I finally finished "My First Half Life". At my age, reading such stories always touches tears, pain points or anger points. A middle-aged divorced woman has experienced everything. For example, Xiao San, I met not only Xiao San, but also Xiao San, Xiao San, Xiao San, Xiao San, Xiao Si, Xiao Wu, Xiao Wu, Xiao Wu. Luo Zijun is not the worst. At least in the first half of her life, she lived a luxurious life. And like me, it should be the most uncomfortable for me to fight the world with others in the first half of my life and eat a lot of hardships before going out.
Some experiences, such as before the divorce, I used to be the boss's wife, not to mention how rich I was. I have a nanny, an employee and a driver at home. After the divorce, I tried to go out to work, but I had a quarrel with Luo Zijun. I feel the same way when I see her selling cosmetics, eating lunch boxes, cleaning and cleaning the floor. After the divorce, I want to find a job close to home and take care of my children. There is a supermarket near my home looking for a cashier. I applied for a job in a whimsical way. After half a day's training, I was divided into two classes. The internship period is three days. I can't believe I'm not allowed to sit on a stool and play with my mobile phone. I stood among a pile of drinks and snacks from 3 pm to 8 pm 1 1. Going home at night, I felt that my legs would not bend and collapse, and I resigned the next day.
This year, I tried to do many things, suffered some hardships and took some detours. There is no great achievement, the only thing to be proud of is raising a child with excellent academic performance. If this is not an achievement, then after more than ten years of divorce, try to raise yourself as well as possible and be physically and mentally healthy, as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade. I learned a lot of things I haven't learned, such as psychology, tea art, cooking, beauty, health preservation, keeping fit and writing. I have been to many places I have never been, made many new friends and tried many things I have never done. ...
From a "unhappy woman" and a "yellow-faced woman", I have cultivated myself into an elegant and calm woman. When it comes to the difference with Luo Zijun, there is no life mentor like He Han around. Stumbling all the way. If God gives me another chance, I will learn to rely on men and make friends with excellent men. Instead of wasting time with a group of dissatisfied women.
In the first half of my life, everyone has different feelings when reading it. A thousand people have a thousand hamlets. Naturally, I am filled with emotion: a woman must first have an excellent best friend. The level of your best friend determines your lifestyle. Besides being a good girlfriend, she also has an ex-husband with an annual salary of one million and a girlfriend boyfriend He Han with an annual salary of five million. So Luo Zijun was obviously lucky and took a shortcut. He Han said: "You have a good relationship with me. I will introduce you to work. This is your best resource!" " Some people are busy courting friends and attending various parties all day. Actually, putting the cart before the horse is a complete waste of time. We should know people who are willing to help you with one hundred or even one thousand, instead of being busy every day.
Some people like Tang Jing after watching this drama, and think that she is beautiful, capable, chivalrous, soft-hearted and perfect. When zijun divorced, he said heroically, "I support you!" " "All kinds of help for Luo Zijun. When her boyfriend was robbed, she didn't cry or make trouble, and suddenly disappeared to grab a big client and grab a higher position. Tang Jing's elegant revenge is really inspiring! Tang Jing is a good girl, but she is stupid. Such a powerful woman will stay away from others, but she will show a little weakness and dress up as a little white flower. Don't compete with He Han everywhere. Instead, I asked He Han for help when I met something, and their love had already blossomed.
Women can do anything, even better than men. What do you want a man to do? Also, she made an important mistake and asked her boyfriend to take care of her best friend. A wise man has long summed it up: don't bring your boyfriend to your best friend. She likes it, you have to break up, she doesn't like it, and you have to break up.
Why Zijun can win He Han's love. First of all, she is beautiful. At the age of 37, she was pampered for the first half of her life and had a nanny at home. Spending her husband's money, eating high-grade food and enjoying high-grade beauty maintenance. There are cars, food and fish. Frequent access to major shopping malls, shoes are privately made, and clothing matching is naturally impeccable. In the first half of her life, she was only responsible for beauty. Men are visual animals. So as soon as she got divorced, she was favored by many men, such as being honest and reliable, having two old houses, and even having a married man younger than him. ...
Zijun is a woman who is enriched by her husband. Because she is enriched, she not only keeps her beauty, but also keeps her kindness and simplicity, which is impossible for a girl who works hard outside. It is also liked by successful men. Coupled with her chicken feather family, the appearance of a little sheep at any time aroused He Han's desire for protection, and the omnipotent super power of He Han was brought into full play in her.
And even if Tang Jing is lovelorn, she will go out to rob customers, and all the problems are solved by herself. What a man! Unfortunately, it can't attract men's love. Guo's mother said naturally, "You are excellent. I hope you are my daughter and you can find something better. Jun Jun, who can't do anything, divorced with her children! " Begging her to give He Han to Zijun. You see, weakness is also a reason.
Speaking of this, this ordinary woman with strong temperament always takes a knife to the root of cauliflower last year and steals a parsley when she goes to the supermarket to buy food. It's hard to look straight. But her life experience is very real and has some merits. Many things she does are understandable. For example, she swaggered down the street with Zijun's designer bag and scarf and gave it to her little daughter. Finally, I left more than 300,000 deposits for my little daughter. She is actually a qualified mother.
She said to her daughter, "Jun Jun, He Han likes you so much that you won the first prize. Go and get it. This is an anonymous lottery ticket. Maybe this Tang Jing is the matchmaker and brought He Han to you. " This statement is very philistine, but it is realistic and optimistic. Many people say that she is selfish and her views are incorrect. I think it's understandable. After all, as a mother, I am eager to protect my daughter. It's really hard for a divorced woman to meet a good man who likes her.
Guo's mother said to her, "Sometimes you have to rely on men." This sentence is the wisdom of life. Many years ago, I was also a tough guy, and I saw a lot of poisoned chicken soup. What woman can last for half a day? Who says that women are inferior to men? I don't rely on men to support my mother, and so on. Looking back, it was really stupid.
Men and women are born different. There are many elites in this world who are men, such as He Han, a wise life mentor. Make friends with him and rely on him. You can live easily and effortlessly, and take fewer detours. Why take a train if you can fly? If drinking tea in an elegant room can solve the problem, why run to the market in the scorching sun ... If a man is willing to let you rely on it happily, why not rely on him? The so-called not relying on men means that you give your life to a man to rely on.
If a woman wants to live a good life, she needs to be soft on the outside and strong on the inside. You can be gentle on the surface, practice well on the inside, and not be out of touch with the outside world. Advance, attack and retreat are the right way. Others said, "If you think this man is unreliable, you can always find the right person for you ..."
In the past, many fake chicken soup told us that success depends on ourselves. I think this is right. Until one day, a teacher said: success depends on others! This sentence woke me up. It's easy to use your power. In the high-tech era, don't go to Gong Yu to move mountains. There are some opinions: "An unsuccessful woman is sleeping with the wrong man!" If a man is not successful, he is sleeping with the wrong woman! These headlines are very shocking at first glance. On second thought, it still makes sense. The person by the bed gets along with you day and night. His or her identity, position, vision, words and deeds are directly related to the pattern and future of women. In addition to the people at the bedside, your good friends, both men and women, must pay attention to quality!
Look at the first half of Luo Zijun's life, think back on the first half, and let him have an epiphany and live the second half well.
/PS: Dear, thank you for reading. I'm a newcomer. I am Meng Ying, a woman writer who can belly dance. Now that I'm here, I'll like it and pay attention before I go! Love You!