First, try to arrange the time.
Second, hold on!
There are two children in our family, the older is over 8 years old and the younger is over 1 year old. Dawa was taken care of by her grandparents before she was three years old, when she had only one child. We can take care of it without feeling very tired. Among them, the two old people at home have paid a lot, which is really "I don't know my parents' kindness without raising children."
In the second half of 20 17, Erwa was born. My parents are getting older and their health is getting worse every year. I can't help with the children. I can only help occasionally, mainly on my own. When the child is a few months old, his wife always takes her to sleep at night and wakes up several times a night. For a time, the child had gastrointestinal discomfort and often cried in the middle of the night. Several times, he cried badly. My wife can't help it, or she may be tired and depressed for a long time, crying with her child in her arms ... I am helpless, coaxing the big one and then coaxing the small one. From then on, my wife began to lose her hair. I can see long hair on the floor of my house almost every day. When I comb my hair, it falls off one by one! Several times, my wife told me, "I suspect I may have depression ..."
I survived the hardest days. Now Erwa 1 year and 4 months. She is still a good girl when she sleeps at night. Occasionally, she wakes up, croakes, pats her and goes back to sleep. It's just that I'm "clingy" during the day, lively and naughty, and I have to play with her, play with her, and go out with her ... My wife has worked in her old company for 10 years, and I don't want to quit easily, but my working hours are more free. Every day, my wife gets up early to make breakfast, sends Dawa to school, and then goes to work by herself. Usually she doesn't come back for dinner at noon, and Dawa also has lunch at school. Most of the time, Erwa woke up early in the morning, so I made milk and changed diapers for her at home, and then basically made it for her all morning. At noon, the two of us will grab something to eat, make a spinach and carrot for Erwa, or cook some noodles and stew a soup. After lunch, the little guy usually takes a nap. When she fell asleep, I took the time to deal with my work ... When she woke up, I had to stay with her until my wife came home from work. I used to go out to socialize and get together, but these two years have been rare. Dawa goes home by bus after school. After dinner, I usually help Dawa with his homework. After finishing my homework, if I have time, I will do a little experiment and play a little game with him, and my wife will look after the baby. Until around 9- 10 in the evening, my wife and children were asleep, which was the cleanest and most sober time for me. At this time, I can work in front of the computer with peace of mind. In most cases, I stayed up until one or two o'clock in the middle of the night ... I basically gave two dolls at the weekend, and the older one was interested in the class (fortunately, there was only one registration) and social practice activities (almost every week). The baby was also babbling and clamoring to go out for fresh air. ......
That's it, day after day, there are troubles, madness, and even collapse too fast, but the two children have also brought us a lot of joy! That's it, tired and happy. ......
As a stay-at-home mother, I have been taking care of my children for more than five years, and only those who have taken care of them know the ups and downs. As a person who has been there, let's talk about the experience of taking care of children.
After giving birth to the baby, her mother went home the next month and had a newly pregnant sister-in-law to take care of. Mother-in-law is in poor health, cultivated in her hometown and unwilling to come to Shenzhen. The husband gritted his teeth and said that the child would bring it himself. First, we discussed hiring a nanny, but it turned out that it was difficult for a nanny to get a high salary. The key is that my husband and I need to work overtime every day, and we often get off work at 10. Who would entrust a newborn baby to a strange nanny for more than one day 15 hours (not to say that the nanny is not good, but as a parent, I simply expressed my anxiety), so I resigned with honor.
1. Before the baby was half a year old, because of the cold weather, she seldom went out and stayed at home alone. As a novice mother, she worries about her baby's food and drink every day. As soon as the baby has a little trouble, she will use her mobile phone to check online. Every day, she is very tired, and her heart is more tired. Call mom, mom said, hold on, it's good for the baby to be older. He also said that in two and a half days, it will be a day. I rely on these two sentences to count the days every day and cheer myself up. Baby 100 days, happy. The baby is half a year old, happy. Have some fun for yourself and find the courage to stick to it.
2. The baby is getting bigger and bigger, and the demand is increasing. If you are not satisfied with Lazar's food and drink, you must go out and have fun. I am really tired like a dog every day. No matter how energetic a person is, he is not as energetic as a child. If the rope is taut, it will break sooner or later. I work overtime every day, and sometimes I go on business trips. I pretend he doesn't exist. Once, the aunt next door, who stayed in her hometown for more than a month, went back to Shenzhen to see me. The first sentence is "How come you are so old again". When I was about to collapse, I decided to take my baby back to my parents' house for a while. When the baby was one year old, she went back to her parents' house for a month. Finally, her mother cooks and washes clothes with her help. She doesn't have to sweep the floor. Her mother occasionally takes care of her children, which is much easier in an instant. So, I go back to my parents' home for a few days every year to adjust my tired body and mind. After my mother's house was fully charged, I continued to go back to Shenzhen and fought in the front line with my baby.
When children grow up, there are more and more opportunities to adjust to fatigue. At that time, several stay-at-home mothers in our community made an appointment to take their children to play together every day and take turns cooking and eating. They will go to your house today and my house tomorrow, so that the children can have a companion and we adults can chat and relax together. You can also go out shopping and travel together. When my husband has an occasional holiday, he can go out to watch a movie alone, or find a friend to have tea and dinner for a change.
The best solution to bring the baby tired is actually to pay someone to help with the housework and occasionally help bring the baby down. But when I can't afford to hire someone, I can only stand up by myself and take care of my baby when it cries. However, we can try to find opportunities to relax ourselves and adjust our mentality occasionally.
Because, we laugh, we want to bring the baby, we cry, we want to bring the baby, so try to bring the baby to laugh.
Hello, I'm Guo Zi, and I'm talking about parenting in Guo Zi. I can understand that mothers are very tired with their children, and I don't know how old your baby is. My baby is now 17 months.
Taking care of children is basically my job. I usually go to work, and then I go home from work to help her look at it every time. Usually it's basically my object's job.
It's very hard and tiring to take care of children. I didn't understand it at first. Sometimes the object takes care of the children every day, and I think she sometimes has a bad temper with the children. Then my partner will say to me at this time, why don't you try to look after the children for a day? You will know why I do this to children.
My date belongs to distant marriage. She usually takes care of the children alone, but my mother sometimes comes from the country to help her take care of the children. Basically, four weeks a month, two weeks. I may not come all day this month when I am busy.
Therefore, it is really tiring for women to take care of their children. My daughter takes her out shopping almost every day now, otherwise she will be bored at home. Basically, take him to parks, supermarkets and playgrounds. These three places are more.
It's really tiring to look after the children alone. But it will be better to have a mother and mother-in-law to help, otherwise some mothers will be particularly grumpy.
I have recorded many videos about babies playing. Welcome everyone to pay attention, let's communicate together.
I am a mother with two children. At present, I take care of two children by myself, which is hard to imagine.
At night, you should feed your four-month-old baby, and you can't rest at ease; Dabao, who is attending kindergarten, has to pick it up in the morning and evening. At other times, she should take care of Bao Xiao at home and meet her needs in time, such as kissing and hugging.
As long as it doesn't rain, try to keep Bao Xiao outdoors for two hours.
Dabao has three early education classes every week.
I also plan to go out to play at the weekend.
I wash clothes and cook every day. There are all kinds of housework and cleaning on weekends.
I am really tired at the end of the day.
In this case, I can relax myself in the following ways:
1, find something you like to do, which is your hobby, and you will feel relaxed and happy when you do it. You can't relax physically, but you must be happy mentally. I like knitting, so whenever I have time, I will pick up a stick or crochet and knit some clothes and dolls.
2. Set aside a separate time for yourself every week, even for half an hour. I go to yoga classes twice a week and leave my children with my father completely. This not only relaxes oneself, but also gives the child a chance to get close to his father.
3. Take a bath for a while. Wash for half an hour at a time to relax.
In addition, suggestions on going out: children want their parents to play with them, but they don't have to go to a far playground or some beautiful parks. I will take my children by boat, right on the canal; Or go sightseeing by car, like the one around the scenic spot, and tell the children about the scenery along the way; Or the nearest supermarket, and then visit the square in front of the supermarket; Or go to the nearest school, sit on the playground and run, and so on.
As long as you chat with children and listen to them when you are with them, they will be very happy, and then the purpose of outdoor activities will be achieved.
Finally, may every mother be treated gently.
Taking care of children is really tiring, especially when you are alone, sometimes you can't even eat. However, as long as it is arranged, it is actually possible.
First, let children form the habit of playing by themselves. Before my daughter was one year old, grandma basically took care of her during the day. At that time, children were very clingy, and she followed me everywhere, and she supervised me when I went to the toilet.
I think it's not good. The child is so attached to me that I am too tired to do anything. I began to train my children to play by themselves and bought her some toys and picture books. Slowly, she will play quietly in the living room alone, and I can have a rest.
Second, find a small partner for your child. One person takes a baby, the children are unhappy, and the adults are tired to death. Then change the mode, a group of people take a group of babies, the children not only have fun, but also the parents' attention and body can rest for a while.
When I take care of the children, I take her to play with them after dinner, so that the children can play with an adult and the other adults can take turns after a break.
The above is my suggestion, hoping to solve your problem!
I just want to say, "It's really tiring to take care of the baby!"
Our mother has been a full-time mother at home for three years. This year, we sent our children to a small class and Ma Bao went out to look for a job. There is no old man at home to help take care of the baby, so the responsibility of taking care of the baby falls on the father who is idle at home. After a few days, I realized how difficult it is for children to take care of their babies alone!
Every afternoon at 3: 30, when I go to the kindergarten to pick up my children, I feel disillusioned. The whole meaning of my existence seems to revolve around children. Sometimes I think about how good it is for husband and wife to live alone and regret having a child. "Dad, dad, dad", basically every minute, the children want to call me. Take him home and play with him for a while. I have to start preparing dinner. I am a novice in the kitchen, and I am busy cooking alone. Besides, I have a child around me. As a result, either the fish was burnt or the soup was not salted. Thank the child for not abandoning his mother.