When it comes to discounts, perhaps many people are very excited and happy, because it is a pleasant thing to buy what they want with less money. If something in a person's life is discounted, not to mention whether he is happy or not, the meaning of his life will be discounted. Look carefully, it is not the discounted goods that really sell well, and those successful people will not appear in front of the discounted goods!
Please give yourself a complete self.
I am kind and strange. Can you explain it? Me? Really? Since we were born, self-awareness first appeared at the age of 2-3. Did it come from our consciousness and mouth? Me? It represents an independent and vivid individual. However, too many times, maybe a few years, maybe decades, maybe a lifetime, some people can't know themselves. Me? Like a stranger in the mirror! Because of this, we should not let ourselves be incomplete and give ourselves a discount.
Life. Everyone's life is equally precious and unique. The integrity and longevity of life cannot be compromised. Will what you do today and now discount your life and shorten it? Only when you are alive can you get to know each other? Me? To live for myself.
Dream god creates man, greatness lies not in creating the body but in giving the soul! It is precisely because people have souls that they have dreams. Dreams are like wings. God wants everyone to fly to heaven. Therefore, if people easily shake, give up or have no dreams, it is like breaking their wings. Life without dreams will eventually become a regret!
Life and dreams are the soul and core of self, just like one black and one white in China's Taiji diagram. One is the body and the other is the spirit. Body and soul are indispensable. A person who gives up life or dreams easily is undoubtedly a poor person who can't see himself clearly and is incomplete!
Two. Morality and conscience
Self is more about the coordination between self and soul, and people will eventually belong to the group. In a group, we should not only abide by various principles of consultation, but also support, care and respect each other. Eating, drinking and having fun can be discounted, but one's moral conscience can't!
Psychologist Kohlberg devoted his life to the study of the development of human moral level. According to his theory, people have to go through three levels and six stages of moral development in this life. But in any case, the level of moral development always develops from low level to high level, from utilitarian stage to principle stage, to social contract orientation stage, and finally to conscience orientation stage as the highest mature stage. Judging from his moral development level, the later he develops, the more he cares about the lives and values of others, rather than staying in the utilitarian stage.
Productivity is improving every day, but I'm not sure about society. Because if a person's morality and conscience are broken, he will return to or stay in the utilitarian stage. Selfishness and equal exchange will numb him and muddy his soul.
3. Don't use it easily? Sacrifice?
The ancestors of China people were clever. They discovered a law in the universe, which is what we often call giving up. Give up, give up, give up some, get some. But many people only see this, but they don't know that choice is not always necessary. Don't sacrifice what you deserve unless you have to!
Don't sacrifice your health easily for fame, wealth, pleasure and comfort. Without a healthy body, you can't find a better life.
Don't sacrifice your feelings easily: affection, love and friendship. Dreams are not based on broken family ties, broken love and pale friendship. On the contrary, dreams need their care and help more.
Don't sacrifice your energy and time easily. Some things are like limited resources. You use it less. ? Is the industry good and diligent? Playing is fun and easy, but this is not the whole meaning of life. In the face of work and study, you need to go all out.
Don't despise your life easily. I once wrote that people should learn to live a suboptimal life, but this does not mean to live a discounted life. Living a suboptimal life is essentially a choice, and living without discount is a principle. If everything you do is on sale, and you give up halfway, it means that your life is constantly on sale. On the contrary, if you can resist temptation, resist loneliness, overcome loneliness and go all out to complete everything, then your life will not be discounted, but will continue to increase in value!
So, from now on, re-examine yourself and know yourself:
1. Respect your wishes, plan yourself, do what you like, and don't follow blindly;
2. In the face of multiple choices, learn to think independently and make ideal judgments;
3. Arrange time reasonably and live a healthy life;
4. Purify your mind, increase your own value and read more books;
5. Exercise properly, learn to keep in good health and eat healthily;
6. Balance affection, love and friendship, and let these feelings become the nourishment of life;
7. Cultivate a calm and stable mentality, so that the body, mind and spirit are unified and harmonious.