After 70, along the way, it is not easy, it is not simple.
We were born in the 1970s, when the economic conditions were not very good. Having food, clothes and books is the greatest happiness.
My hometown is in a remote ravine. Houses are built on mountains, and some are built halfway up the mountain. Go along the mountain road and turn the corner, and you will always see one or two.
I often think that the person who can write these two poems must be a mountaineer. He must have walked many mountain roads and experienced the taste of mountain people like me.
The scenery in the mountains is beautiful, and people in the mountains live a hard life.
Children in the village will follow adults to do farm work from the age of six or seven. I have done farm work such as transplanting rice seedlings, feeding pigs, herding cattle, chopping wood, pulling pig grass, cutting rice and planting soybeans.
When we were young, we also had toys, but we didn't buy them. We made them ourselves.
I remember one summer, the child next door made a bow and arrow, and the main material was a bamboo. However, the bamboo pieces are polished exquisitely and enviably.
Shuttlecock can be made from withered canna leaves; You can use Ziziphus jujuba seeds as bracelets; Bamboo leaves can also be turned into "harmonica", which can blow out music; Scrap iron wire can be made into iron rings and small pistols. ......
Later, people born after 70 grew up, flew out of the ravine, left the countryside and lived in the city, which became our dream. After years of hard work, most people's dreams should come true.
In order to settle down in the city, I spent all my savings in the first half of my life, and even became a debt-ridden person.
I never dreamed of it when I was a child. One day, I can buy a house and a car and drive myself to see the scenery.
Of course, most of the post-70s happiness is created by ourselves, and we are a self-made generation.
02
After 70, learn to toss, but don't toss.
When you look back, you will find that white hair has quietly emerged and wrinkles have quietly climbed up your cheeks.
Time makes people old, and it gets worse every day.
On the way to getting old, we are still chasing dreams.
Most people born after 70 are in their forties, and some are in their fifties. However, we are still in middle age. There are old people in the world, and there are small puzzles at the bottom, which still exist.
Only by maintaining a positive state, continue to toss and turn, and wait for the children to go to college, get a job, and get married.
The poor inherit the wind. As parents who have suffered, how can they not care about their children? How I wish I could create better conditions for my children to live in big cities.
When people reach middle age, they seem to be strong, but in fact they are "helpless". There are often tears, but tears can only flow to the heart. Don't cry in front of your parents. You really can't let your elderly parents worry about yourself. Don't cry in front of children, because they are still young and regard their parents as a support; You can't cry in front of your lover or acquaintances. They won't really understand you.
Find the right direction in life, choose the right way, and continue to toss. What will the elderly and children do if they don't toss about? Tossing is a responsibility, not only for yourself, but also for the family.
03
After 70, life enters the second half, so we should be prepared for providing for the aged.
There is a saying in the countryside: "When people reach 45, they are half buried."
In other words, people's life span is at most 100 years. At the age of forty-five, I was buried half the time and could never find it again.
Time flies. No matter how hard you try, you can't go back to the past, you can only face the fact of getting old.
It seems to be a kind of knowledge to adopt a child without preventing old age. Struggled for most of my life. When I get old, I have to rely on myself.
Maintain a good mental state and learn to keep in good health. Health is the most important thing. Health is the most expensive wealth. You can't get sick these days. People born after 70, don't stay up late and don't work hard. Enough is enough when tossing, and do what you can.
Insist on making money, saving money and preparing money for old-age care. When people are old, they need living water from the source, otherwise they will sit in empty seats. Prepare a pension, and then leave a deposit, and life in old age will be easy. If you are empty-handed and want to make money when you are old, life will be really hard. Think about it, when you are 60 years old, even if you go to work, no one will want you.
Prepare a house for the elderly and don't live anywhere else. Why do many people build houses in their hometown? Maybe they won't live in their hometown, but they regard their hometown as a retreat.
If you can't get along in the city, returning to your hometown is also a way out. If you get along well in the city and have your own cabin, so much the better. You can't drift forever anyway.
Keep your "wife" around and don't lose the fate of husband and wife. Young couples always go hand in hand. If you are still single, find someone to marry. If you get married, don't toss about love, work hard with your lover and plan your future life together.
Hold a group of old friends and don't let yourself live alone. With more friends, the road of life will always be easier. Perhaps, most friends will not help you with their heart, but don't refuse to associate with friends. When I was old, I had several good friends. When we are together, we can take care of each other.
As a post-70 s person, you should learn to plan your life. You can't let the rest of your life. We should learn to serve the elderly and also learn to provide for the elderly.
04
After 70, kindness and security are blessings.
In this life, peace of mind is bliss.
On the way to old age, be a kind person, one good deed deserves another, and accumulate virtue and money.
To love yourself is to create a better living environment, and so is to love others.
When you love the people around you with your heart, you will find that everyone will treat you better. There are more good people around you, and you will smile more, thus forming a good situation of helping each other.
Many people became grandparents after 70. As an elder, you should look like an elder. Don't think that just because you are young, you can be willful.
Your kindness will benefit future generations. Think about it, when you were growing up, you met many good people, some of whom were acquaintances of your parents or grandparents. Your children will meet your acquaintances and get help when they enter the society.
"There is a good house in Qing Yu, and there is more than one bad house."
In the rest of your life, learn to love yourself, cherish your life and fulfill your obligations.
Author: coarse grains in cloth.
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