Self-cultivation is not innate, but a kind of hard and serious cultivation, a kind of spiritual tempering of "detachment from self" and a condensation of life experience. Educated men are kind, tolerant, caring, responsible, compassionate, just and dignified. An educated man, witty and humorous, calm and graceful, leisurely and independent, can instantly gain insight into a woman's mind, evoke your soul to communicate with him and awaken your sleeping feelings. An educated man, brave and resolute, persistent, open-minded and unrestrained. His personality is distinct, frank, independent, strong-willed, tenacious and confident. The mystery of the beginning and end of understanding. An educated man, like an ordinary and melodious song, has a wonderful melody that permeates every season of a woman's life. He is a classic and inspiring song, which gives people motivation, confidence and hope when people are in trouble, lost and depressed, and it is memorable. Educated people are like a glass of wine. Only by savoring it carefully can we appreciate its true connotation and taste its refreshing fragrance. Only after the test of time can we feel the mellow taste of this wine more and more. Educated people are like a cup of strong tea, which has a pleasant smell. Taking a sip, I suddenly feel that the fragrance is full and spreads to every nerve of my body, which makes me feel so comfortable. At the same time, this kind of tea is made by the impact of "boiling water"