They feel glad that they are "outsiders" and send messages more casually. However, they often ignore this kind of news, which is very boring. It's best to control your hands and stop taking advantage.
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Give advice on other people's work.
After retirement, many people pretend to be "experienced people", thinking that big and small things in the unit can't beat them. Especially those young people who have just joined the work, they have a sense of pride and superiority that "I have crossed more bridges than you have".
Therefore, whenever young colleagues "seek advice" or "cry" in the group, they will "make suggestions" at the first time. Often everything is very detailed, and the process and possible loopholes are listed separately, which seems "impeccable".
As a result, people who "seek advice" and "complain" will get a treasure, regardless of other colleagues, which is another wave of exaggerated thanks.
They enjoy this kind of "guidance from a distance", but they don't know the leader and other colleagues related to it, but they are already furious: "It's not your turn to tell us what to do at work."
No matter how senior and competent this person was before he retired, now that he retired, all the work handover will come to an end. Views and ideas about work are no longer known to the public. After all, social development is changing with each passing day, and those who used to adapt may have been eliminated now.
Moreover, the solution of a single problem often affects the whole body. People who have no work experience may make the mistake of "treating only headaches". After retiring, due to the lack of understanding and judgment on the overall situation, the guidance given is also very one-sided, and even the overall rhythm is distorted, and it is "useless" to be down to earth.
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Blessing message.
Some people, after retirement, indulge in the state of "enjoying life". Just like a student who can't do his homework, he can finally finish his graduation exam and live well without studying.
So they always forward some pictures and texts that they are interested in to their colleagues.
After most of my life, chicken soup for the soul and inspirational essays have lost their appeal to retired people. Health and holiday wishes have become their "good hearts".
Even from Monday to Sunday, there are different blessings to send every day. For example, first come to today's weather broadcast, plus a reminder to go out; Then there is a good morning greeting map and so on; When it comes to holidays, it is the "bombing" of blessing messages. Different solar terms have all kinds of health and fitness news, which makes people see things in a blur.
It is true that they just want to convey a kind of concern and greeting by pushing such a message. But they seem to forget that this "casual" style of painting is very different from the tense and rigorous atmosphere in the colleague group, which is too uncoordinated.
In the eyes of the main leaders, this is simply "disturbing the morale of the army." In your post, everything you say and think should be based on your work and achievements. Why do you have so much leisure time, hurting spring and mourning autumn, drinking tea and chatting.
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After retirement, many people became "grandchildren".
They also know that this is consuming the friendship of their few colleagues. But for the happiness of children, they will give up their "old face" and lose face. With luck, one vote is one vote.
In the end, no one replied to such a short message because it was time-consuming and laborious. Just treat everyone equally, whoever sends it doesn't care.
Conclusion:
Retirement is a watershed in life and work. After retirement, you must learn to "quit the group" and quit the previous work group, colleague group and all groups related to the unit.
Only by letting go smartly can we devote ourselves to a new life.
Don't look back often, what you missed will be missed, and what you lost will never be found again. Only by knowing how to clear the past and start from a new starting point will life meet more beautiful things.
Author: as light as the wind, as light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessing.
The picture comes from the internet.