When this answer came out, it stumped everyone, and many people left messages. Do you think that hundreds of thousands of houses can be divided into half and millions? This business is really profitable and everyone wants it.
Recently, a couple bought a house before marriage, which is also the case. After failing to solve this problem, I didn't expect to get such an ending.
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My wife is a cautious person, and he is nervous when it comes to money.
Maggie Wong and her boyfriend Zhao Bin have been dating for many years, and their feelings have always been very good. The only thing Maggie can't stand is that her boyfriend is too cautious.
Every time I go to the movies, I don't go without a discount. Every time I go to dinner, I only choose vegetarian dishes on the grounds that I am a vegetarian for health, and sometimes Maggie doesn't have enough to eat. No matter when there is an appointment, I will not choose a holiday. Zhao Bin admits that festivals will take the opportunity to raise prices, and it is not cost-effective to find an excuse not to go out.
Maggie also understands her boyfriend's family situation. Compared with her superior family situation, Zhao Bin's family situation is not good, so she can suffer a lot. But he has taken root in this city by his own efforts, so he is persistent, nervous and cares about money.
Although her boyfriend didn't say anything, Maggie could only try to be considerate. When two people go out, she pays more. After a long time, it becomes a model of "two people dating, she pays the bill".
Maggie felt very wronged, but Zhao Bin said so consolingly, "I saved so much money for the future of two people. When you get married, you always have to buy a house. This is a home. As long as we buy a house, we will get married. "
When Maggie heard this promise, she was very moved. Her boyfriend had long wanted to get married and began to plan to buy a house. She blames herself for not being sensible and is used to saying that her boyfriend is stingy. Thinking of this, Maggie is willing to pay the bill, not willing to let her boyfriend spend more money, for fear of delaying the "house purchase plan."
Two or three years later, Zhao Bin suddenly told Maggie that he had money to buy a house, but there was a big problem ahead.
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Buying a house has no money to decorate, and the sponsorship of my girlfriend is in exchange for marriage.
Maggie was surprised at her boyfriend's sudden purchase of a house. She was surprised that Zhao Bin had saved money so quickly, but she was glad that she could finally get married.
However, Zhao Bin said, "In the past few years, by scrimping and saving, I have saved enough money to buy a house, plus my parents' savings for most of their lives. But I spent all my money on the house, but I had no money to decorate it. If you buy out like that, it means you can't even get married without buying it. "
Maggie recognized the meaning of this sentence, and her boyfriend counted on himself to pay for the decoration. It is not difficult for her to come up with 200 thousand decoration money at once It's just that they're not married yet. Why? She is not stupid. Who will make such a bad check and just take the money without looking at the result?
Zhao Bin and Maggie have been dating for so many years. Seeing Maggie's hesitant thinking and understanding, she immediately understood her concerns. He immediately said, "After the renovation, we will get married." On hearing this promise, Maggie agreed at once.
Maggie's parents heard that their daughter was going to get married, which was originally against it. The family gap was too big. When they heard that Zhao Bin wanted to buy a house, plus his efforts, he was a potential stock. The future is limitless, and the old couple thought about it and agreed.
In the following days, the parents of both sides met, got engaged, got the certificate, and everything came naturally. Zhao Bin also successfully bought a house and got the money from Maggie. In the intense decoration, the wedding will be held when it is ready.
Maggie was still immersed in the fantasy of happiness, only to find that something was wrong. After the boyfriend took the money, his attitude towards himself was not as obedient as before. Especially after the engagement, I began to be a little indifferent to myself.
At this time, Maggie also found that the bride price promised by Zhao Bin's family was not given, but Zhao Bin said, "If all the money is used to buy a house, where can I get the bride price money? I think it is very important to pay off the debt first, even if it is a bride price or a wedding. "
In the face of her boyfriend's careful calculation as usual, Maggie was speechless. Although buying a house is the most important, these marriage links are still needed. It's not just your own business, but also your parents' face. You can't leave it behind.
Zhao Bin continued: "I think the bride price and wedding are just a matter of face. Now is the most difficult time for my family to borrow money to buy a house. Where can I find spare money to do this? If you have spare money, you must pay it back first, and you can only be wronged. "
Maggie just found out that now as long as he says a word, her boyfriend will shirk it in the name of "buying a house" When she ran to the prospective mother-in-law to explain this matter, her mother-in-law agreed: "My son is right. Don't spend money all day and lose face. Since you are a member of my family, you should think about this family. "
This time, Maggie fully understood that the family was nervous when it came to money, and they were not allowed to suffer. Zhao Bin's previous thrifty behavior was just a selfish Phoenix man.
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Phoenix man's step-by-step calculation, girls' domineering demolition will also divorce.
At this time, Maggie understood how stupid she was. Now, after getting the certificate, my boyfriend wants to calculate himself in the name of "buying a house": no bride price, no wedding, and being a free wife. Not only did he have nothing to marry in the past, but he also helped him pay off the debts of his house.
Without telling her parents, Maggie took out all her savings to decorate the house without writing her name. At that time, my boyfriend vowed to write, but he got nothing.
No bride price, no wedding, free wife, giving all my savings to others to decorate the house. Maggie was caught off guard by her boyfriend's initial step-by-step calculation. I made a wishful thinking, but foolishly jumped in.
When Maggie asked her boyfriend about it, Zhao Bin didn't hide it. She just said, "The house is occupied by two people, so the wife should pay for the decoration. Why do I have to pay for a house alone? " ? Besides, you just want to write your name on my house with 200 thousand decoration money, in your dreams! "
Zhao Bin's "dream" completely chilled Maggie.
Maggie didn't know what to do, so she had to go home and tell her parents everything. Huangfu puzzled: "No wonder his family is so generous when talking about bride price, but they don't intend to give as much as they want." Why are you so stupid? People say that they will give 200,000 yuan for decoration when they get married. This is not the case with business. "Huang Fu hate iron not to produce, pointing to his daughter. Maggie bowed her head and said nothing. His father never scolded himself when he was growing up. Now he really deserves it.
However, Huangfu, who had been there before, quickly recovered her mood: "It is better for you to spend 200,000 yuan to see a person clearly than to spend a lifetime. It's up to you, no matter what you do, I will support you. " Maggie sighed and recognized her parents' compromise. I knew I had to ask my parents first, and now I have to bear the consequences myself.
Maggie thought about it all night. Although she was very sad, she still had to deal with it decisively before she got pregnant, otherwise she would be passive.
The next day, she got up early and called the person in charge of the construction team who decorated the house and said, "The house is not decorated. You have to tear it down for me at all costs, and I will take responsibility. "
It is difficult to decorate a house, but it is too simple to tear it down. When Zhao Bin went to see the renovation progress at noon, he found that the house had been completely destroyed. He didn't know it was Maggie's idea until he asked. He swore at the other end of the phone, and Maggie couldn't speak. When he finished, he directly loudly say:
"I took two hundred thousand to play house, now the game is over. The house is yours, yes, but the decoration money is mine, not yours. I'm waiting for you at the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau. If you don't come, 200 thousand is not a small sum. Look at you. "
Zhao Bin was speechless. I didn't expect Maggie, who has always been taciturn, to be so domineering and decisive, and easily defeated his step-by-step calculation with one move. Now that the house has been demolished in this way, the decoration will definitely cost twice as much, and the free wife will fly. What a waste of water.
In the end, the two chose to divorce. Zhao Bin's story about Maggie spread all of a sudden. The girls nearby trembled when they heard Zhao Bin's words, and no one dared to marry him.
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The doorway to buying a house is the complexity of human nature.
House prices are getting higher and higher, and millions of things can't be moved, which begins to be mixed with complex human nature. Especially buying a house before marriage is private property or * * * property?
Nowadays, whether to add a partner's name to a house before marriage is a science. It is not uncommon to be happy if you handle it well, and go their separate ways if you don't handle it well.
Plus the other person's name, no one is comfortable at the thought of owning half a house for no reason; Without a name, the other person will feel unloved, unbalanced and even go their separate ways.
So from this perspective, buying a house is a hot potato for couples who just want to get married, and no one can handle it well.
I've heard about people buying houses before marriage.
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An experienced person's experience in buying a house, how to buy a house before marriage?
1, communication is the most effective free way.
Although buying a house before marriage is a big problem, someone will always solve it through communication. Not everyone is so bad, not theirs or forced. Therefore, communication in advance is the most effective free way.
2. Buy a house in the name of parents
This is a way that many people will use. Parents are selfless and great, and don't think too much about their children's property. Therefore, buying a house in the name of parents is a good way to avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble.
3, equivalent to economic purchase
The divorce rate is too high now. If you don't pay, there will be some risks. In this case, make it clear from the beginning, and buy a house in a semi-economic way, so that no one will suffer. He is also an adult, and some people can accept such behavior.