Since then, more and more couples have chosen to get married for the purpose of "dink", even in the entertainment circle.
This time, I will take stock of the 10 male stars who once announced "Dink" in the entertainment circle and see what changes have taken place now.
0 1. Kang Hui
Kang Hui's love began in college. From 65438 to 0992, Kang Hui, a junior in the Broadcasting Department of China Communication University, met Liu Yajie, a freshman.
Although the two did not communicate much, the two people who had a heart and soul soon came together.
A year later, Kang Hui graduated with honors and entered CCTV, while Liu Yajie, who graduated from 1995, resolutely gave up the opportunity to be an anchor at Nanjing TV Station in order to be with Kang Hui.
Later, she went to CCTV's "Zheng Da Variety" as a director, and finally they can be together again.
On New Year's Day in 2000, after eight years of long-distance love, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie finally held a low-key wedding in Beijing.
The couple settled in an ordinary two-bedroom behind CCTV. Although there are no luxury cars, they live a happy and warm life.
Because of work, Kang Hui and his wife don't have much time to themselves, especially Kang Hui. Once, he recalled that he seemed to be too busy to touch the washing machine for several years.
Even at ordinary times, his wife is taking care of her own life, so in order not to make her too tired, and in order not to make the couple's life more stressful and uncertain, Kang Hui decided to Dink.
Love for nearly 30 years, still stable and harmonious. However, when she got older and her work was less stressful, Kang Hui regretted it a little.
And most importantly, Kang Hui is a very filial child. After getting married, my mother always wanted to see her grandson, but unfortunately she didn't get it until she died.
So Kang Hui later admitted to regret it. He also said that if given another choice, he would choose to have children instead of being a dink.
02. Feng
1988, Feng, who just debuted, participated in the movie "Wolf Into the House" and met the heroine.
Liang Danni was a movie star who became popular in the late 1970s, but she didn't have any airs. She admired the youthful Feng very much.
During the filming, Feng accidentally got chicken pox, which was so serious that his whole body festered and tore into pieces. But when the whole cast was far away from him, Feng fell in love with each other only if he was willing to help and care about him.
At that time, however, Liang Danni was married. In order not to make mistakes in principle, after filming, Feng Qiang endured his love and went to the Drama Department of the West Berlin Institute of Higher Art in the Federal Republic of Germany to study drama performance.
But fate is so wonderful. 199 1 After returning to China, Feng once again collaborated with the film Postman.
At that time, Liang Danni, who had been married for 10 years, had officially divorced and returned to being single.
In this way, Feng Dao, who finally let go of her obsession, showed all her love and thoughts. Soon, under the strong pursuit of Feng, the two came together.
1993, under Feng's second proposal, he finally agreed with anxiety.
That year, Feng was 365,438+0 and 39 years old. They didn't have a wedding or a banquet, and it only took 39 yuan to get the license.
After the marriage, I also worked hard with Feng in the rented house of 10 square meter.
Over the years, Feng has succeeded step by step, and has also fulfilled his three promises of "no swearing, no beating, no divorce", and his feelings have never left.
The couple have no children for many years. Feng once said that he has decided to be a dink.
As for the reason, Feng revealed that on the way to a party, he was scared because he saw his friend's child crying all the time. Later, he persuaded his wife to stop dink.
However, Feng later admitted that it was really an impulse.
In But Listen, Feng revealed that he had regrets when he was 40 years old and thought it would be better to have a baby.
But Liang Danni, who was almost 50 years old at that time, was an old woman after all. Finally, Feng gave up the idea of having children because he was worried about the danger of his wife having children.
03.Alan Tam
1974, Alan Tam, who just joined Winners, met an outsider Sally in a nightclub.
Sally is a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company. With her unique aesthetics, her career is thriving. After their formal contact, Sally became an art planner to help Alan Tam fight for her career.
At that time, Alan Tam's image was mostly designed by Sally, whether it was a concert or a video record.
At the same time, she also took care of Alan Tam's property. In just a few years, Alan Tam's assets have multiplied several times.
However, due to Alan Tam's popularity in those years, their relationship has been in an underground state. Even after 198 1 registered marriage, not many people knew about it.
It was not until Sally's father died on 1993, and then the couple published "Husband Alan Tam" in the obituary, that the relationship was made public.
Moreover, the couple have been out for many years. There is a saying that Sally can't have children because she has aborted them many times, and there is another saying that * * * agreed with Dink.
However, it doesn't matter what the real reason was at that time.
It turns out that as early as 199 1, Alan Tam knew Zhu Yongting, a fan 22 years younger than him, and later, they became lovers.
From 65438 to 0996, the affection between Alan Tam and Zhu Yongting strengthened again, and the woman gave birth to her son Tan Xiaofeng.
Although this matter was exposed by the Hong Kong media, there was no public response due to external factors. However, when Tan's father died in 2006, at his father's request, he disclosed his relationship with in the obituary, and admitted for the first time that they had a child.
The Hong Kong media also said that Sally had long known these things, but she refused to let them go easily.
It was not until later that Alan Tam, as ruthless as a wolf, gradually shifted all his focus to Zhu Yongting. Sally finally sees through the world of mortals and devotes herself to Buddha, fulfilling Alan Tam and Zhu Yongting.
Now, the sons of Alan Tam and Zhu Yongting have successfully graduated from college and met new girlfriends. The whole family is very happy.
The outside world wanted to hear Alan Tam's account of this matter for many times, but Alan Tam always claimed that it was a family matter and refused to answer. It was not until last year that Alan Tam apologized for this, saying that "it is not good to have two wives", and hoped that everyone would not learn from him.
04. Dong Shengyi
From 65438 to 0999, 42-year-old director Dong Chengyi met a kindergarten teacher named Xiaowen Luo only half a year after he broke up with his two ex-girlfriends Yu Anan and Maggie Cheung and his marriage with Taiwan Province woman Wang Ruixia failed.
The age difference between them is 13 years old, and the identity gap is also very wide, but the cleverness lies in Wang Ruixia's occupation. She is a teacher who specializes in teaching problem children.
At that time, Dong Shengyi was frustrated at work, exhausted by the previous divorce lawsuit with his ex-wife, and unexpectedly suffered from depression. She took 58 pills before finally settling down.
It is for this reason that the gentle and considerate Wang Ruixia brought "light" to Dong Chengyi's gradually dark life.
Later, in order to better help Dongshengyi, Wang Ruixia resigned and joined a film company in Dongshengyi, becoming an assistant.
In 2008, Dong Shengyi, who had maintained a stable relationship with Wang Ruixia for nine years, announced her remarriage. No wedding, no banquet, no guests, just a simple registration notice.
At the same time, Dong Shengyi also announced that the couple would not consider having children after marriage and planned to have a DINK.
As for the reason, a magazine once said that Dong Chengyi once liked babies very much, and even hoped that his first wife, Wang Ruixia, would be pregnant with triplets.
But later, Wang Ruixia had a miscarriage because of smoking and irregular life. After this incident, Dong Chengyi changed her mind and didn't want to have any more children.
This statement is very reasonable and certainly acceptable.
The couple did abide by this agreement, counting that they have never had children together for more than 20 years.
However, something dramatic happened.
20 18 65438+ 10/7 When interviewed by Hong Kong media, Dong Shengyi voluntarily admitted that she had become a father two years ago. He also provided a comparison between his daughter and his childhood, and generously shared his happiness.
Most importantly, the media confirmed that he and Xiaowen Luo divorced in the middle of 20 17, and his daughter was born with another girlfriend outside the circle.
Let's calculate the time roughly. Dong Chengyi got a daughter around 20 16, that is, she was born on 20 15, but divorced Xiaowen Luo in the middle of 20 17.
So this timeline shows that Dong Shengyi cheated on her in marriage and had children with others.
It is not surprising that Dong Chengyi, who lived with his wife Dink for a long time and did such a thing, suffered a serious decline in his reputation in his later years.
05.Xu Zhian
1988, Xu Zhian met her school sister Sammi Cheng in the company. They fell in love at first sight, then secretly loved for ten years before they became public, broke up two years later, and got back together at 20 1 1.
20 13, 165438+ 10, and Xu Zhian Sammi Cheng, who fell in love around *** 15, got married secretly in Bali.
It is also because of their emotional experience that when the news of marriage first appeared, they received countless blessings from the outside world. When everyone describes their feelings, they all say, "It's still you."
Unlike most young couples, Xu Zhian and Sammi Cheng actually decided to choose Dink from the beginning.
Sammi Cheng doesn't eat staple food for many years, but only fruits and vegetables, so her body is not suitable for pregnancy.
On the other hand, Xu Zhian is used to a free life, except sympathy for his wife. Besides, there are 10 brothers and sisters in his family, and he is the youngest, so his elders will not put too much pressure on him.
When Dink was mentioned in the interview, Xu Zhian was very happy to laugh at himself as "unprecedented".
For six years after their marriage, Xu Zhian and Sammi Cheng have been pursuing Dink's promise. Despite the serious decline in Xu Zhian's career, they have a strong love for each other, and they have always been a loving couple.
Unexpectedly, on April 6th, 20 19, the media broke the news that Xu Zhian and Kenneth Ma's girlfriend Huang Xinying were making out in the car, which caused a great sensation.
From a good man who cares about his wife and Dink to being caught cheating in public, Xu Zhian's inconsistent face is really shameful.
Now, after two years of precipitation, Xu Zhian is trying to return again. Although I don't know if he really realized his mistake, it is obviously not enough to win the public's forgiveness.
On the other hand, after this incident, Sammi Cheng hinted that she wanted children. It seems that Sammi Cheng also wants to try to change to maintain this relationship.
06.Zhang Duo
In 2006, Zhang Duo, who just made her debut, met Chen Songling, who had just come to the mainland for development, when she participated in the TV series "Hot Blood Is Not Cold".
Although the entertainment circle in Hong Kong had gradually declined at that time, as a TVB Hua Dan, Chen Songling's fame and status were still far above that of Zhang Duo.
But interestingly, Zhang Duo was never a self-mocker. He was so confident that he took the initiative to strike up a conversation with Chen Songling at the wedding reception.
In the long run, the two became friends, and then, naturally, Zhang Duo boldly confessed to Chen Songling, who was eight years older than himself, and successfully won the beauty.
20 1 1 On July 26th, Zhang Duo announced the good news of marrying Chen Songling in Weibo. The next day, Chen Songling admitted to being married in a telephone interview.
Since then, Chen Songling has been resting at home, taking on more work as a young woman behind Zhang Duo.
However, as time went on, more and more people questioned how the couple had no children. Even, there are rumors that Zhang Duo is having an affair, and it is speculated that Zhang Duo is gay.
In this regard, Zhang Duo's response is that he is "iron", because he doesn't know how to raise children, so he decided not to have children.
When asked about this matter, he insisted that Ding had no children, and the outside world always thought it was his decision.
However, it was not until several years later that things reversed, and Chen Songling personally overturned her husband's "lies".
It turned out that Chen Songling was too busy in his early years, which led to ovarian tumor. Even after the operation, the doctor told her that it would be difficult to have children of her own in the future.
Chen Songling even planned to be single for life, but he didn't expect to meet Zhang Duo.
Zhang Duo not only cared about and understood Chen Songling, but he never took the initiative to mention any related words.
In this year's "Mother-in-law", Zhang Duo's mother dotes on her son too much and often alienates Chen Songling, which makes the outside world feel deeply sorry for Chen Songling.
But in fact, for Chen Songling, her tolerance and understanding of Zhang Duo is hard-won, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may be difficult to handle, but I also believe that as long as she persists, it will eventually change.
07.Li Jian
Short and pithy once fairly praised Li Jian's wife as the most beautiful woman he had ever seen.
As an intellectual, although he has a top-notch filter, it is also true.
It is reported that Li Jian's wife's name is Meng Xiaobei. Because of her beauty, she was once found by a talent scout walking in the street. What's important is that her education is Dr. Tsinghua and she is a family friend of the Li family, so she is a standard household.
Li Jian and his wife met when he was 10 years old. At that time, the woman was only 5 years old and was held by her mother.
Later, both of them were alumni, both of them graduated from high schools and universities, and both of them graduated from doctors. Similar life choices and three views finally succeeded in bringing them together.
In the eyes of the public, Li Jian has always been a charming literati image, and so has his wife. They live a Buddhist life, basically never taking selfies or taking pictures.
But I don't know if it's too Buddha. Even in private life, the couple will not voluntarily disclose anything to the outside world. Occasionally, couples get together, which is basically a shot of friends or a sneak shot of passers-by.
In the couple's marriage for more than 20 years, Li Jian has always insisted on Dink, for reasons that may surprise many people.
He bluntly said: "I don't think it is necessary to continue my genes. It's nothing, and it's not an endangered species. There is no need to continue myself. "
08.Pu Shu
Pu Shu is a typical artist and a very special person.
He is special, which is manifested in his unique behavior and his unique personality. So the woman who can be with Pu Shu has something to do with this indifference.
In 2002, two years after breaking up with Zhou Xun, Pu Shu met actress Wu Xiaomin at a friend's birthday party.
At that time, Pu Shu was already a famous talent in music, but "brain-dead" Wu Xiaomin didn't know him at all.
And when they first met, Pu Shu was wearing a hat, depressed and didn't like talking to people. When we met for the second time, he became a sunny boy and smiled brightly.
Therefore, Wu Xiaomin was immediately attracted by this completely different extreme personality. Soon, under the active pursuit of Wu Xiaomin, the two men came together.
On June 5th, 2005, Pu Shu and Wu Xiaomin got married.
After marriage, Pu Shu basically didn't share her married life, because she didn't like to participate in programs and fell in love with the Internet. Every time he is asked about his wife, he doesn't want to answer. Even, many people think that Park Shu is too cold-blooded.
And we can only spy on their marital status from the perspective of Wu Xiaomin, but as the outside world speculated, Pu Shu seems really cold, and it is really unexpected that Wu Xiaomin can endure him for more than ten years.
Speaking of which, it was reported on 20 1 1 that the two were divorced.
Pu Shu didn't respond at that time, but a few years ago, when he participated in the program "Adventure Life", Pu Shu voluntarily revealed that he was in poor mental state when recording the Spring Festival, and his wife Wu Xiaomin asked him for a divorce.
This is the first time that his wife has filed for divorce, which makes Pu Shu, who has always been frustrated, feel that he has lost something. Later, he cried and said to his wife, "It will be fine," so that his marriage would not collapse.
Obviously, judging from this incident, the marriage between Pu Shu and Wu Xiaomin is basically maintained by the woman.
This is also reflected in their values. Wu Xiaomin likes children very much. In an earlier interview, she said that "this is necessary".
However, Wu Xiaomin's words have not been followed up until today, and the couple have been living a life of Dink.
And the reason for this, Pu Shu's statement is that he is not sure to educate his children into a good person, nor can he watch him eat junk food and watch junk TV.
Pu Shu also said that he had suffered too much, and he didn't want the baby to be born. He watched him suffer, but there was nothing he could do. When he saw his children suffering, he couldn't stand it.
09.Liu Qingyun
1992, Liu Qingyun met Guo Aiming, a Hong Kong sister champion who had just entered the entertainment circle for two years, while filming the TV series "Big Times".
At first, they were not familiar with each other. Guo Aiming thinks that Liu Qingyun is too prim and doesn't care much about him. He doesn't even eat together outside the set.
Until a few months later, Vivian Chow held a concert and invited the two men to join.
Until then, goodbye to Guo Aiming Liu Qingyun, suddenly had a different feeling for her.
One night, Liu Qingyun called Guo Aiming to make an appointment. At first, Guo Aiming thought he wanted to borrow money from himself. When driving to pick him up, he asked why. Liu Qingyun was hot-headed and said, "I want to see you."
I don't know if Liu Qingyun's frankness made Guo Aiming have a different view of him.
Soon, the two came together, and at the same time, Guo Aiming also announced their love affair to the outside world. She believes that both of them are responsible for their feelings and themselves, and they can't secretly date and say that there is no such thing.
In those years, many times we can see their generous show of love.
1998, two people who have been in love for 6 years held a grand wedding in Hong Kong.
Although Liu Qingyun didn't have much money at that time, he still spent millions, including as many as 13999 crystals on Guo Aiming's wedding dress, which are the witness of Liu Qingyun's love.
After marriage, Liu Qingyun went from a poor boy to the position of the film emperor step by step, while Guo Aiming, who was born in an exquisite family, was willing to retire and shoulder the responsibility of being a housewife. The husband and wife sang along with their wives, which was enviable.
The couple have never had children after marriage, and have been pursuing the Dink principle for more than 20 years.
As for the reason, Liu Qingyun once replied that he would rather be a DINK until now because he was worried that his wife would be hurt when giving birth to a child.
10. Chow Yun Fat
Chow Yun Fat is a typical "prodigal son". He fell in love with actress Cora Miao as soon as he made his debut, then had an affair with Angie Chiu, and finally broke up with Chen Yulian four years later.
In marriage, Chow Yun Fat is not stable. After breaking up with Chen Yulian, Chow Yun Fat flashed marriage with Yu Anan in a fit of pique, which ended in divorce in less than a year. It is simply a typical "do whatever you want because you are handsome."
However, changes in Chow Yun Fat have also come quickly. 1984, Chow Yun Fat met Chen Huilian, the daughter of a wealthy Singaporean who was four years younger than her.
Chow Yun Fat actively pursued Chen Huilian, but he didn't intend to get married at first. When they were together, Chow Yun Fat said he wouldn't get married.
But it was not until three years later that Chow Yun Fat realized that he was used to Chen Huilian's company and meticulous care.
So, one day after work, Chow Yun Fat proposed to Chen Huilian again, and got the certificate the next day. A few months later, the wedding was successfully held.
After marriage, the couple have been loving each other and actively preparing for pregnancy.
1992, 33-year-old Chen Huilian was pregnant, but surprisingly, one week before the due date, the fetus died unfortunately because the umbilical cord was around the neck, and the fetus was stillborn.
Later, when Chen Huilian was examined, she found that she was not easy to get pregnant and was not suitable for having children.
This incident dealt a great blow to Chen Huilian, who once became the sorrow of the whole Lacrimosa.
Seeing the painful appearance of his beloved wife, Chow Yun Fat also made up his mind to live a life of Dink, and the couple never wanted children again.
In this way, after 34 years without children, the couple are still happy and loving.
Moreover, because there are no descendants, Chow Yun Fat and his wife promised early that they would "donate naked" all their wealth after their death.
In fact, there are many more stars who pursue "Dink" marriage, but like them, many people's promises and ideas have gradually changed with the passage of time.
These people, especially stars like Zhang Duo, Liu Qingyun and Chow Yun Fat, decided to be "Dinks" in order to take care of their wives' feelings. This understanding attitude is also worthy of respect.
Perhaps, some people's personalities are doomed to regret, and some things are doomed to be unchangeable, but everyone also has the right to choose his own life. In principle, there is no problem.