1, our life needs to be changed, otherwise it will be in mechanical circulation every day. Transformation is accompanied by pain, which requires us to save and persist in forbearance, break free from the shackles of the past in blood and tears, and seek new vitality in smashing the shackles of the past. People are not born the same. The same starting point and different ending points depend on the speed of running on the way. Finally, I found that your stop is also the place where your life ran aground.
2, everyone will inevitably suffer some grievances, and no one can hold his head high forever. Life is not easy. Bow your head when it's time to bow your head. Give in when it's time. Only flexibility can make your heart tough enough. Only by enduring grievances can we achieve greatness and truly defend our dignity. If you explode like firecrackers and break like hay, you are not defending your self-esteem, but belittling yourself.
As far as your heart is concerned, you can go. Be a warm person and love gently with a smile. People always have to gradually mature, see this flashy world more clearly, see through the truth in disguise, see the hidden falsehood, and many things that they originally believed will no longer be believed. However, we must believe, believe in beauty, believe in beauty, and believe that the last youth is still in our hands.
4, knowing that everything can't be perfect, but always seeking perfection! Knowing that there is nothing to worry about, I have been worried! Knowing that you shouldn't be angry, you can't help being angry! Knowing that regret is useless, I still hold it in my heart! Know whether it's obsession or old habits are hard to change! If you want to have a safe and comfortable heart, you must recognize the reality and unload your persistence and emotions, which is equivalent to slowly unloading the burden in your heart. Unload all the baggage, we can see the clarity and light without me.
5. Every time I go to a strange city, I am used to walking around. It is inevitable to get lost temporarily on the way, but you must be sure in your heart and remember the route back to your residence, otherwise you will feel insecure. So is life. You might as well travel around the world, make achievements, start a business, explore and make love, but don't forget the way home. This home is your self and your inner world.
6. An elegant life is the calmness and calmness bred by a calm heart, a peaceful mind and a plain lifestyle. You can run ahead of time, but don't run ahead of a peaceful heart. After all, the scenery of life is the scenery of the soul. If you are anxious, impetuous and confused, the scenery will decline and the scenery will be blank all the way. The environment can be chaotic, but the heart can't be chaotic; You can do things in a hurry, but not in a hurry. Xie Fang is unbeaten and at ease.
When we are alive, we will help each other even if the world gives us great pain. Even if the world makes us suffer more, we will care about each other. Because, as we know, there is no feeling in this world that can transcend family ties and relatives. No happiness is designed for us and no pain is left for us. There are as many kinds of happiness, as many kinds of misfortune and as many kinds of pain as there are kinds of moods. There are big joys and small sorrows. No one can avoid pain and enjoy happiness alone, and no one can be sad for a lifetime without happiness.
8. The distance between reality and ideal is eternal, even if it takes a lifetime. The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. Instead of trying to cross this distance, it is better to know yourself correctly and find your own life. Young man, you should work hard for your beautiful dreams, but don't fall into painful and unrealistic pursuits. It is more important to know yourself and find your own life.
9. You think the people you know are like that, but after a while you find that the people you know are different. When you accept that person as that, you suddenly find that the person you accept is another person you don't know at all. Finally, you find that you don't know that person at all. In this materialistic era, a person should not only shape his appearance, but also shape his heart.
Life is a patience. The beauty and ugliness of life, good and bad, are only in their inner feelings. It's not that life gives us a lot of troubles, that society gives us a lot of pressure, but that we have a lot of selfish distractions in our hearts. A lot of things, bear it, give in a step, and it's over. You don't have to give in. Life is like a dream for a hundred years. Looking down, life will be much easier if you are open-minded and calm. ...
1 1, the flow of tears determines the direction of your life: tears flow back to accumulate strength for your heart, and you give yourself more flavor; Tears flow out to beg, and sooner or later it will be a blocked feedback; The flow of tears is touching, and the left bank of life is destined to be affectionate and kind. People with self-control have the power to walk the Wan Li Road every day. Follow the channel opened by tears, and one day, you can reach the sea.
12, some people always shout that the years are quiet, but the real world is getting worse. You must keep running to stay where you are; You must learn to endure grievances in order to withstand the storm of life. A mature person has not only suffered, but also been wronged. Who doesn't move forward when crying? Don't expose your inner vulnerability easily, learn to bear everything you should bear. Don't talk about the mess of life easily, learn to face the chaotic reality. Don't give in to the world easily, it makes you cry, but you should make yourself laugh in persistence. As long as we can bear, not escape, cherish and have a strong heart, life will not be too pale.
13, a young girl must not expose her interest easily, because interest reflects herself secretly, just as interest reflects artists in art. A young girl tries to win a good impression with her interest, but only makes others please her. This is why all coquettish behaviors are disgusting from an aesthetic point of view. But the occasional coquetry of nature is completely different. For example, a woman's shyness has always been the cutest coquetry.
14. The promise blurted out when you are in love is sincere, just like the fruit from the treetops when the season comes. It's just that you should know that the fruit begins to expire quickly from the moment it leaves the tree. If you don't eat it in time, the fragrant fruit will become rotten and smelly. Therefore, the promise in love often makes us feel uncomfortable later, not because it was false at the beginning, but because it is true and just expired.
15, I had a drink with the god of wealth yesterday. By the way, I increased your wealth to 100. I had a drink with the prince today, and by the way, I increased your life span 100 years. Go to Yuelao for a drink tomorrow and get you a good marriage by the way!
16, in this world of weakness and shame. No matter how far you go, you will never achieve what you want. No matter how close you get, you can't go back to your dream. People will always be a group of creatures enslaved by their inner regrets and longings, trapped in a one-way street of life, unable to go far and go back.
17, in the journey of life, the love between people will fade, just think about it. Some people will come, others will leave. When a new story begins and the old story ends, I finally understand that some people around me can only accompany them through a near or far journey, not their whole life.
18, life is like a healing process, we are injured, healed, injured again, and healed again. Every healing seems to be to meet the next injury. Maybe you have to completely despair once before you can live again and transform yourself into a better self.
19, well water never gives birth to fish, and dead trees never blossom.
20. I don't know anything. Sometimes it's cute, sometimes it's pathetic.
2 1. Life is on the road of life, and joys and sorrows often appear alternately.
22. The greatest misfortune in life is that you can't face up to your ignorance and accept well-meaning criticism.
23. The real value of life is invisible to the naked eye, and it is an intangible thing other than material things.
24, set up a rainbow between the heart and the heart, life can be colorful.
25. There are many unexplained places in life, and persistence is only one point.
26, what role to play on the stage of life, without anyone's intentional arrangement, you will find the right position.
27. Life often encounters challenges. Of course, you can retreat or run away from them, so you will never enjoy meeting challenges.
28. Unhappy things are inevitable in life. People who have a thorough understanding of life will never indulge in adversity.
29. If life is compared to a thick book, then everyone should bravely pick up a pen and write down every chapter and sentence.
30. Life is unsatisfied, just like a river flowing forward forever.
3 1, the real joy of life is to be with people who are worse than yourself.
32. A colorful life is a combination that has experienced thousands of failures and tends to succeed.
33. A person's strength is always small, and what he can know is limited. There are always some people who are better than themselves in some aspects, and there are always some things that he doesn't understand and must ask. Although "a clear conscience" is a phrase we often say, it is really difficult to implement it.
34. As the saying goes, "A good memory is not as good as a bad writing". Reading and writing can help you remember, master the important and difficult points in the book, store information, accumulate writing materials, expand your knowledge and improve your comprehensive analysis ability.
35. In today's knowledge economy and information age, it is harmful to refuse to accept new technologies, new ideas and new thinking that we can't implement for the time being. We should accept new things with an open mind and thinking, regardless of whether we have the ability to implement them now.
36. In life, there are many examples of getting quick success and instant benefit and doing bad things because of impulse. For example, many people often lack patience in learning foreign languages, are unwilling to practice basic skills step by step, do not recite words, and do not understand analytical grammar. They just want the secret of "mastering a foreign language quickly". As a result, it took both energy and time, and finally the bamboo basket drew water with a sieve.
37. Everyone has a perspective, but this only reflects one aspect of things. If you stick to your point of view, you tend to generalize and speculate. In learning, you can't correctly analyze the theme of the problem; In communication, you often doubt others' attitude towards you; When doing things, there are also many people who turn good things into bad things because of their biased understanding.
38. If mortals want to achieve their careers and make contributions, they must clearly understand the current situation and know how to change randomly and move with the camera.
39. Attack and defense are all about winning. If you only know how to attack but don't know how to prevent, and only know how to prevent but don't know how to attack, this will not only separate the two, but also separate their responsibilities. Although you read the art of war of Sun and Wu in your mouth, you have never thought about the wonderful use of attacking and defending the best of both worlds in your heart. How can you win?
40. "that's easy." Mrs. Churchill replied, "We had a quarrel before we left home, and now he admits it was his fault. Those two crooked fingers show that he is kneeling to apologize to me! "
4 1, it is not convenient to apologize directly, and apologize in an implicit way. Many times, people who openly find reasons to admit their mistakes will usually not repent. Those who apologize in an implicit way deserve more trust.
42. Nothing is single, and being a woman is no exception. The taste of being a woman is multifaceted. Women's life is rich and colorful, women have women's happiness, and women also have the cumbersome things that women must face.
43. Love is patient and considerate. Loving someone means accepting everything about her, including her shortcomings. Everyone needs encouragement and affirmation. Criticism and accusation will not only help, but will make things worse.
44. The meditation master replied, "If it rains in the sky, you won't choose which tree to moisten. Glorious and withered trees will get rain. "
45. When people leave, tea will be cold, which is a natural law; When people are gone, tea will get cold. This is a cold world. A cup of tea, Buddha sees Zen, Tao sees qi, Confucianism sees courtesy, and business sees profit. Tea said: I am a glass of water, and what I give you is only your imagination. What you think is you. Heart is tea, tea is heart!
46. When God closes a door, he will inevitably open another window for you. If you lose one thing, you will get another gift somewhere else. The key is to have an optimistic attitude and believe that what is lost will be gained. Be willing to give up and treat your loss correctly, because loss may be the gospel of life, indicating another harvest for you. The big house is too big and the small house is too small.
47. Experience tells us that sometimes talking too much will cause a lot of trouble; Less words can reduce a lot of trouble; Silence can avoid a lot of trouble; Smiling can solve many troubles. In fact, many times, language is not the only or best way to communicate with people. Sometimes a knowing look, a bright smile, a humble gesture, a heartfelt hug and a kind gesture are worth a thousand words!
48. The best state of mind is to be calm. If life is a drop of water, desire is a rolling river. Short life, who can win the race with infinite desire? The desire for life is hard to get, but it is hard to let go. If there is no chance to go, let it go safely. You should know that tolerance is great, and no desire is just.
49. You will never be younger than you are now. But please believe that if you have a good attitude towards life, no matter how hard life hits you, you can hold your head high and move on, realize the little happiness that makes life beautiful, and be yourself in the things that make you happy. Finally, your life will become full and happy, and your life will really become wonderful and wonderful.
50. If the years are quiet, then support your body and mind; If time is dark, experience more. The most puzzling thing in life is not that no one knows you, but that you don't know yourself. How can you have it if you don't give up? If you don't keep loneliness, you can't see prosperity. Once beautiful, it was just empty talk; The foot is difficult, but it points to tomorrow. No matter what fate gives you, good or bad, you need to face it seriously and deal with it calmly. Regret is life, and occasional flaws are true.
5 1, life is like taking a train. The scenery in the past is so beautiful that you can't leave, but you always have to move forward and leave, and then you tell yourself, it doesn't matter, I will definitely come back to see it later, but in fact you often never come back. The lost time, the retreating scenery, and the people I met are all drifting away.
52. If you want to be big, you must first touch the source, not be trapped by trivial matters, not confused by profit, not fascinated by secret feelings, not stingy with gains and losses, not caring about temporary success or failure, and have a big picture and a big picture; Second, aim high, don't overdo it, don't pester people, hide in the city, be quiet, control the proliferation of desires and valleys, prevent the breeding of bad habits, be calm and improve your peace of mind; If you can give up again, the trees are high and the branches are numerous, and people give up the ego, what they put down and what they get.
53. Men choose the long term and women choose the present; Men choose to be happy, women choose to be at ease; Men choose abstraction, women choose image; Men choose fresh, women choose fresh; Men choose faces, women choose linings; Men choose initiative and women choose passivity; Men choose to hunt, women choose to get; Men choose decisively, women choose carefully; Men choose secretaries and women choose chairmen.
54. He doesn't love you anymore. You turn around with tears in your eyes, run with tears in your eyes, and look back as you run to see if he is still there. How much you wish he was watching, all your running is for him. However, running and running, no tears, and no longer love him. You are running for yourself. Every heartbreak, every tearful run, makes you strong. When you are strong, you will meet people who are stronger than you; When you get better, you deserve better.
55. Treat others as yourself. A person's life can't always be smooth sailing and a hundred flowers blossom. There will always be such difficulties and hardships.
56. The most beautiful smile is a kind of sunshine from the heart. And sunlight can't be made. On this point alone, human beings should not be conceited. After all, we can't make everything.
57. The strong people in life are not without distress, but without distress before others.
58. What you learn is exercise, but what you can't learn is tempering.
59. The eternal essence of science lies in unremitting pursuit.
60. Life is inevitable. If you have problems with others, be more open-minded and patient, and you will pass. It is a person's self-cultivation, and it is also the best policy to retreat.
6 1, people are poor, they don't necessarily beg you, people are lazy, they don't necessarily use you, they are not superficial in judging people, they are not hypocritical in doing things, living is not a waste, and waiting is not a delay for others.
62, bearish, a sea of flowers in my heart; Relax, there is a blue sky overhead.
63. Most of life is about patience. Give something, but you can't enjoy everything. It's as light as stopping water. It's nice to meet each other late and have a aftertaste after parting.
64. Try to live the life you want. If not, get used to yourself, but don't.
65. Don't be a boring person, don't make any decisions when you are angry, and don't eat things that are bad for your health.
66. It is not so much for a better life as for a meaningful death.
To the world, you may be one person, but to one person, you may be the world.
68. Do what you have said, and don't say it if you can't! Even if what you promised is difficult, try to finish it. As long as there is a little hope, you must complete it wholeheartedly, because you have promised others, or do it without talking!
No matter what happens, good or bad, don't break the original rules of life, everything goes according to plan!
70. Don't take money too seriously, and don't take money too seriously. At every stage of life, there are things that can only be realized at that stage. The best way to keep youth is to keep a young heart forever; The best way to keep healthy is to keep exercising; The best way to keep happy is to help others; The best way to make sure you don't make mistakes is to think twice before you do.
7 1, giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of kindness. When you have six apples, don't eat them all, because if you eat all six apples, you can only get six apples. If you take out five of the six apples for others to eat, although on the surface you lose five apples, in fact you gain the friendship and goodwill of the other five people. When others have other fruits, they will definitely share them with you. You will get an orange from this person and a pear from that person. In the end, you may get six different fruits and six people's friendship. So giving up is a kind of wisdom.
72. If you can choose, don't end a love with hate.
73. Everyone's love story is a Bible, which records the generations and future of this world.
74. Slow down and life will be more interesting.
75. There is always something missing in life. What you get, you lose. The important thing is that you know what you want in the end. He who chases two rabbits will surely get nothing.
God loves you because he is like this, not because of what you did or didn't do.
77. Leisure is a kind of inaction, which is not static or dead, but a life that makes life elegant, smooth and full of vitality.
78. When self-esteem reaches the corner, take out all the good things, and you are still silent.
79. If you look forward to tomorrow, you must be realistic first; If you want to be brilliant, then you must stick to it.
80. Life itself is an experience, whether it is detached or tangled. Don't turn life into a bitter pursuit, be indifferent to a quiet life, treat those noises calmly and objectively, experience those colors in obscurity, and believe that life can always meet that quiet joy.
8 1, a word from philosophy of life: small things show people's character. In daily life, whether it's work or entertainment, your words and deeds are the heart code for others to measure your character, so you can't help but abide by the principle of honesty.
82. Where did the days begin to moan?
83. The road of life is very long, and I have learned to be indifferent. Not all stories can be stated, not all emotions can be confided. Since we have come together in this world, we should cherish the value of life. In a sense, life is more difficult than death. It takes only a moment of courage to die, but it takes a lifetime of courage to live.
84. Life is a solo tour. Maybe someone in the middle took the same road, but they will eventually separate. This is the answer given by time: if you can't have it, the only thing you can do is not to forget it.
85. If you just wag your head and tail in the desert and hesitate, you will be trapped in the desert. Gone are the days of hanging from a tree. Many people who change careers and remarry are correct and successful. But before you change careers or remarry, you must think more and weigh the pros and cons. Hasty or passive, are doomed to failure.
I think people will tamper with their memories. The more beautiful, the more beautiful, and vice versa.
87. Life is like a pencil that is constantly used. It was sharp at first, and then it gradually became smooth. However, if it goes too well, it's almost time to cut it again.