According to the practice of the Qing dynasty, the prince was not raised by his mother, but by an official or other concubine with elegant moral character and noble birth, in order to prevent the harem from interfering in politics!
There are several reasons for the disharmony between Mei and Princess De:
1, because Yin Zhen was raised by Tong Jiashi from birth! Tong Jiashi is Kangxi's cousin, which means Tong Jiashi is the niece of Empress Kangxi! Therefore, Tong Jiashi, Kangxi's cousin, was born in a noble family and was deeply loved and respected. After hershey's death, she was the imperial concubine of the emperor. To put it bluntly, she is in charge of the harem! De Fei, who was born a coated slave, entered the palace in a lower position than a female convent, so when Mei was born, she was not qualified to raise her own children at all! It happened that Tong Jiashi had no son, so the emperor asked Tong Jiashi to keep him for May! It was not until Tong Jiashi's death that she returned to her eleven-year-old princess in May! Therefore, the princess has only the grace of birth, the grace of cultivation and the grace of teaching, which is very thin!
2. Parents in the world are eccentric. This is common sense at all times and in all countries. Moreover, most mothers especially love to spoil their young children, which is their natural complex. Ginza (the sixth son of Kangxi, the second son of De Fei) was very painful when he was there. Ginza died, and she naturally hurt fourteen sons (Yinzhen, renamed Ginza in Yongzheng). I want to come to Yongzheng's heart and have been worried about this. The gap between mother and son is getting bigger and bigger. And at that time, Princess De was already a princess among princesses and could raise her own children! However, she was not very good about the May 4th Movement. When I was eleven years old, I knew that my mother didn't have him in her heart during the May 4th Movement, so the "moody" character was developed! Because when I was a child, but I was not taken care of, the gap became deeper and deeper, which also made Mei miss Tong Jiashi more!
3. When Yin Zhen acceded to the throne, he named Roncodo (Tong Jiashi's younger brother) as his uncle, but ignored his first uncle. This does not mean that he announced to the world that "I only recognize Tong Jiashi as my only mother". Even the fourth brother chose to visit him from three to five in the morning, basically in order not to meet the princess, because they are lovers!
4. Let's talk about Deyi again. After all, "it takes two hands to make a sound." Frankly speaking, Princess De is a person I hate most, because her eccentricity, her "ruthlessness" and her eccentricity are, in my opinion, the most cruel and vicious weapons in the world. She deeply hurt her son, and this shadow has always been with Yin Zhen. De Fei was originally a maid-in-waiting and had a low status. It was because of the birth of Yin Zhen that he was named as Aide the following year (the 18th year of Kangxi) and was later promoted to "De Fei". Therefore, according to some scattered historical data, some scholars speculate that Princess De was originally a maid around Tong Jiashi, who was taken fancy to by Kangxi and gave birth to her eldest son Yongzheng, while Tong Jiashi resented the betrayal of Princess De, so he kept Yongzheng at his side and instilled some remarks against Princess De, thus alienating their mother and son and subtly getting Yin Zhen from Princess De. Naturally, the jealousy between women will also continue to their sons. At this point, princess de is undoubtedly completely lost (it is better to be a dead man! ), the resentment in her heart is palpable. Of course, there is still no clear written data to prove this assertion, and whether it is exact or not is uncertain, but it can be used as a reference to explain the reasons for the disagreement between Yongzheng and De Fei.
5. It is really rude to do things in Germany and Italy. When Kangxi died, De Fei wanted to be martyred (in fact, she wanted to give Yongzheng a duel) and refused to accept the emperor's salute to herself. As a result, the ceremony of Deng Ji was almost impossible, which made the opening ceremony of the first ceremony of Yongzheng Dynasty so disappointing and doomed the tragic tragedy of Yongzheng Dynasty. In addition, my mother once said that Yongzheng's accession to the throne was "beyond my dreams." What does this mean? ! It's not obvious to tell everyone that he-his first son (! ) inherit the unification, even my own mother never dreamed, in fact, I just refused to admit the legitimacy of Yongzheng's accession to the throne and challenged him. In such a sinister political environment, so many political opponents are eyeing her son. Obviously, she will be manipulated by others when she says this, which will obviously push Yongzheng to the wall, but she didn't even think about it, even afraid, so she said it and did it! ! ! Such a rude and extreme experience is so obvious, if I can't get on well with her, what's more, I am as strong and famous as Yongzheng? !
Princess De flatly refused to accept the title of Empress Renshou before her death, and refused to move from Yonghe Palace where she originally lived to Ningshou Palace where Empress Dowager Cixi should live. So when she died, Yongzheng moved her Zigong (coffin) to Ningshou Palace and put it in Shouhuang Hall, where she should stay after the queen's death. The twists and turns reveal the grievances in Yongzheng's heart, and Samadhi is really intriguing.
Besides, Yin Zhen is particularly afraid of heat because she worked in this department in her early years. After princess de died, although the weather was very hot, in order to avoid leaving it to others (? ! With ammunition, he insisted on a wake, so that he fainted several times and was exhausted. In a secret compromise with Nian Gengyao, his confidant, he said, "I'm safe. You really can't support my strength, and you can't afford to lose face. I have experienced the heat in summer, and I can't stand the heat at all. I want to bear the burden of my body and really cherish it. I don't have to worry too much about me. " A feeling of anger and resentment is clear at a glance. If the mother-child relationship is like this, it is really a great sorrow in Yongzheng's life.