Understanding the background of this sentence is the key. Humanity refers to people's psychological and behavioral characteristics, including desire, emotion, motivation and demand. In life, if you conform to the weakness of human nature too much, you may fall into some bad habits and behaviors, such as coveting pleasure, avoiding difficulties and pursuing selfish interests too much.
Contrary to human nature, we should consciously challenge and overcome these weaknesses and try to do something unnatural. In the face of difficulties and challenges, we may feel fear and escape, but if we can bravely face and overcome these difficulties, we can gradually cultivate a firm will and a positive attitude. In our pursuit of success and growth, this kind of will and mentality is essential.
It is also important to do things according to human nature. Doing things should conform to the needs and characteristics of human nature, and design and implement some actions that conform to people's universal values and emotions. For example, in dealing with people, we should respect others' feelings and needs, understand others' positions and viewpoints, and thus establish a good interpersonal relationship and cooperation model.
Doing things according to human nature means making plans and goals according to people's characteristics and abilities. If we ignore the characteristics of human nature, set too high a goal or take unrealistic actions, people may feel frustrated and frustrated, and even lead to negative emotions.
Basic principles of being a man and doing things:
1, Honesty and trustworthiness: Be honest and trustworthy, match words with deeds, do not cheat others, and do not break your word, so as to win the trust and respect of others. To be a man, you should know how to manage yourself, plan your time and energy rationally, and accomplish tasks and goals efficiently. At the same time, we should also pay attention to self-reflection and improvement, and constantly improve our ability and quality.
2. Respect for others: Respect for others is one of the basic prerequisites for doing things. Whether you get along with family, friends, colleagues or strangers, you should respect their views, feelings and needs, so as to establish good interpersonal relationships.
3. sense of responsibility: be responsible for doing things, be responsible for your own actions and remarks, and bear the responsibility and consequences. At the same time, we should be responsible for others and care about their interests and feelings.
4. Positive optimism: positive optimism, confidence and courage to face the challenges and difficulties in life. At the same time, we should appreciate the beauty and happiness in life and keep a positive attitude.
5. Good at communication: A person should be good at communication, be able to clearly express his own views and needs, and be able to listen to other people's opinions and suggestions. Only in this way can we communicate effectively, reach an understanding and solve problems.
6, tolerance and generosity: tolerance and generosity, can tolerate the shortcomings and shortcomings of others, regardless. At the same time, we should also know how to appreciate the advantages and strengths of others and learn and grow from each other.