After a while, his muscles began to atrophy slowly and his body function began to deteriorate. Finally, he became a vegetable.
For such a family, the blow is causal. Young officers in their twenties were the pillar of the family and suddenly collapsed. The wife has no stable job, and the daughter needs to be taken care of at the age of three or four. His wife told me that I was dead.
Hard times will last forever. Children need the warmth of their parents and families. After a painful psychological struggle, the wife chose to be strong. The army has performed related operations for the deputy company commander and arranged to be hospitalized in the 82 nd Hospital of the People's Liberation Army. This life has no end.
When I was in the cadre section of the Political Department, I followed the section chief every year to express my condolences to cadres from difficult families. One afternoon in 2006, we came to the ward of the deputy company commander of the Second Hospital. The ward is on the west side of the first floor of the inpatient department, and the environment is relatively clean. When you entered the room, you smelled a strong smell of medicine. The room is not big, about 20 square meters, with a separate bathroom. There is a hospital bed in the middle, and the deputy company commander is lying on the bed with his throat cut and a breathing tube inserted. The hospital bed is full of medical equipment, with a sputum aspirator and an oxygen bottle next to it. The room is full of a small bed and a hospital folding bed. The cooker and juicer are on the small table beside the bed.
Three families have lived in such an environment for so many years. We have arranged for the last part of the company to visit the vice president, so we talked to his wife the most.
She said Yang Can couldn't breathe by herself. He lives on a ventilator. Every time she eats, she will use a juicer to cook cooked meat, vegetables, rice and so on. Paste, and then use a syringe to enter the stomach through a straw.
During the conversation, Lao Yang snored. Sister-in-law got up and skillfully inserted the tube of the sputum suction machine into the trachea from the throat incision to suck sputum. She said that she would suck sputum every hour, rub the yang from time to time, massage all over the body to prevent muscle atrophy, and so on at night. I can imagine how my sister-in-law spent her life. I haven't slept once in years.
To our surprise, my sister-in-law can communicate with Lao Yang. She arranged 26 Chinese letters in four rows and blinked to judge what Lao Yang wanted to express. Sister-in-law communicated with Lao Yang in front of us and said, "Lao Yang, the commander is here to see you." . Lao Yang blinked and told us, "Lao Yang said that thanks to the attention of the army and commanders, it brought you trouble." . It makes my nose sour and makes my tears flow. Lao Yang fell ill at work. He cares about what the army should do. But he said something grateful and uneasy. It's really hard.
During the chat, Lao Yang's daughter was picked up from school by her grandmother. The child is very sensible. She asked us to say hello to her. Put down the bag and ran to my father's bedside. He said to Lao Yang, "Dad, I'm back from school." Then, he took out his schoolbag and began to do his homework on the small table at the bedside.
According to my sister-in-law, my daughter is sensible. She usually helps to take care of her father, massage his hands and feet and scrub his body. I did well in my studies and was the first in my class. We are very satisfied with this sentence.
Before leaving, my sister-in-law said to us, "Please rest assured that I will take good care of Lao Yang. For the children, Dad is at home. "
After the media reported her concern for her husband, she received widespread attention and was rated as a moving soldier by the group army. For a soldier, such a wife is great, selfless and most worthy of our respect.