs are basically emotional programs. I started as a host, hosting some emotional programs myself. In emotional programs, he put forward some famous sayings and even told some women how to be themselves. When he put forward these famous sayings, they were highly recognized by everyone, and also made many women find their real direction, that is, from that time on, the emotional master Tu Lei became the benchmark of everyone's emotional direction.
Tu Lei can always point out all the problems in life. Emotionally, Tu Lei taught many women how to deal with problems and guided them to be themselves emotionally. For both boys and girls, all guidance is positive energy and the direction is correct.
With the broadcast of the program, the hosts in Tu Lei are more complete and people can see more different things. Later, Tu Lei was not only a host, but also an emotional expert. He sat down under the stage, carefully observed the emotional behavior of the guests, analyzed these emotional behaviors and put forward very good opinions. No matter whether everyone is good or not, he will give himself enough advice, walk into people's hearts and dissect this feeling through people's hearts. Some of his words are very original.
Although he often speaks sharply and makes people speechless, for the first time in this relationship, he can grasp the contradiction between two people and let them truly realize their mistakes. This is something that many people can't do in their feelings. Even as a bystander, many people can't see clearly. However, Tu Lei can clearly explain these problems. Therefore, many people like Tu Lei's behavior and hope that Tu Lei can put forward some better suggestions on his marriage and feelings.
After becoming an emotional expert, Tu Lei has more time to observe other people's feelings. At that time, many people sought Tu Lei's help privately, hoping that Tu Lei would give them more advice. Tu Lei will also put forward his own ideas or views on some relatively chaotic emotional problems, and tell these people that when they encounter emotional problems, they need to face them seriously, that is, from that time on, Tu Lei became a real emotional master, not only on the stage, but also on the stage.
Although the name comes from emotional programs, his ability is recognized by everyone, and many people also recognize his views on love and marriage. So he is a real marriage master in people's minds, and many people like to listen to his advice.
Second, even if he became an emotional master, he overturned on the plane. The emotional master overturned because he was participating in a program. After the program, Tu Lei boarded the plane. Tu Lei was very tired on the plane. He put on a pair of disposable slippers and put his feet on the front bulkhead. His behavior is very incomprehensible to everyone, or for many people, such behavior is disrespectful to others, even if you take off your shoes and put your feet on the cabin. Therefore, many people think that since Tu Lei is a master of emotion, we should also pay attention to these things.
After this incident came out, the internet was divided into two factions. The netizens in the school think that this matter is insignificant and not a big deal. Besides, Tu Lei is sitting in the front row, and there is no one in front. So what he did was equivalent to not affecting anyone, and Tu Lei specially changed disposable slippers for fear of soiling the cabin wall. Therefore, his behavior has been well warned before, ensuring the cleanliness of the engine room wall. At the same time, it won't affect the people behind the seat, so many people think that it's not a big mistake for Tu Lei to do so.
Another group of netizens think that this is a rude behavior and should be dealt with seriously. Even if he wears disposable slippers and changes them after boarding the plane, once his feet are placed on the cabin wall, it will lead to unsanitary and bring unnecessary trouble to passengers and staff. We shouldn't do such behavior in any place. After all, it is very unsightly and disrespectful to others. No matter whether anyone is in front or not, we can't do it, especially as a star, we should always be strict with ourselves and never relax, so as to set up a positive image for everyone. Therefore, this matter is in Tu Lei.
Of course, some netizens think that Tu Lei is a human being, and he will relax in private, which is a completely relaxing behavior. We can't treat stars as gods. On many occasions, there will be some unsightly behaviors and some relaxing behaviors. Although these actions are wrong, they are understandable. As long as we correct our mistakes in time and apologize to the audience, many people can forgive Tu Lei. These people are in a relatively neutral position. They think Tu Lei should apologize and Tu Lei's behavior can be forgiven.
During that time, there were different opinions, and Tu Lei's reputation suddenly declined. Although many people think he has good feelings, he has a bad personality, so everyone doesn't recognize him. In addition, Tu Lei is not a real master of emotion, but he went from a salesperson to a host, and then from a host to an emotional expert. Therefore, at that time, many people began to disapprove of Tu Lei and thought that Tu Lei could not bear the present name.
Third, his behavior on the plane, a CCTV host came out to speak. After the incident, Tu Lei apologized at the first time. In the process of apologizing, he explained why he did this behavior, because he was the host and stood for a long time, which led to varicose veins. When resting, he needs to raise his legs and let the blood flow back, so as to ensure that his legs can walk normally. This is also a health care behavior, and he put on disposable slippers at the first time to ensure it.
Tu Lei's apology was criticized by CCTV supporters as soon as it came out. This supporter thinks that Tu Lei's explanation is a cover-up and an act of whitewashing peace. Whether or not the flight attendant approves of your behavior, you can't make this action in this case. Even if you have varicose veins, you should keep your initial behavior. After all, you are a star and a positive image. Wrong is wrong. An apology is an apology. Don't use these things to cover up your behavior.
Not only that, the host also published a lot of critical comments on social media, and deeply analyzed Tu Lei's previous apology articles. In the article, she raised many questions, questioning Tu Lei's explanation, not apologizing, but excusing her behavior. At the same time, she also asked: Is it really right for Tu Lei to do so? Moreover, as a public figure, is it possible to mess around at will with your permission?
Due to the criticism of the host, Tu Lei was attacked by a large number of fans. Everyone thinks that what Tu Lei did is untrue, and Tu Lei should apologize rather than explain. After this incident came out, Tu Lei made a serious apology again, telling everyone that he shouldn't have done such an act, and he felt sorry for his behavior.
During that time, Tu Lei was pushed to the hot search again. This hot search was caused by his words and deeds. Many people think that Tu Lei should apologize seriously. If he does something wrong, he will do something wrong. After all, everyone will never forgive him. He shouldn't make excuses to explain his behavior again and again, and try his best to tell everyone that this kind of behavior is allowed. This is even more shameful. Therefore, at that time, Tu Lei was even more shameful.
Of course, there are also a few people who think that Tu Lei's explanation and apology are not wrong. Shouldn't you explain the cause and effect of the incident when apologizing? Therefore, many people think that Tu Lei is only explaining the source of this incident and should not be hit like this. Besides, they can understand Tu Lei's behavior. After all, it's hard to be a gentleman when you suffer some physical pain. In many cases, you will keep a relatively relaxed posture.
Fourth, no one is perfect. Personally, I think: there is no need for everyone to cling to this matter. After the uproar over this matter, many people have come forward to discuss it. However, most people think that Tu Lei's mistake is not big, but no one is perfect. No one can really be a gentleman under such circumstances and can really maintain all his actions. Most people, or most gentlemanly people, will also have some indecent behaviors when they relax naturally.
People have natural needs, and these natural needs are sometimes uncontrollable. For example, the act of picking your nose is actually very unsightly in private, and even disrespectful to others. But many times, in front of friends and relatives, you don't care about your image at all, and think this kind of behavior is a very relaxed behavior. At the same time, friends and relatives will not think that your behavior is disrespectful to him. On the contrary, they will think that this kind of nose-picking behavior is a kind of intimacy. After all, they know that you are just an ordinary person. Of course, this is just an example, and it is not necessarily this kind of behavior.
Moreover, there is no real God in this world, and there is no one who can't make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. It is forgivable to apologize and correct his behavior the first time he makes a mistake. As long as his mistake does not violate the law, it is only related to personality. So some small mistakes can basically be forgiven by everyone.
I think Tu Lei's behavior is actually a small mistake, not a big one. In addition, Tu Lei was in a relaxed state at that time, and it was completed with the permission of the flight attendants. I don't think we should haggle over this matter.
Moreover, his behavior has nothing to do with his emotional topic. Emotionally, he did well, not only for his wife, but also for his family. I think emotionally, he has established a very positive image. In private life, some of his relaxation behaviors should be understandable, because Tu Lei is also a normal person.
We are more concerned about some of his emotional views. If these views are positive, I think this will do. Even if he made some small mistakes in other aspects, he could be forgiven. As long as he explains and apologizes at a critical time, I don't think it's a big deal, and I don't think it's an incorrect attitude. In short, no one is perfect, and gold is not enough! At any time, people will make mistakes, some small mistakes, and we can forgive him generously!
5. Many people like Tu Lei's view on emotion. Although Tu Lei's current traffic is not as good as the previous traffic, he has not gone bankrupt. On the contrary, there are still many people who like Tu Lei's emotional quotes. They think that Tu Lei's famous emotional quote is quite unique, which can inspire many people to be themselves emotionally, and make people really realize that emotion is not a necessary necessity in life, but an additive, which will make life better.
Nowadays, many people will ask Tu Lei privately when they encounter emotional problems. They hope to get some help from Tu Lei, so that they can better handle their emotions, better understand their emotions and find their own emotional direction. Therefore, in terms of emotion, for many people who need help, Mr. Tu Lei is still an emotional master in everyone's mind.
Not only that, but also Tu Lei's famous words on the Internet have guided many people's emotional views and made people think of him the first time they encounter problems. In other words, everyone can think of the method once given by Tu Lei at the first time. Let us be more handy when facing emotional problems. So we can only say that what happened on the plane only had a great impact on Tu Lei, and it didn't go bankrupt.
Perhaps, Tu Lei didn't handle it well, but it won't affect Tu Lei's career, and most people think that no one is perfect, and Tu Lei's case can be forgiven.