0 1, ask about your private life. Usually, when a man chats with a woman, it doesn't involve a woman's private life. For example, what is the relationship between a woman and her boyfriend or her husband? Are women satisfied with their boyfriends or husbands? Do you feel happy with him? Wait, a topic involving women's private lives. If these seemingly concerned words come from a married man, he probably wants to know how you get along with your partner so that he can take advantage of them. His purpose is not to really care about you. If you accidentally say that you don't have a good relationship with your partner, or that your partner has some shortcomings, he may make a fuss about this topic. He will not only provoke the relationship between you and your other half, but also make himself play a reasonable and mature man and win your good feelings for him. Therefore, as a woman, if a married man talks about your private life in front of you, you must be vigilant. It's best to change the topic, or stop talking, so as not to make him think and bring unnecessary trouble to himself. 02. To say that his marriage is unfortunate here, we should remind women that under normal circumstances, unless women ask, men rarely say their wives in front of women, that is to say, they also speak well for their wives. On the contrary, if a married man mentions his wife in front of a woman, he will grumble about the misfortune of his marriage. You should be careful of such people. Nine times out of ten, he wants to win your sympathy, arouse your mother's love and make you be good to him. And often some women just don't understand what men say, and their sympathy soars, so they really start to care about men. So unconsciously, the relationship with married men is one step closer. In fact, his life is his own business, so you don't have to worry about his wife. A woman only needs to do what she should do, and never abuse her sympathy. If he sees your sympathy or concern for him, he will want to go further with you. The purpose is to replace his wife with some of your or her obligations and seek some comfort from you. In fact, only he knows best how his wife treats him. Telling about the misfortune of your marriage may be just routine. Women should be careful not to believe it easily. 03, involving some sensitive topics, the so-called difference between men and women, normal communication between men and women, sensitive topics with color, he will not say casually, and occasionally a little slip of the tongue can be understood and justified. However, if a married man always wants to talk about that topic in front of women, or even say something with color directly, it can only show that he did it on purpose. Although he may show a serious attitude and talk to you about such a topic, he is actually testing your bottom line. If you don't mind, but also show great interest and even cater to him, then he will probably know who you are, and he will further attract you, and the purpose can be imagined. You know, any serious man will not talk about rude topics with women at will, because he cares more about his image in front of women and doesn't want to destroy his friendship with women. As long as he takes the initiative to involve such a topic, then I can tell you responsibly that he just has no good plans in mind. A woman should stop loss in time and cut off contact with him. As the saying goes, listen to the sound. So, if you want to know whether a man is serious, just look at what topic he is talking to you. When chatting with men, women should try to distinguish whether there are other meanings in men's words. Don't just stick to his superficial meaning, because if you think deeply, you will see him more clearly Therefore, please don't be fooled by the superficial phenomenon of men, so as not to fall into the "trap" laid by men. A man is not serious about what he talks to you. 2 0 1. Talk about how unhappy his marriage is. When a serious man is chatting with other women, he will certainly rarely mention the details of his marriage. Even if I did, I would only say how good my wife is to me, and I wouldn't tell anyone about the misery of my marriage. After all, everyone's marriage is a chicken feather. But if you meet a man who is not very serious, he will tell you how unhappy his marriage is, how bad his wife is to him and so on. The main purpose of his saying this is to gain your sympathy. Because he clearly knows that women are soft-hearted, and if he tells you this, you will definitely sympathize with him, and then you two will have a story. It is also possible that he told you this on purpose to arouse your sympathy. In either case, you should know that when a man keeps telling you that his marriage is unhappy, he is pursuing you. You'd better not talk to such a man, or you may put your happiness in it. 02. Speaking of some sensitive topics, a man who tells you that his married life is unhappy is interested in you. Then when chatting with you, I always say some sensitive topics, which shows that this man is obviously interested in you. A serious man will talk about some normal topics when chatting with women, and will not use such sensitive and colorful topics. If he says this, it is not only for you, not only that he is not a serious person, but more importantly, he doesn't respect you at all. Angelababy works in a large fitness club, and a friend introduced her to an object. When two people date, the other person always says some colorful and sensitive topics. The first blind date was like this. Angelababy knew that this man was definitely not serious and looked down on her. In fact, Angelababy works very hard, which is not what he thought. This man, whom Angelababy met only once, banned WeChat after he came back. 03. Asking about your private life Everyone has his own private life, especially women. Private life may only be discussed with your girlfriend. Some women don't even want to talk about their girlfriends, just think it's their privacy and don't like to share it with others. If a man is chatting with you and the topic is about your private life, you will definitely feel very uncomfortable. Ignore him. I think you are rude. If you ignore him, you don't want to talk. After all, it is your privacy. In fact, such a man is not a serious man, even if you ignore him, it is normal. No one wants their private life to be known, and no one blames you if you don't tell. A man always asks about your private life, which not only shows that this man is not very serious, but also shows that this man has no quality. I don't think from each other's point of view. No one wants others to know their private lives, let alone women. When he asks you about your private life, you change the subject, don't talk, avoid answering this question, and don't make trouble for yourself. Narrator: Women had better pay attention. Men in society are still very complicated. Whether you are in contact with single men or married men, especially married men, there are many indecent places, that is, you want to take advantage of the simplicity of the little girl and talk about some special private topics every time you chat with the little girl. So everyone should be vigilant. Don't give these dishonest people a chance. Even if he asks, you should pretend you don't know, and don't answer anything others ask. If you are an inexperienced woman, you should learn to protect yourself more. Don't wait until you fall into the trap dug by a man, then you have wasted so many years. It is the most important thing to protect yourself when you go out, especially a good-looking woman. Men are not serious about talking to you about anything. 3 A man is serious or not, just look at the way he contacts you. 0 1, Zhihu said: "The higher the level, the more devoted they are to their feelings. Because they are good at dealing with their own desires, they will not talk about who to play with or who to play with such superficial values. They are more willing to bear the storms of life with someone, because time should be used to do serious things." Most women like single-minded men, and they feel very safe with such people. They won't be suspicious every day, fearing that they will lose him one day. The most important thing is that this man is only good to himself and won't be too involved with other members of the opposite sex. Although women want such a man, not every woman can meet such a good man. Some men just pretend to be serious on the surface, but in fact he is very bad and not as smart as women think. Some women will ask, men are the same at first sight. We should do this to judge whether this person is sincere or not. You want to know if this man is serious, just look at the way he contacts you. 02. When chatting with you, some men always show their thoughts that they want to ask you out to spend the night with you. Such a man is not serious. If you are already married or engaged, it is understandable for a man to think so, but if you are not so close, he will tell you this, which shows that he is very casual. You haven't been together for a long time. If this man respects you, he will only ask you out on appropriate occasions, but you didn't do anything out of line when you went out to play. Besides, when you were chatting, he spoke very well and never showed the idea of asking you out for the night. 03. Xiaoxiao matched several boys while playing games. They had a good time, and those boys didn't dislike Xiaoxiao playing games. They all took her in patiently. Later, several people set up a WeChat group and chatted in the group every day. However, those two people always say something to annoy Xiaoxiao, which makes Xiaoxiao particularly helpless. We all had a good chat at first. Later, Xiaoxiao quit the group chat because Xiaoxiao thought their conversation was too explicit for her to accept. She didn't like such casual boys. Strangely, they began to say those ambiguous words. These men are just having fun. As long as the game matches girls, they will say all kinds of words to provoke them. They want to talk. It's irresponsible. 04. Everyone is surrounded by someone who chats with you every day. No matter how late it is, no matter where you are, he doesn't stop chatting with you and wants to share the bits and pieces of his life with you. Such a man is particularly serious about his feelings. As long as it is the person you are looking for, you will strive to pursue it, or silently guard and accompany it. They basically don't play with girls' feelings, nor will they chat with you every day. If one day he stops talking, he will feel something is missing. These people are very serious. They feel that they are not good at chatting with girls, so every sentence is thought for a long time. Girls shouldn't find them boring, but you haven't found their interesting side yet. If you want a man who really likes you, you must first make yourself serious and become better. If you are not such a nice person, you can't expect to meet such a nice person. Birds of a feather flock together, and what you are will attract what you are. If you want someone who is really good to you, someone who really loves you and protects you, you must first learn to love others and have a serious relationship.