1 made him pay the price (1) did something that made him pay the price, just like the thief in front was found by the owner and the police quickly arrested him according to law. Then he will think in his heart: this time it is a big loss. Today, I won't steal. "A man's derailment will also make him pay the price, so that he will not dare to commit it again.

If there is no cost for him to cheat, it may be because of his rhetoric. He said that he would never do this again, and he would let him go if he coaxed you. Or you think it's good for him to come back, and there's no need to toss his inner thoughts; Cheating is not that serious, is it? I just need to say something nice to get rid of her. This also laid a mine for the next derailment, and it is impossible to say when it will explode.

Let him pay the price (2) Let him pay the price has two advantages. First, he will also have a long memory and dare not mess around again; Secondly, you feel more at ease and secure. Remember that this long-term memory is not about turning over old scores when you encounter anything, which is not conducive to your marriage. This price can be within the scope of economic permission, and he will feel distressed. For example, you can get a car as compensation: you can get an expensive VIP card for skin care and beauty care.

If economic conditions don't allow, you can punish him for doing something specific, such as how many times he has to pick you up and go to work. This price should be large enough and suitable for 60%-70% he promised. If the price is too small, it is tantamount to scratching your boots. If it is too big, it will be unbearable. It is good to master an appropriate degree.

2 Repair marriage (1) Many men cheat because their families are not happy enough to meet their own needs, so they need to go outside to make up for it. Of course, love rat, who habitually cheats, is an exception. Husband and Jiang have a harmonious relationship and love each other, so men won't think about arresting people. This jar should pay attention to the problems existing in sexual relations, and don't selectively ignore them because of boxes and sadness, which will not do you any good.

Many people say, "I hope he can have time with me, we can discuss problems instead of quarreling, and he can understand me." Think about what they said. In fact, the happiness of marriage is nothing more than communication, understanding, companionship, tolerance and love.

Repairing marriage (2) is easier said than done. Must be implemented in words and deeds, a porridge, a meal and a cup of tea. Marriage is practice. Slow work and fine work cannot be solved overnight, and derailment is also caused by long-term accumulated problems. As for companionship and understanding, both should come through communication. If two people always quarrel together, such companionship is meaningless. Therefore, in the final analysis, we should first recognize the wrong communication methods in marriage, and then get through two communication channels.

Let a person realize his mistake. Let a person realize his mistake. When he realizes his mistake, it is easier to repent and effectively prevent him from cheating again. About cheating, it is that personal emotional satisfaction is not enough. The harm to family members is very significant, which not only has a psychological shadow on the wife, but also has a negative impact on the children.

Better let him know that he almost lost his family. Let him think about how his family broke up because of his cheating. What should the children do? How disappointed and sad are the elderly parents? Can he face it calmly? When I am in love, there is no mountain like a mountain, and there is no edge, but I dare to separate from you. After marriage, when love is implemented in the trivial matters of Rongmi oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, we all have to face the same problems in reality: children's diapers and future teaching problems, three meals a day, parental support and so on.

Let a person realize his mistake. If he chooses a third party, can he build a happy family with her? Is she as good as her present wife? These are all problems. When he can think clearly and realize his mistakes, he will cherish his immediate happiness more and more.

The combination of kindness and prestige, both soft and hard, can effectively prevent men from cheating again by using the above methods. A person's mistake is to avoid repeating the same mistake and gain experience and wisdom from it. Only in this way can we open our feelings. Lu Xun said: Digging from the depths of the soul makes people suffer mental torture and get trauma, that is, from this kind of injury and healing, get rid of suffering and go to Su Sheng.