1, I don't want to hear about death, I hope they can live like this. I'm worried about why the old man said such things. Will they really die? Still not good now? 3. Afraid of losing them
Second, why do the elderly say when they will die, or die early:
1, as the title says, according to the fortune teller, the fortune teller said that the elderly just believe that 2, the inner needs of the elderly have not been met, such as
@ Wang Xueyan
Yes, aging leads to the gradual loss of health and vitality, and the death of peers. Secondly, the most important thing is whether the family takes care of and accompanies the elderly ... and so on, which makes the elderly feel lonely, feel more and more useless, add trouble to their children, and think that living is also a burden. 3. It is also the feeling of emptiness and pressure mentioned by the landlord above. With the change of age and the influence of the surrounding environment, there are too many life circles. There is little communication with children every day, especially some old people still have vacancies for their wives. They can't have a glass of wine to vent and find a friend to complain like young people. When they are alone, they can only think in their hearts. At this time, the old people will have an invisible sense of oppression (the call of death). Grandma tells you when to die. Their low level of education and narrow contact range make the topic small and difficult to see. I can't wait to tell you everything. When I die, I'll tell you. I also want to imply that you spend more time with her. She doesn't have much time and wants to spend more time with you. Another layer means that grandma can't bear to part with you and doesn't trust you.
Third, people are inherently mortal, and the fallen leaves return to their roots.
Death is everyone's inevitable fate. In the face of ruthless fate, people's individual consciousness is aroused, and no one will die instead of me, just as no one can live instead of me. Life and death are two sides of life. Regardless of the length of life, everyone has only one limited life. There are many beings in the world. For all sentient beings, it is usually a dull life and then leave without leaving a trace, just like a dust in the long river of history. We are just ordinary people, so we should face it calmly.
Fourth, what should we do about the topic of old people saying death:
1, when the old man said, we should listen quietly, and then say, Grandma, you will always be my best grandmother, and I will accompany you well. You should let grandma live a good life and reassure her, and you should also reassure her. Then immediately change the subject (meet for a short time and talk more about happy things) 2. Accompanying reading: If you take off your job and relax, you must compensate the elderly for their silent efforts in housework and childcare for many years and create a "second spring" for the elderly. 3. Traveling with the elderly: Let them go out and see the outside world more, broaden their horizons (there are too many beautiful things in the world, so since they come to this world, they will not regret it), look at flowers and plants, and look at the optimistic and cheerful attitude of the elderly, so that they can realize that they can actually have their own different attitudes towards life when they are old-time is not a distance, and age is not a gap. The only difference is falling in love with life and a young heart. 4. It is very important to calm down and really care about the inner world of middle-aged and elderly people, make correct guidance, and let the elderly feel the temperature and hope at home. The thinking of the older generation: old people have a sense of security, old people have a sense of security, and old people have a sense of achievement.
There are no people of all ages on the road to death. Sometimes we are all afraid of the topic of death. When I was a child, I said unlucky things, and adults shouted three times in a row.
The old man is the end of life and has not rested yet. Let's use our present self to project our 80-year-old self. First of all, he is weak, his legs and feet are unstable, he hardly goes out, his mouth is not good, and he doesn't eat much. Many of my neighbors and friends have gone, and so have most of my older relatives. Many young people will only touch his head affectionately when consulting their life experiences: they will get better gradually. Time tells me that when chatting with Lao Xu, it is best to discuss where to be buried after death. Can I go back to my hometown for burial? It is not suitable for me to marry my daughter, but I just want to be buried where I was born. Lao Xu, a friend, teased him: Even after death, there are still so many demands that bring so much trouble to people. Then he took out his mobile phone: Lao Lin, look at this iphone77, how beautiful it is. I proudly took out a xx and said: My granddaughter just bought an iphone78, which needs a little naughty vanity. I care more and more about my feelings, and often everyone is distracted when chatting. Then I look at the young people and look at each other and worry: Old lady, I am lost again. I feel the change of sunshine temperature quietly. It's early autumn. I don't want to prove that I'm not confused. That string can't be stretched so tightly as it was when it was young. After decades of days and nights, my weak body has been unable to support my desire. My brain is still moving. My grandson can get married the year after next. I have to prepare a big gold bracelet for my granddaughter's wife. There are ornaments in the cupboard that can be sent to my daughter-in-law in advance, so as not to say that I am eccentric. The other sank in a quiet place, feeling the fallen leaves in autumn, with almost no sadness in his heart. Seeing autumn once more is earning autumn once. When I was young, my heart was floating. In order to prevent people from flying, it is necessary to hurt Qiu Minchun. When you get older, people get heavier, and the beautiful, frivolous and sad scenery has become a cheerful ornament.