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My best friend declined a dinner in front of me. She quickly refused, and on the phone, everyone could feel that the other party was caught off guard. After hanging up the phone, I took my hand and went to a party that only belonged to us.

I said, it doesn't really matter. We can reschedule. After all, the boss is also the person who pays you. You can't lose face.

After saying this, although I feel particularly tacky, I am also sincere.

My best friend said: I don't hate my boss taking up my rest day and letting me socialize. I just hate the embarrassment of sitting in front of the dinner table and having nothing to say and answer to people I don't know.

So, I remembered the state of a friend in the WeChat circle a few days ago: if death is a relief, then people who are not good at words are waiting for death every minute at the dinner.

I followed one: Do you finally understand what it means to live like a year?

Not everyone in this world is suitable for eating, and eating is not suitable for everyone. I once played a joke on my friend. There are generally three kinds of people suitable for dinner: one is the main course equivalent to a table of rice, with bright colors and overwhelming audience, so that such people can make plans without being too emotional; One is equivalent to dessert, in a state of color matching and seasoning. This kind of person gagged and became the dining table. One is equivalent to the staple food, which is inseparable from nature and I like it. Such people are quiet and inconspicuous, but they are indispensable. As for people who are not good at words, they are just small bowls, chopsticks and plates in front of people. Although most of them persist until the last moment, they are always replaceable and disposable.

When I first joined the company, the company held a large-scale dinner party at the end of each year, but this large-scale dinner party lasted only two years, and then it was cancelled. The seats in the big dinner were random, so I sat among a group of strange colleagues and started dinner for an hour.

If we just define dinner as eating, it would be a big mistake. You will find that the first toast has already started when there are only two or three cold dishes. I remember when I first entered the unit, an old master told me: some people can get out of the atmosphere by drinking, while others drink, which is similar to drinking. He obviously cares about the meeting, and the dinner is not just about drinking, but also has great significance beyond drinking. Naturally, I don't understand, and I still don't understand.

Soon, I was the only one at the dinner table. I feel like an outcast at the party. Because I was too timid to go on stage, I had to stand under the stage and watch them perform. However, my heart will be a little envious of their generosity. Seeing the light in their eyes and their disdain for themselves will eventually be on pins and needles, but I can't get out of that step. It's embarrassing to eat alone, and I keep my head down for a long time.

In fact, I went to propose a toast later, but I was caught in the middle by a lot of new colleagues and there was a long queue. The personnel section chief introduced the names and units one by one, but it was only a cursory look, and the leaders looked at it. However, some people can let the leader finish talking with her easily, while others just ask a name and leave. For example, my leader asked: What's your name? I said softly: Xiao Xie. The leader looked at me, my face was already hot. He said thank you and ran away. After all, I finished my duty, but the scene of that day has been lingering in my mind.

I don't think it's a big deal to propose a toast at dinner, and I don't think it's flattering to propose a toast to customers and leaders. But dinner is not a battlefield for people who are naturally inarticulate. Even if you wear millions of armor, you will have a blank mind in social activities, don't know how to deal with it, and finally die without fighting. In an awkward atmosphere, you seem to have no more appropriate expression than giggle, and at this time, you have become an outsider.

Some people are naturally good at eating. For example, someone once wrote about Lin, saying that as long as she appeared, there was no room for others to talk, whether it was her wife's salon or dinner. She is not the kind of woman who is good at bowing her head as Fan Liuyuan said. To tell the truth, there are some people around me who are natural dinner masters. From the moment they sat down, they began to get familiar with each other and started chatting in different places. Sometimes, the relationship between people is very close, and three or five people find the connection between each other and suddenly become old acquaintances. In this way, people who are not good at words inadvertently become comparisons, often answering irrelevant questions, from names to home addresses, to parents' jobs, to your current jobs, and then, there is no more. He is good at dancing, you are silent, and you are already the abandoned person. The only thing that can accompany you is the food on the table, only it, or your lonely partner.

Then I went to dinner and began to have a choice. First of all, ask if there is a known self-contract, after all, every time it becomes that comparison, the ending is disgraceful; Secondly, see if there are people with similar tastes. If someone is as silent as I am, just want to eat large pieces of meat instead of toasting in a big bowl, similar projects will be merged; Finally, look at the mood. As a man who is not good at words, he said that during the period of depression, he just wanted to ignore everyone, so why should there be one more person who had to be ignored and cared about?

In this way, in the next few years, the embarrassing dinner was basically cleaned up. There is silence at the dinner, and there are often companions, and occasionally they smile at each other, but they feel a kind of stolen happiness. And I gradually got out of the shadow of the dinner.

However, in recent years, there have been more than one or two people's gatherings, which are fun-filled gatherings, which are completely different from dinner.

Some people say that dinner is a Jianghu, not a hero. Don't walk around at will. I didn't mean to ruin dinner. On the contrary, I just don't think I have the fate of this meal. As an inarticulate person, in these four or five years, I began to understand a truth: don't pick up your dagger and dance around at will. All short boards should go around. Life is long. Break off diplomatic relations, give up and leave if you don't want to. If you like, you will accept it with a smile, because you will always be alone. All smiles and blushes, you are still lonely.

Forgive my lisping, but I love you very much.

First, I have been cheated many times, and I don't want to believe it anymore ... because I can't see if they are wearing masks. ...

I almost forgot, didn't I? You tell me.

3. See that you are not as sad as before, and hear your friends talk, say something else.

Four, I miss you, will you go out?

5. Persistence is a burden, even a pain. Too much concern has become a fetter, and losing it for too long has become a kind of pain.

6. There are always a group of idiots in the world. People say he is stupid and thinks she is cute, which makes me laugh.

Seven, WZY and I will be very happy, can we send our best wishes?

No matter how good others are, we should not envy them. Just compare with your past, and you will be happier every day.

There are always a group of idiots in the world. People say he is stupid and thinks she is cute, which makes me laugh.

Be brave and don't change for anyone. If they can't accept the worst you, they don't deserve the best you.

No matter how awesome Baidu is, I can't find my happiness.

It turned out that what we never missed was what fate always missed, not time.

Thirteen, when we first met, I never knew that you would be so important to me in the future.

Fourteen, no matter how ugly, someone will want it, and it will be left in the United States!

Fifteen, how much truth is hidden in our jokes, who can understand and who can see through it,

16. Don't say anything that you regret when you are angry, and don't tell lies when you are happy!

17. Advertising tells people that RMB can be used in this way.

18. School starts, and we have to walk into the prison in prison clothes again, ready to wait for those two to be released.

I'm not interested in pleasing you, okay?

It's useless to wear clothes when it's cold, and it's useless to wear anything when it's cold.

Twenty-one, I care about you, you spoil me. This is the life I want.

22. Without water, fish will die. Without fish, it will only be clearer.

I didn't say I was beautiful. I can make a detour. I don't care about dogs. You are beautiful, and you can cook chicken. I wish you success in your business transaction. ..

24, twinkling stars, the sky is full of lay people.

I am not good at words, but I love you very much.

I am not good at words, but I love you very much.

1, I like the feeling of nothing, it makes me clean like a person who has been dead for many years.

2. If you can't be your prince, be your knight.

Seeing you practice alone in the sunset, I feel that the world is very quiet and safe.

4. Loneliness lights up loneliness, burns loneliness, and the years pass through the rings, leaving memories.

If you want to be apart, you'd rather not meet at the beginning.

This poem obviously imitates Liang Wenxing's works, just like a monkey in human clothes, both alike and unlike.

7. Crying doesn't mean you are weak, but because you have been strong for too long.

8. Love is just an affair. When you mention your belt, who knows who else?

9. Different flowers bloom differently. If you ask about lovesickness, Bloom's "The West Moon is Brilliant with Hibiscus Flowers" when bloom's flowers fall.

10, if sadness can be expressed, I won't be so sad.

1 1. Can people really meet memories? What can they do besides say hello after meeting?

12, sometimes I wish I were blind, so I can't see what I shouldn't see.

13, sending you a text message, I feel sweet all over. Put down the mouse and think hard, just want to say I love you!

14, I can resist loneliness and loneliness, but I can't resist your silence around me.

No one can give me the color you once gave me.

16 Finally, I am not the loneliest person. Maybe, when God closed a door for me, he forgot to open a window.

17, put on your dog skin, put on your mask, and get out!

18, fast fast, high fast. It doesn't seem to matter anymore. Because, I have lost some definitions of smile.

19, I gradually know that caring too much about others will often hurt myself; Gradually know that there will be fewer and fewer people who are good to themselves as time goes by; Gradually know that many things can be met but not sought, and many things can only be owned once; I have come to know that being sincere to a person may not be rewarded, but the person you ignore may be most concerned about you; I gradually realized that the reality was so helpless that I grew up.

20. Maybe a person has to go a long way and experience countless sudden prosperity and desolation before he becomes mature.

2 1, it is difficult to grow up from poverty, and innocence is not hit.

22. I love you forever, and death is the boundary. I never wanted to give up on you in my life.

23. Not all targets can be achieved, but they can be used as aiming points.

24, the night wind is clear, through the lens of history, your voice and smile are still intertwined in my mind.

If you cling to the past, how can you turn over a new chapter in your life?

I have nothing to do with my future, and I am willing to fight for my life.

I wonder if I will miss you after I leave.

28, to be strong, to be strong, you must have a heart that is not easily defeated.

29. I envy your love, your ambiguity and your difference.

30. I see that your face is blue, your pupils are dilated, your upper body has epilepsy, and your lower body has a stroke. Why don't I save you a seat first

3 1, people are not born to drag chains, but to spread their wings. Hugo

32. Some troubles are imaginary, but we feel that they are real.

In the end, he doesn't love himself alone. Finally, he left himself behind. What should I do in the wide street?

34. The most annoying person, if you study it carefully, you will always find that he is just a poor person.

35. I am a wandering soul in the street, and you are the one who smells me, but you can't see through me.

You broke my heart and laughed so happily.

37. What's it like to love someone? I said good night and wanted to say good night.

38. If her dream can't be realized in reality, she will get farther and farther away.

39. Without the earth, everyone would turn in the same direction, but without me, I would turn in the opposite direction.

40. When the afterglow of the sunset illuminates the lovers' backs, the dawn of the morning sun has surrounded the touching love.

4 1, there is a kind of love called simplicity.

People like me who are not good at words always want to talk nonsense with you.

1, if you don't bark, you will die. People are shameless and invincible in the world.

I may be insignificant to you, but to me, you are more important than my soul.

3, the age of ignorance, once the most heartfelt, so the happiest; I have missed the saddest but most touching memories.

If I can see the ending of this love, I will change it anyway.

Although I hate you in my mouth, I can't live without you in my heart.

They say people's blood will be changed every seven years. No wonder people change.

7. What you love, what you think and what you care about will eventually be lost, which is good for you. -"Journey to the Mind"

8. People who are not good at words like me always want to talk nonsense with you.

9. Remember, if you are strong and tired, you have the right to be sad and sad.

10, wrong is a temporary regret, missed is a permanent regret.

I love Kai Ko, no need to explain!

12, MMD, I have never seen anything so archaeological.

13. When you sneeze occasionally, I will think of you.

14, don't say sorry to me, because we don't matter.

15, I once thought that I didn't love anymore and felt that I was too weak. You can't see red when blood is dissolved in water. In fact, what should be there has always been there.

16, make yourself so miserable.

17, just like you. Those eyes are charming. Smiling is more charming.

18, I always thought I loved drinking water, and when the glass was broken, I suddenly found out that what I really liked was the feeling of picking it up.

19, since ancient times, people have to die, but they have to die in order.

20, tired, squat down and hug yourself, but also stubbornly say so.