You must have had such an experience:
When chatting with some people, I always feel full of enthusiasm and unfinished business. Even if there are more troubles in my heart, it seems that I have gone to the outside world. Time always flies. I really look forward to talking to him next time.
When chatting with some people, I always listen to their complaints helplessly. From work to life, from friends to family, from the past to the present, to the future, from himself to the social country, it seems that everything in his life makes him dissatisfied. Your good mood will be shrouded in him, and you may never want to see him again.
With comfortable people, you will feel comfortable and casual, even if you are silent.
Stay away from people who consume you.
It is important to be with people who can make you better; It is more important to be with someone who can make each other better.
If you realize that your positive energy is not strong enough to resist negative energy, you must first learn to stay away from negative energy.
Don't be with people who play with their minds.
There are considerate people everywhere, usually selfish people. If you give him a candy, he will suspect it is explosive. You lent him an umbrella, and he didn't return it when your world was in turmoil. He won't consider your feelings and thoughts, he only cares about his own mood.
Don't be with hypocrites.
Bacon said:
Hypocrites are despised by wise men, admired by fools, worshipped by flatterers and enslaved by their own vanity.
Hypocrites are used to lying and flattering. He pretends to be nice to you when you are excellent and disappears when you need help. Hypocrisy is the poison of friendship, and with such people, it is easy to have nothing.
There are also people who love to calculate, people who love to dig at you ... people have lived for decades, and everyone will have it. Not everyone will be friendly to you for no reason. So, if you are tired of getting along with these people, you might as well stop seeing them.
Getting along is actually very simple. Friends or family members, like to be together, stay away when they are tired, and no one should force anyone.
Be with people who know filial piety.
A truly filial person must know responsibility, think, cherish and be grateful. Such a person is the most pleasing. Parents are people who give their lives. If even parents can't be filial and don't know respect, let alone anyone else?
Be with someone you can talk to.
Don't talk to the person you are talking to. He insists on talking because he doesn't know you at all. Getting along is the basis of two people's communication. Only people who get along with each other can understand your interests and your happiness, and each other can find the joy of life.
Be with people who support you and encourage you.
How many seemingly iron relationships have finally become old and dead. Communication is not a tool for profit. Find someone who appreciates and supports you. If you do something wrong, he understands your grievances; You have succeeded, and he understands your difficulties.
With people who are sincere and kind.
You don't have to make some friends for power, career and money. Sincere friendship is the meaning of existence, and sincere people will care about your thoughts and future. If you are a rainbow, you will know it when you meet it. It's never too late to make friends with people who are kind to you.