1, there are always some regrets in life, because there is nothing to do, so learn to let go; When you are alive, there are always some ups and downs. Because you can't change it, you learn to follow the fate. Don't be surprised, don't be upset, and mature slowly; Don't argue, don't seek, know how to be mature. Thank those who love you for keeping you warm, those who hurt you for making you grow, and those who teach you to look down and forgive. ...
2, liberation, is the end of trouble.
3, a nose is right, the whole place is extremely holy; Pilu's body, not much blood.
4, inappropriate people, don't talk, don't seriously understand, don't start.
It seems that everyone in this world wears a mask, so as to protect themselves in a chaotic and complicated society. In fact, it's not that people don't want to show their true colors, but they have to do so. So we should learn to see through people's masks and see the sincerity of others.
6. Different people have different personalities and different ways to communicate with others. It takes different skills to communicate with different people, so it requires us to be good at observing different personalities of different people and then take corresponding skills to deal with them.
7. Shaking hands is a common etiquette in social intercourse. This etiquette seems simple, but in fact it is very learned. If it is not done well, it will leave a very bad impression. Therefore, we should do this simple social etiquette well in order to do better in other manners.
8. Those "senior" colleagues often have more advantages in interpersonal relationships, so we should try our best to respect these "senior". Getting on well with them will make your interpersonal relationship get twice the result with half the effort. Even if you are not very close to your seniors, try not to offend these people, otherwise the consequences will be very serious.
9. Don't expect too much of others, because everyone has their own unique personality, and everyone will make some small mistakes more or less. Asking too much of others will make others farther and farther away from you.
10, if you want to achieve great things, then don't rely on your own strength. A person's strength is often limited, especially when facing some major difficulties, learn to cooperate with others and achieve brilliance with the help of others' strength.
1 1, life is like this, but it's just a list. What you want and what you don't want, persistence is a burden, and giving up is liberation. Life is a game of chess, once it is decided, you can't go back on your word. Life is a long river, rolling eastward and never looking back. Life is an alarm clock. No matter how you dial it back, you can't get back to the original time.
12. Be kind to others when you climb up, because you will meet them when you go down.
13. Sometimes, dreams force people to remember things they have forgotten.
14. When choosing to cooperate with others, in order to avoid unnecessary troubles, don't forcibly pull people who are "incompatible" together. How can we cooperate if the two sides have no common wishes?
15, the students' first impression is our appearance.
16, many things will be favorable factors for our success.
17, as good as water. Water is good for all things without dispute, and evil for all, so it is a few words. Living in a good place, kind-hearted, kind-hearted, good at words, good at politics, good at doing things, good at dealing with people. Husband is just indisputable, so there is nothing special.
18, the feast master said: "Peace begins with peace; A happiness begins with a release; Awakening begins with forgiveness. If you don't complain, life will not be tired. " If we complain, everything in life is flawed; If we don't complain, then everything in the world will give us unexpected beauty. Xunzi said: "The confidant does not blame others, and the know life does not blame the sky; He who complains about others is poor, and he who complains about heaven has no ambition. "A wise man never complains, because it only increases sadness. Facing the unpleasant things in life, you'd better think from another angle and let all the bad things develop in your favor. The world you see with this "confused" mentality will be better.
19, misfortune is a blessing, happiness is a blessing. The sea can also be turned into mulberry fields, and boulders can be broken into rubble, not to mention temporary success and comfort. Everything will change, so always be ready to deal with it.
20. Sometimes, proper retrogression is for greater progress. If a bow wants to shoot an arrow, it must first pull the string back; If a spring wants to produce elastic force, it must compress itself first.
2 1, "In this world, you don't have to live happily, but you must live decently."
22. The more people worry, the more they worry. The happier people are, the more happiness they have. If you only worry about troubles, then troubles still exist objectively and show no signs of decreasing. On the contrary, because of the chain reaction of troubles, your mood becomes heavier and more distressed. If you keep turning bitterness into happiness and change the mentality of "doing one thing and complaining about one thing", you can get your own happiness.
23, so that you can remember in your dream that I hold your strength tightly.
24. "God is in the sky, and holiness is on earth" is the personality ideal of China people. There is an idealistic sky where they can soar freely without compromising many rules and obstacles in the real world; He also has the ability to be down-to-earth and expand his behavior in this land.
25. Many things that you think are great are small things in the eyes of others when you are eager to talk to others. At best, he didn't respond painfully. Because he is not you, he can't perceive your intense emotions.
26. shed blood and tears for the person or thing you love, and the worst result is nothing more than the other person saying, "what do you want?" .
27. If you miss you, take out your mobile phone and see if there is any news for you. If I miss you, I will quickly send a series of greetings on my mobile phone with my thumb, but I still didn't press the send button in the end. If I miss you, I will think, will you miss me? If I miss you, I will dream of you at night. I think, in everyone's heart, there are people you miss. Sometimes I can't control my thoughts.
28, the heart is not stable is the real pain, physical illness is not necessarily bitter.
Through these conversations, he gradually realized that the poor and the upper class have nothing in common. The poor do not envy the rich, because the lifestyles of the two sides are very different, and there is a typical psychology of enjoying themselves. They always think that the life of the middle class is full of hypocrisy, which is extremely unnatural. Moreover, they also look down on the rich middle class and think that they are a group of idiots who never work with their own hands.
30. Living abroad is not easy. In addition to capturing a feeling, a person's language conditions, ability, health and even earning a living are very realistic, not so romantic. Please have some psychological preparation and understanding before you go.
3 1. Every time I miss you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, and there is Sahara from then on.
32. Universal happiness can often be expressed in words. True and profound happiness is impossible for others to understand. Happiness and sadness are loneliness.
33, the emergence of a problem, the solution should not be to blame each other, but to calmly sort out the crux of the problem, as far as possible in personality, thinking, behavior and language, slowly improve, and gain mutual understanding.
34. Love is a great ability. People all over the world love money so much, so the ability of money covers everything. There is no money in the world to produce comedies. Most tragedies in the world have nothing to do with money.
We are still young, and our long life can stand a little wind and waves.
36. The way the world ends is not a loud noise, but a sob.
37. A person can choose many roads, but he can't walk two roads at the same time.
38. Give up temporarily, you can forgive for being lazy temporarily, but you can't forgive for giving up continuously and being lazy all the time.
39. Tea is like life, and life is like tea. The right amount of tea should be accompanied by the right amount of water and a cup of green tea, which is a kind of life, open-minded and cheerful! Savor carefully, there is sweetness in bitterness, fragrance overflowing, the true meaning of healthy life!
40. Being lazy to do what should be done and what shouldn't be done is an arrogant and indulgent person, which only increases troubles.
4 1, some diseases are incurable; Some people, meet unexpectedly.
42, that year, in the prime of life, whoever promised to die. You can go back, but you can't go back to the beginning.
43. Don't give up, don't relax, work hard, don't be nervous, don't struggle, do your best, don't struggle, don't complain, try to stretch your mood, rely on your mood to get satisfaction, and rely on mediation. May your world be better.
44. Accept wealth and prosperity without ostentation and be ready to give it up.
45. Appearance is important, but conduct is a more important criterion. If a person is beautiful but low in character, he will never be loved; If you are not ideal in appearance but noble in character, you will be respected by people.
46. Life is empty, and the replacement between existence and non-existence is life. People should know how to be content and not think about complicated things. Life is for growth; Wisdom is used to fly; Tears are used to be strong; Happiness is worth cherishing ... vicissitudes may make you look old, but experience is always priceless wealth in life.
47. The beauty of pearls comes from injury and pain.
48. In short, as dusk approaches, there is no need to be depressed.
49. After learning to help others sincerely, you also help yourself.
50. There is no Buddha, bodhi has no trees, and everything has roots. Self-discipline, self-purification, self-meditation, self-confidence, Buddha life, the dawn never dies.
5 1. Learning is a net, which must be connected one by one. Don't have too big a hole to catch big fish. The basis of learning is the fact that we gradually take root in kindergarten, primary school and junior high school. Each stage is a fishnet knot. Without a knot, it is not strong. Foundation is a very important thing. People who have no foundation will be harder and thinner than those with deep foundation in the future.
52. Sometimes, we should be hard on ourselves and don't indulge our sadness. Sometimes, we should be hard on the people we love deeply and put aside love, responsibility and memory. Because each of us is a unique individual, we have the obligation to shoulder the responsibility for our own life.
Many times, I am unhappy not because of loneliness, but because too many "necessities" can't be broken, too many interests and pursuits, and I have to give up because of lack of time. In fact, I am quite satisfied with a good book, a long night and a quiet life with a cup of hot tea.
54. In my view of life, climbing up and trying to be brave is not based on whether I can go abroad or not. I think constant self-breakthrough, self-adjustment and self-correction are the driving force for life to climb up.
55. Eyebrows are like water, and eyes contain smoke. Your shy face has long been imprinted on your mind. I still remember that on the first day of the new year, you were not as beautiful as the earth woman, and you looked at me with a graceful attitude. I only see your smiling eyebrows and shallow dimples on your cheeks, as sweet as honey.
56. On the road of life, sadness and happiness are always inseparable. Because of experience, I know that not all dreams have expectations, and how many feelings are inseparable; How many people have become flowers waiting to see from the water? After thousands of turns, they gradually learned to cry with their backs to the crowd, turn around and smile, and learn to quietly seal up their worries. Some of the past should be supported by strength.
57. You said that you would never get tired of listening to your favorite songs many times. I said that the person you like is a lifetime from the first sight.
58. In feelings, forgiveness is the hottest thing. Admitting mistakes is not necessarily a real loss, and people who love you will always let you win; Reasoning is not necessarily clear, and people who love you will spoil your willfulness. Forgiveness is not a compromise, but a heartfelt reluctance; Forgiveness is not fear, but the sublimation of true care.
As a matter of fact, we have been moving forward. Even if time flies, we have gained a lot, step by step, a long journey, and we have gradually found the direction. Those who are right or wrong, those who are happy, wait, pull, encourage, hold a full life and pursue their true selves, and everything will no longer be a dream!
60. Instead of learning from each other, it is better to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.
6 1, only changes can keep up with changes.
62. Remember to get up early and try to chase the first ray of sunshine, so as to be brave. Even if there are dogmas and shackles, even if there is external pressure, don't let other people's opinions affect your inner voice. Don't be afraid of falling, hitting a wall and failing. Youth makes you brave.
63. It will be a blessing if you can spend the day safely. How many people can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled, how many people have lost their freedom, and how many people have lost their homes.
64. Happiness comes from self-control; If you are restless, you will be happy.
65. Practice is to correct, repair and modify one's behavior.
66. The heart is on the road, which is the most brilliant freedom.
67. Everyone should have their own dreams, and never have others' dreams, because once others' dreams are added to you, they become expectations. You don't have to climb mountains all your life, but you must have a mountain in your heart. It makes you climb high forever, it makes you always have a direction to struggle, and it makes you look up and see hope at any time. When we no longer need to prove ourselves through the approval of others, we are really strong.
68. Calm down, I can never do it. I don't think there is anything missing, but something more. So, what else?
69. The brightest star in the night sky, can you hear clearly and look at the loneliness and sigh in the hearts of people in the distance?
70. Life will never be full of good things. The ancients said, "Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory." In the long years, adversity and prosperity, complacency and success, happiness and suffering are everywhere and haunt us all the time. Therefore, there are many regrets in life, and there are several sighs in life. In the face of difficulties, we always choose between advantages and disadvantages and grow in the alternation of gains and losses.
7 1, children are born with the ability to cry, and later learn to laugh, so a person can only understand happiness if he understands sadness first.
There is nothing to be afraid of in life, just need to be understood.
The world is like the ups and downs of the Nile. Do not underestimate life.
74. Never give up when you are not good, learn to cherish and remember to be grateful when you are good.
75. In this world, there is always someone who can cure you. As long as you see him, your bad temper will naturally converge and become as docile as a lamb. As long as you see him, your depression will disappear without a trace. With him, you realize that you have never been so gentle; With him, you will try your best to be smarter. Falling in love with him, you are a little afraid of him; When you fall in love with him, you begin to believe in fate; Did you owe him anything in your last life? Who knows, he can cure you.
76. It is your opponent who makes you stronger.
77. Don't take what others say unintentionally to heart.
78. When happiness, which should be used to dispel loneliness, becomes an indispensable existence all the time, the situation is dangerous. You think you are entertaining yourself, but in fact you are dominated. In order not to be dominated by happiness, you have to know why you pursue this kind of happiness. To know the reason, you must face yourself. Instead of seeking answers from books or asking for benefits from others, it is better to face up to your own inner self.
79. If you learn to conform to your destiny in life, you can live freely. Fate is accompanied by a kind of mind, a kind of maturity, a kind of confidence and grasp. People who follow fate can always find the way forward in adversity and keep a calm and happy mood. With a fateful heart, you will find whether the sky is cloudy or sunny; No matter whether the road of life is bumpy or smooth, there will always be a calm and peaceful heart.
80. You have your outlook on life, I have my outlook on life, and I won't interfere with you. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I'll accept my fate.
8 1, when reality raises his hand and slaps you, you should give him a high five. I would rather be a loser than a coward who dare not try.
82. It is difficult to change the wind direction by manpower, but people can control the sails.
83. Some people pursue happiness all their lives, but they can't feel it all their lives. Some people never deliberately pursue happiness, but always taste happiness. In fact, happiness is just a feeling, and it is inner satisfaction. The simpler life is, the heart is like a tree full of flowers. Without so much trouble and confusion, happiness will fill the heart. In this world, the more desires, the more tired the heart. Let go of too many extravagant hopes, don't make life too complicated, happiness will come unexpectedly.
84. Life is not a woman's body, and the joys and sorrows of a hundred years are shared by others.
85. On the long road of life, no one is perfect. God seems to let us small humans chase in the turntable, but we scatter a handful of steel balls, which makes us lose our way and stop.
86. Where there are butterflies, there is sunshine. Where there is sunshine, there is hope; where there is hope, there is expectation. If there are expectations, we will work hard in this direction. After hard work, there will be gains, a happy life or a necessary course in life.
87. Most people in this world who don't belong to Neanderthals don't understand that people's qualifications are not quantity but direction.
88. Life is to attack forever! Find a career and an ideal way out from your own environment, grasp the rudder of life, and consciously hone your will in the storm.
89. Things in the world are really difficult, just like mountains are different.
90. I always feel that a man can have a woman he likes only when he has a lot of things!
9 1, let everyone seize the opportunity, but don't force life planning!
92. When fate reaches out, there is nothing we can do. Some love needs a lifetime to forget. No beginning, no end. —— Ann Yiru's Life as First Seen
93. Everyone will be sad. But many people can't talk. People are animals who know how to remember, and loneliness is due to loss. However, many things, at that time, only Tao was ordinary.
94. Modesty is the first law of health, freedom and freedom is the first law of nourishing the heart, tolerance is the first law of treating others, and serenity is the first law of doing things.
95. Not only is it not so glamorous, but I didn't expect it to be so glamorous.
96. If you don't know how to cherish it, you won't be happy when you are guarding Jinshan. If you don't understand tolerance, no matter how many friends will eventually leave; If you don't know how to choose, no matter how hard you try, it will be difficult to succeed; If you don't know how to act, no matter how smart you are, it is difficult to interpret a dream; If you don't understand cooperation, it will be difficult to succeed again; If you don't know how to accumulate, it's hard to have money if you earn money again; If you don't know how to be content, no matter how rich you are, it's hard to be happy; If you don't know how to keep in good health, you won't live long after treatment. Good morning.
97. It is to provide life with a kind of motivation and energy to solve troubles, not to distinguish how inappropriate all encounters are, but to remind yourself how to use a fair attitude, fair understanding, fair coordination and fair arrangement. The scenery of the world is still the same, and the wind passes through the willows, one by one, just right.
Men in their 98 s and 20 s are usually still in infancy, the lowest valley of their lives; At this time, women are at their best in life. If a person is willing to give the best time to the worst you. Why not cherish it?
99. Life is a process. Babies, toddlers, childhood, teenagers, youth, adults, middle-aged, elderly and octogenarians, life is short. Enjoy the process and live a good life.