My mother warmly grasped Wei Wei's injury, fearing that after the report was exposed, Wei Wei publicly apologized at the "Huang Brothers" powder school and put on a dialogue film in which she confessed to her mother, expecting her mother's understanding and support. I believe that Wei Wei's psychology at that time must be full of anxiety. In the film, before getting down to business, Wei Wei constantly confirms to her mother, "Am I a son that makes you proud?" "You know I love you very much, don't you? So no matter what I become, you will believe that I am your son, right? Step by step, make sure you are in a safe position and try to seek the support of your mother.
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Mom kept saying "of course", and Weiwei's voice was awkward and brought into tears. Her mother seemed to notice her son's anxiety and said to Weiwei, "No matter what happens to you, I will support you." Wei Wei summoned up the courage to say to her mother, "Mommy, I just want to tell you that I am gay and I don't like girls. 」
My mother said that she knew it for a long time and felt that even if others thought it was something, she didn't think it was anything serious. Although it was hard to accept at first, she felt that the child did not commit a crime, as long as the child was healthy and happy. She said to Vivian, "I know this is not your choice. No matter what you are, you are my son. I don't care if you're gay. You have always been my proud son. He also told Wei Wei to be strong, to face and overcome things, and not to take everything so seriously.
Further reading: Will my child be gay? With the adoption of the same marriage law, sex education is urgent.
What happened to sexual orientation? What children want is your support. The mother has received the child's anxiety and worked very hard to let the child know that there is no need to worry. Mother is always there. This can't help but remind people of the old photos of little Harry being dug up and dressed as a woman a while ago, which triggered social discussion. Regardless of his sexual orientation, more and more people want to know his parents' attitude when he commits this kind of behavior, which was called "against custom" by the ancients. After the incident, Yu Chengqing took a rare photo with his son at the Pink School, wishing his son Harry Jr. graduation from high school and indirectly letting the public know that "Dad supports you". There is really nothing wrong with being yourself, and you don't need anyone's consent.
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We should tell our children that there is not only one form of happiness. Most people are often difficult to talk about their sexual orientation, so when children find themselves belonging to a special group in sexual orientation or gender identity, they either choose to keep a secret for life or start a family revolution.
Times have changed, and the same marriage law has been enacted for more than a year. Whether you agree or not, you should respect the child as an individual, and whether his sexual orientation meets your expectations, you should also face up to and tolerate him, because he is your child after all.
In addition, children should be told that the family combination of a father and a mother is not inevitable, and two fathers or two mothers can also be present at the same time. As long as they really love their children, they are all happy families.