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How to talk about personal accomplishment
Cultivation refers to a person's quality, morality, temperament, understanding of life and so on. This is achieved through exercise and training. A cultured person not only has ambition, but also can work hard. He not only loves his career, but also loves his life and makes progress. He not only has noble morality and interest, rich experience, but also has indomitable will and the spirit of struggle and development. An educated person must be a caring and knowledgeable person. Must be a person who loves learning and is good at integrating theory with practice, so that his self-cultivation can be continuously strengthened and improved.
Morality is included in self-cultivation. If you don't cultivate your body, you can't stand your morality. A gentleman can't help but cultivate himself. From Tian Zi to Shu Ren, self-cultivation is the foundation and the center. Self-cultivation of gentlemen is also self-cultivation.
Montesquieu, a famous French thinker, said: "The measure of a person's true quality depends on what he did when he knew that no one knew." It can be seen that true morality is the whole of one's thoughts and actions.
Good cultivation is the moral capital that people store in the nervous system. This kind of capital keeps increasing in value, and people enjoy its interest all their lives. If you sow an idea, you will reap an action. Sow a habit, you will gain a morality, and the noblest people will become ignorant and rude because of the habit.
Speaking of personal cultivation, I think of Bacon's article on beauty, pointing out that formal beauty is better than appearance beauty, while temperament beauty is the highest beauty, and this temperament of a person is inseparable from one's cultivation. Therefore, the ancients paid special attention to self-cultivation and thought that self-cultivation was the basic point of all success. However, in today's society, self-cultivation is ignored by many people.
We can often hear such comments: this person's cultivation is really good, and it is a pleasure to associate with him, or some people say that this person's cultivation is really poor and vulgar. Self-cultivation is often related to one's cultural level. People with cultural atmosphere naturally reveal a feeling of elegance and gentleness between their words and manners. The ancients described the home of a generation of literati as a scholarly family. In fact, the door can never reveal a scholarly atmosphere, even if there are more books piled up at home. It is people who can really reveal books, and when they speak, they can feel a strong scholarly atmosphere. Only people can flash the word "achievement" between those gestures. Of course, self-cultivation also includes manners, manners, speech and so on. But cultural atmosphere is an indispensable part of it.
How to improve my self-cultivation, I think we should not only pay attention to our manners in our daily life, but also improve our cultural quality. Let yourself read more books and come back with a little scholar atmosphere from books. It's always different. Culture always changes you unconsciously.
Educated people are people you want to associate with. It will be a pleasure to associate with such people, whether it is talking about the past or just talking about trivial matters. In this kind of communication, you will feel very fulfilled; On the contrary, if you associate with uneducated people, you will feel empty. It is said that Buddhism divides everyone into three experiences of past lives's afterlife. Past life is the cause, this life is the result, and the causal cycle is retribution. Then, good cultivation may be the result of sowing.
Self-cultivation should start from bit by bit in daily life and start from scratch. A little thing can tell a person's accomplishment. I often see people talking loudly in public places and making noise at will; Some people also litter, spit and don't pee. I once had an experience, and I was drenched by the water falling from the upstairs and downstairs of my house. Some people have the habit of smoking, but regardless of occasions, such as on buses or other public places. Some people hurt the interests of others without knowing it; These are all manifestations of lack of self-cultivation. At this point, the people of China have not done enough.
Foreigners attach great importance to self-cultivation. At a news conference, people found McCarthy, vice president of American media giant ABC, sitting in the front row, suddenly crouched down and got under the table. Everyone was dumbfounded. I don't know why the tycoon did such a bad thing in public. After a while, he emerged from under the table, took a cigar and said quietly; "I'm sorry, my cigar fell under the table. My mother told me to cherish every penny. " As a billionaire, McCarthy should have turned a blind eye to this fallen cigar, but he gave us an unexpected answer. This is a kind of wealth cultivation, which is the source of their great wealth creation.
Let's take a look at some celebrities or rich people in our country. They eat, drink, wear and talk about ostentation and extravagance. A table of several thousand yuan of food left without eating much. Can you say that they are educated? Many people compete with each other for luxury, luxury cars and magnificent villas, but they no longer contribute to society and the country. If you have wealth and no cultivation, you will lose the real value of life. This lack of spirit is in great contrast with material possession. People who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life. Others deliberately put on a cultured face, but in the end they can't stand the test of the times and show their true colors. In fact, people who don't take a shower will not smell good if they spray perfume hard. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.
Man's cultivation is always the soul of spirit. The body dies, but the spirit lives on. Don't stop in the garden, because there are no unbeaten flowers; Don't indulge in realistic pleasures, because there is no inexhaustible wealth, and don't dream of immortality, because without spiritual support, it is just a walking corpse.
Life is short, for tangible life, whether it is a great man with a long history or a traitor with a thousand years' notoriety. But life is eternal, which is based on intangible life, whether he is a craftsman who built Epang Palace a thousand years ago or an ordinary person among all living beings.
What disappears is tangible life, and what never disappears is the spiritual power left over from historical civilization, which often shows the strength of history and the value of life.
The ancients said, "Being near Zhu Zhechi is black, and being near Mexico is black", which just shows that a person's moral cultivation is largely formed by his environment. It can be seen that people's good moral cultivation is gradually formed by the positive factors in their social environment and the guidance of public opinion. A good environment can make people positive, form good ideological and moral concepts and moral cultivation, on the contrary, it will also make people mentally decadent, demoralized and morally bankrupt. The reason why some people's moral cultivation is declining now is influenced by money worship and bad social atmosphere.
Life is limited and career is infinite. The Chinese nation has always had a positive, enterprising, optimistic, virtuous and self-reliant attitude towards life, and a positive and noble outlook on life, world outlook and values, which enabled youth to continue and precious life to be immortal. Only by establishing a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values can we improve our self-cultivation and grasp the direction of life in the complicated real life.
How to be a man and how to treat others, in fact, it is not difficult to be a man, it is not difficult to be a good person, it is not difficult for a person to do something good, and it is difficult to do good things all his life. People will inevitably suffer losses, be misunderstood and be wronged in social communication. Faced with these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant. Tolerance is a good psychological quality. It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows tolerance and mind, strength and firmness. A person who is intolerant but only demanding of others is often in a state of mental tension, which leads to nervous excitement, vasoconstriction and high blood pressure, thus leading to a vicious circle of psychology and physiology. If you learn tolerance, you will be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, which is equivalent to putting a regulating valve on your mind. Optimism is a kind of mental health. Optimism is a positive personality and mentality. It can stimulate people's vitality and potential, solve contradictions and overcome difficulties; Pessimism is a kind of negative and decadent personality and psychological state, which makes people sad, irritable and painful, helpless in the face of difficulties and affects their physical and mental health. Indifferent, that is, indifferent, not pursuing fame and fortune. At the end of Qing Dynasty, Zhang Zhidong's Health Club said: "Nothing will make you feel at ease"; Bing Xin, a famous contemporary writer, also believes that "people are just without desire." This shows that indifference is a lofty realm and mentality, and a deep-seated orientation for the pursuit of life. With an indifferent attitude, he will not follow the trend and pursue fame and fortune in the secular world; You won't be ecstatic about what you have gained outside, but you will be deeply saddened by the loss; You won't complain about the world and others, and you won't be jealous. Indifferent mentality makes people always in a peaceful state, keep a normal heart, and all factors harmful to physical and mental health will be repelled. Look at this fickle world, and then look at your own life, suddenly feel how short life is, why not be happy? This may be the best reason to comfort yourself. There are joys and sorrows in life, and it is best to laugh often. If there are obstacles in your career, it is best to be calm and calm; Love is sweet and sour, so it is best to relax; Blessings are long and short, and happiness is the best! Bless friends: always smile at life, enjoy life and cherish life!
How to treat the problem of personal cultivation A cultivated person can be calm and persuasive in everything. You should control your emotions in everything. Everyone has an impulse, but an educated person can control himself. I think as long as I take good care of myself, everything will be safe.
How to cultivate personal cultivation temperament A person's temperament is the sum of internal cultivation, external behavior, manners and attitude towards others. Elegant, generous and natural temperament will give people a feeling of comfort, kindness and easygoing. Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. You should study more and read more books at ordinary times. Learn more about communication.
Taste determines temperament. The so-called "near Mexico is black, near Zhu Zhechi is black" is very reasonable. If you can get close to some people with good temperament, you will change something unconsciously. Read more and think more. Temperament can't be changed in a month or two. It will take a year or two or even longer. Many people finish college, and people who haven't seen him for a long time say that he has changed. In fact, it is cultivated by campus life. It is always good to read more books. Another point is that you can be friends with anyone you want to be, be a gentleman and be a villain. After a long time, your temperament will naturally show up.
Reading is the most basic. Read less and practice more, there is no connotation!
Want a good living environment and a good attitude. In order to cultivate good temperament.
Temperament is a charm that exudes poverty internally. Temperament depends on inner cultivation. If you want to express it with external things, it is affectation. Different environments will bring up different people from childhood, and a person's experience and knowledge will have a certain impact on his temperament.
There are many kinds of temperament, such as masculinity, spirituality, comeliness, charm, and a nobleness that is more difficult to achieve. Temperament is basically manifested in dressing, words and deeds, and it is difficult to master every move! Some temperament is innate. If it is not born, it can only be cultivated. Know what type you are first, then have your own opinion and create a perfect temperament that suits you! Temperament does have a natural influence, which is cultivated by acquired education. However, in the short term, natural factors and educational background cannot be changed, so you can try to cultivate self-confidence! A confident person will be handsome and beautiful, but he can't lose his modesty!
How to be polite, calm, restrain your usual behavior, restrain your bad habits, slow down your impatience, think twice before you act, and you can't do everything overnight, take your time.
How to treat people in the workplace? How to be a man? No matter how capable and confident you are, you should avoid narcissism and not make yourself an island. Among your colleagues, you need to find one or two intimate friends, so that everyone can discuss and talk with each other.
When you find that some colleagues are against you, you don't have to worry at all. This may be a relationship of "speaking lightly". The other party pretends to be "senior" and thinks you are young and inexperienced. You should try to get some support from your predecessors so that people won't underestimate you.
● If you want to gain the appreciation and trust of your boss, you must first have confidence in yourself and appreciate yourself. Don't just say "no" to yourself. Although you lack work experience, you don't need to feel depressed. As long as you make up your mind to do things well, you will.
● Do your best in everything and do what you can. If you are in an environment where some colleagues are eyeing you and may point out your mistakes at any time, you need to be vigilant. Besides finishing the work step by step, we should learn to get along with them and communicate with them. This is a necessary condition for every successful person.
It is helpful for your career development to communicate with other colleagues during meal time, enhance feelings and eliminate barriers between them.
Help to recommend some books that can increase experience and personal cultivation and treat people and things. Thank you for recommending that you look at the biographies or histories of two Japanese Warring States figures, Tokugawa Ieyasu and Nobuyuki Oda, which are quite helpful for wandering around the society and playing in the workplace, although I hate Japan very much.
How to pay attention to a person's self-cultivation and self-cultivation from the deep heart, and treat everyone and everything sincerely. As long as a person has a kind soul, she will have her own cultivation and self-restraint.