Make it short. In fact, a person's

Life is really short in the long river of history.

For now. So how should we be happy?

Spend your life happily? Especially in

We are in such fierce competition.

Times, how to keep good?

Mentality, reduce defects. My feeling is that

Just relax!

Relax your mind, conform to your destiny, live and die together, and be rich in heaven. Since it is birth and death, wealth is the will of fate. We can't decide, we can't control, we can't do anything, so we must learn to admit and adapt. Facing the prosperity of life, we should learn to be calm; In the face of life's adversity, learn to accept it. If you can't do this, you will struggle with it all day, and asking again and again will only aggravate the pain of your life!

To relax and enhance self-confidence means to have confidence in yourself, to believe in your beauty, to believe in your maturity, to believe in your ability and to believe in everything. Appreciate yourself, motivate yourself, revel in yourself, make yourself proud and radiant!

Relax your mind and learn to forget. People often say: "forgetting the past means betrayal!" " . But you know, forgetting past regrets is a great pleasure in life. Everyone should understand the truth of seeing each other, and you have it in your heart. For example, if a person is wronged outside, you tell this person today and tell that person tomorrow. In fact, this means that every time you repeat it, it is like being wronged again, which means that things have passed and you are still being wronged every day. The regret that has plagued your life for a long time can't extricate yourself, which will damage your quality of life! So we should learn to forget!

To relax, we must pursue optimism. Whether life is optimistic or not depends on a state of mind. For example, there is half a bottle of wine in front of us, and pessimists say that there is only half a bottle of such a good wine left; Optimists may say that there is still half a bottle of such a good wine. Different expressions are due to different mentality. If a person has an optimistic attitude, his heart will be more peaceful; If it is a pessimistic attitude, then his heart will not be at ease. So we should face life optimistically and live well!

Relax your mind and look down on gains and losses. A key prerequisite for relaxing is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside the body. Those who look down on gains and losses must be open-minded, calm and relaxed; People who value gains and losses will complain no matter how much they get, afraid of losing what they get, and even do whatever it takes to safeguard the benefits they get. Must be a heavy heart. Those who value gains and losses may not get much in the end; People who look down on gains and losses may gain a lot of unexpected things.

Relax your mind, base yourself on peace, and treat life with a peaceful mind, that is, don't be overjoyed when something happens, so as not to hurt your body and mind. Is to treat everyone with tolerance, and be tolerant inside. With a peaceful mind and state of mind, we can make up for congenital deficiencies and acquired faults, enhance our concentration, enrich our lives, and make our hearts open and bright!

Let's relax and live happily and warmly in the long and short journey of life!

Some reasons to comfort us.

People who suffer losses say: it is a blessing to suffer losses.

The person who lost things said: break the money and avoid disaster.

Timid people say: the rafters in the early days rot first.

Those who get away with it say, we are blessed to be alive.

Those who are oppressed by the wicked and breathless say that it is not the time.

The outgoing official said: no official is light.

Those who are frustrated in officialdom say: A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise.

After the incident, an official said: 30 years in Hedong, 40 years in Hexi, the wind and water turn.

People born at the wrong time often use q: I used to have much more money than you.

People who are ripped off often like to paraphrase Ah Q: Just wait and see, it's only a matter of time. ...

Parents who gave birth to a girl said: it is a blessing to raise a daughter and a name to raise a son.

The wife of a man without money says: a man becomes bad when he has money.

The henpecked husband said that it is good to have someone to take care of it, and nothing needs to be taken care of.

When the husband doesn't cook, the wife tells people that the man who walks around the stove all day is worthless.

People who live on the top floor say: the top floor is good. Go upstairs and downstairs to exercise. The air is fresh and there will be no harassment.

People who live on the first floor say: the first floor is good, easy to get in and out, and avoiding climbing stairs is very tiring.

As the ancients said, life is often unsatisfactory. Life is too short to be satisfied with only one or two things. Therefore, many people are always sighing and pessimistic when facing life. This is very bad for health, and this understanding should be changed.

19 1 1 year, the famous calligrapher Yu Youren experienced many vicissitudes, but remained indifferent all his life. Friends often ask him how to keep fit. He always points to the calligraphy and painting hanging on the living room wall and laughs without a word. It is a freehand lotus painting with a couplet next to it: "If you don't think, you will have it." Horizontal batch: "Ruyi"

The road of life can't always be smooth sailing. In the course of life, frustration, failure and helplessness are always inevitable. In the face of these, we need to face up bravely and get up after falling, instead of complaining, being depressed or even depressed. Therefore, smart people are always full of confidence in life, often thinking about "112" and abandoning the unsatisfactory "nine times out of ten"

"One or two" is hope; "One or two" is an achievement; "One-two" often leads us to resolve obstacles on the way forward with openness and tenacity. Let your career be successful and your body and mind be healthy!

People's success is to meet noble people, but we don't know who is noble, so there is only one way for us to treat everyone around us as noble people.