When the family was having dinner together, mother joked, "Isn't this great?" If you nag me, I will nag your son. "My father smiled, but I pretended to be angry." You all have people nagging, so who am I nagging? It's not easy being a son, mom. You really should give birth to a younger sister or brother for me, so that I can be nagged. "
Mother smiled more happily. "I can't give birth now. You can marry a daughter-in-law to nag you, haha." Okay, here we go again. I'd better be rational. silence is golden.
When I was a child, I was always tired of my mother's nagging. I've never seen anyone nagging like this. Even though she is my mother, I still hate it. She complains about food, clothing, housing and transportation.
In summer, I drink cold water. She says that if the cold water is not good, I will drink my stomach. I'm in a hurry to go out with my friends when I'm eating. She said eating and running would hurt her stomach. In spring, she competed with her friends who could ride a bike faster. She said it was dangerous. In winter, I don't like to dress bloated. She said it would be cold and I couldn't take it off. In autumn, the class organized an autumn outing. While helping me pack my clothes, she nagged about the precautions. I play games and don't listen at all. It's really annoying Are there no teachers there? Really.
Sometimes, I even express my disgust at my mother's nagging by losing my temper. I'm afraid my father will be angry if I go too far. In a hurry, I just don't go home for dinner, close the door after dinner, don't watch TV, and watch cartoons in my room.
However, my mother never leaves me. I hid in my room, and she kept knocking until I opened the door, euphemistically calling it "Let's talk it over". I am most afraid of this sentence.
They say we have a good talk, but in fact I have been bowing my head. She keeps talking and occasionally asks me, and I can only say "hmm", "good", "I know", "good" and "no".
I don't have the strength to get angry, refute or lose my temper. I just want to have a good cry. I suddenly understood the Tang Priest's feelings about Wukong in A Chinese Odyssey.
Wukong, you and I are actually in the same boat!
Fortunately, I began to stay in junior high school, and a carefree feeling of "growing up and living independently" stirred my rebellious heart. At that time, I felt that I finally got rid of my mother's nagging and could breathe free air. The air on campus is no longer dull, but exceptionally fresh.
At that time, just before the entrance examination, my mother's expression was more serious than mine, as if it was her who entered the examination room. Watching the students with eyes full walk into the examination room, she was worried and said firmly, "Don't be afraid, relax.". I doubt that this sentence is for myself, because obviously she is more afraid than me. "Teacher Liu Huan said that the big deal is to start all over again. Look at this pen. Do you have all these tickets? Look again. I'm afraid I missed them. What else is there? Oh, by the way, the teacher at the parents' meeting said that 2B pencils were needed, and we should follow the teacher's arrangement in the examination room. The teacher said to stop writing as soon as possible ... "Fortunately, my father was there that day and helped stop my mother's nagging. I smiled at her.
At that time, only I knew that when I walked into the examination room with my back to them, my eyes were wet for no reason. I remembered that I was sick in primary school. Although my mother was angry and complained that I didn't pay attention, she still came to touch my forehead from time to time when I was sleeping at night, for fear that the fever wouldn't go down. I think of junior high school. I thought I had grown up, so I took the clothes I had saved for a week home and let my mother wash them. At that time, I didn't buy a washing machine at home, so my mother nagged me that I didn't grow into clothes while washing, but she still washed my clothes cleanly. Think of high school, every weekend she carefully prepared delicious and nutritious "mother soup" and took a bus from the town to the county seat to go to school. ...
At that time, I realized that my mother's nagging was because I was her eternal concern. Under her tireless nagging and mine, it is her nervousness and concern for me.
I have to feel that sometimes, growth is really just a moment.
After the college entrance examination, our family went on a trip. Resting by the lake outside Jimei Middle School in Xiamen, crying came from a distance. A mother carefully wiped off the ice cream that accidentally stuck to her child's clothes, while anxiously saying that her child was careless, and finally comforted her child.
I can't help thinking: I am so happy. Look at mom and dad sitting next to each other, each holding a small pineapple. The two old people are quarrelling every day, and they are not bad themselves.
After entering the university, I am faced with greater pressure, the pressure of study and the pressure of employment. Finally, when I was a child, my wish to get rid of my mother's nagging came true. They are in my hometown, and I am out of town. I am farther away from them, but I am not happy at all, but lost. After consideration, I decided not to go back to my hometown and develop in big cities.
I called my mother and told her that she comforted me on the phone and said, "My son has grown up and should go outside to see the world. His son has no reason to be with his parents when he grows up. We don't need you to worry. Take care of yourself. If you are too tired outside, I will allow you to come back and rest for a day or two, call us more when you are free, and find us a good wife by the way. Hanako children next door are playing soy sauce, and our grandson hasn't seen the shadow yet ... "
This time, I didn't interrupt my mother's nagging, but I think her nagging is the warmest words in the world.
You can't have your cake and eat it. There are more opportunities to work hard in big cities, but I am far away from my parents and can't take care of them. I called them and they all said yes, don't worry about me, let me rest assured and pay attention to my health. I also said yes, let them not worry and take care of themselves.
However, as long as you have concerns in your heart, you can't help worrying, and you can't really rest assured until you see them around you. Therefore, many times in life, many choices, you can't have your cake and eat it.
Looking back on the little things I got along with my mother, she occupied most of my memories when she nagged, but I really spent little time with her. Since I can remember, I have only been with her for about 8 years.
After junior high school, I began to stay in school. Until I left the society, the distance between us became farther and farther. I once saw a sentence somewhere: all the feelings in the world are developing closer and closer. It's just that the distance between family members is getting farther and farther, but family members are also the most inseparable.
Mother understood, so she said, "An adult bird should fly outside to see the world by itself."
Grow up slowly, and when it comes to getting married and having children and forming another family of their own, the role of parents is getting more and more backward. When they get old, their memory deteriorates or even they have physical problems, they will become "children" and I will become their "parents".
But so what? Isn't this the real "crow feeding back"?
When I was a child, I was a child. They are parents. They take care of me and tolerate me. They grow up to be "children" and I am their parents. I take care of them and tolerate them.
Just as they cherish the opportunity to take care of me, at the last moment of their lives, God gave me the opportunity to take care of them. I cherish it and am very lucky, because God gave me an opportunity to take care of my parents.
Everything has to end. When they are ready to leave, I can do my last filial piety as a son and thank them.
Parents still have a place to go in life, and parents only have the way home, so do it and cherish it.