My girlfriend and I are both family members and rural people. We have been together for five years and lived together for one year. Because our personalities are quite compatible, I plan to tell my family to bring my girlfriend back to meet my parents this year, but my parents don't agree, because my girlfriend is a carrier of hepatitis B virus. As I have said, the problem is not serious and not contagious. In addition, the girlfriend's family is average, with a newborn sister and a younger brother who has not graduated. At present, my girlfriend hasn't graduated long and hasn't found a job yet.
My parents have worked hard for so many years and will help me buy a house in the city. I hope I can find a city girl, preferably one with a better family situation, to relieve the pressure, and that's right in the future. I've also heard that falling in love is one thing and getting married is another, but after all, after being together for so long, emotional things don't mean separating, and it's not the reason for the two of us. My parents told me some very realistic things for me to think about, because there are many women in my unit and of course there are many suitors, so my family asked me to think about it.
At present, the family means that the main requirement is to give his girlfriend a stable career, such as a teacher. But at present, it is not the time to take the teacher qualification examination. It is said that it will arrive in 165438+ 10. My girlfriend really loves me and is very nice. She means to invite me to her house this year, because she is not young, and everyone in her family is urging me, as everyone knows. But the family disagreed, saying that going home almost means agreeing to be together in the future. Please give me your thoughts.
If you send it to this place, it means that you are wavering and you don't want to say that your girlfriend is not good. From her point of view, you are really a good object, but as a married person, I want to tell you that marriage is absolutely realistic. After marriage, you will find that love is not the first.
Reality is important. In addition, hepatitis B can give birth to children, but it cannot be breastfed. You have to think about it. What I don't understand most is why you are thinking about this question now. You've been living with someone else for five years, and now you ask. If not, why live with others? Isn't it delayed? You should have considered it from the beginning. If you can't accept it, don't waste other people's time. Alas, the girl is sad. It's a little immoral for you to break up now.
Under this condition, if it is not better for you, what do you want?
This is the rhythm that big sister looks like mother. Anyway, I dare not think about it in the future. If I were * * *, I wouldn't look for my broken leg. Don't spray me, I am a very direct person, and I don't want to say, Oh, I love her very much, she is very kind to me, and we love her to death. I only know that hepatitis A is nothing, and hepatitis B is no, no, no! ! ! ! !